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I don't know if I am posting too many threads but sometimes I really need advice.
I met up 4th time with this one particular girl, was about to put a condom on while being hard, her being wet, and I lost fuckin erection. Couldn't get it up for a while. I got into my head way too much. Though I havent slept much night before, was few times afraid my sister is entering the flat as well
The worst part is I woke up without feeling horny/urge to fap/anything. I don't feel like I really want to have sex, I guess last night situation created stressful state of mind inside me. And yet, I still want to hit that girl to come over, probably cause I seek validation right there.
What would your next step with this be?
edit: Maybe, most probably, I am kinda nervous because this is first lay happening after 3 years of being in a relationship.
Cialis through 2 years of use is more meant to get you going during spontaneous circumstances. If you really want and I mean really want to have hard dick and keep it I suggest you try Sildenafil aka Viagra.
Viagra is meant to be as a vasilodator mean more blood flow. Some people even take it pre workout for the crazy ass pump and blood flow it gives you.
Erection loss while using a condom is fairly common. Especially if the condom size is too tight (causes restricted blood flow) or if you aren't used to wearing one. Do a Google search for 69mm condom and see if you can order some online. These condoms are at least 30% larger than Magnums so they offer plenty of room.
Another thing is that it will take you a couple of sessions to get acclimated with a new sex partner, particularly after a long term relationship. Since you've been hanging out with this girl a few times, you shouldn't have an issue inviting her over and trying again. Make sure you don't drink any alcohol the day of the meetup and if you have some Cialis or Horny Goat Weed on hand..take some 1-2 hours before sex. This is will make sustaining an erection much easier which will give you the confidence needed to lessen performance anxiety over time.
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