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Cheers. When we get good at this (after 500+ approaches) the average will be more like 1 number every 4. To me that's AMAZING odds - I'm used to online dating where I message 20 girls and only a couple will even reply, let alone actually give me a number.
EDIT: You already are doing "real man shit". The AA program is infinitely harder than most guys will ever even dream about in their entire life. It's ballsy as fuck walking up and doing drills - even if you're not asking for a number (yet).
Most average faggots (aka the average guy) couldn't even ask a cute girl for the time.
@RogerRoger: you're welcome man, you're killing it.
Quick update: today went out for a bit to cold approach. pussied out a huge bunch of girls (like 30, fucking hell) then finally had enough of being a bitch and just walked straight up to one.
she was asian, super cute, told her she was cute and shook her hand. as I was shaking her hand, i had the urge to just hang onto her hand - so i did. i used to be terrified at the thought of even trying that, but for some reason, holding hands with a stranger feels like the most natural thing in the world (will come back to this point in a sec)
asked for her number, she looked like she wanted to but was like "ummmmmm... i dunno..." I teased her and was like "dooooo ittttt, go on, goooo onnnnnn, what's your number" but she eventually said no. still a super fun interaction and way better than my other ones.
so the holding hands thing: it's weird, but it felt natural. and why shouldn't it be natural to touch a girl and hold her hand if you like her? it reminds me of being a little kid again. you just do whatever you want, with no rules, nothing you "should" or "shouldn't" do. you just do whatever you feel like. and when a guy likes a girl, why shouldn't he hold her hand?
holding hands with a stranger is so fucking amazing to me - i've come SO FUCKING FAR in the last year or two. i honestly NEVER used to touch girls - not even female friends. I was terrified to even HUG my female friends, I used to shake their fucking hands when i'd see them and when saying goodbye. how fucking autistic is that? even with my girlfriends, i'd NEVER do any public displays of affection - not even holding hands, let alone kissing (even with girls I'd been dating for years).
so to hold some random girl's hand 2 seconds after meeting her is a revelation to me.
and the truly exciting thing is, I have so fucking far to go. this is barely even the beginning.
Hey, bro. Hopefully this isn't too late, but have you ever heard about RISUG and Vasalgel? Maybe you can take a look before you consider the procedure. They should be ready for market in a few years or so, and it's reversible. I want to try it out, myself.
To repeat, "When I was 16 I knew... I would never have kids. Ever."
Appreciate the "are you REALLY sure about this" from you guys though. I 100% fully realise it's something I can never take back. I accepted that a long time ago, have just been working up the courage to actually do this.
Quick update: Tomorrow is my vasectomy. Nervous, obviously (a doctor is going to hack into my nuts), but this is something I've put off for a few years now so it needs to be done.
I've honestly become totally paranoid and completely fucking OCD during sex these last few months. I can't enjoy sex - I check the condom like 5 times during sex to make sure it hasn't broken (I had one break when a girl wasn't on the pill about 6 months ago, I nearly had a heart attack). I make sure I always bust my nut in the girls mouth and make her swallow it lol - that's how paranoid I am about getting a girl pregnant. I can't even cum on her body any more without freaking out - and I sure as hell can't cum inside her (even while wearing a condom). It's at the point where sex is becoming less enjoyable because all I can think is "this could potentially make her pregnant, I'm playing with fire".
My life is starting to come together, I have my own apartment, job I love, looking into starting up my own business/pushing my photography business further, I'm getting fit, starting to chase girls, learning to cold approach - I would fall apart if I ever got a girl pregnant.
I'm going to feel SO much better after the procedure, I'll be able to relax again.
At the moment I only have 1 fuckbuddy (I'm kinda ashamed to be honest - it's way below what I'm happy with). But I know that's going to improve the more I cold approach, and I'm excited to really get into that.
She's more like a girlfriend, we go on adventures together, I took her camping, she sleeps over from time to time etc. Only see each other about once every 10 days though (any more than that and girls get too attached, NOT RECOMMENDED). She's cool to hang around with, and the sex is fucking epic. Been seeing her about 5 months now, which is close to my record for retention (excluding my "blue pill" days when I had a long-term girlfriend). But she knows I bang other girls. She kinda hates it but also loves it, she constantly brings it up, and has this smile on her face and a twinkle in her eye. Like she's amazed by it. She also loves asking about me cold approaching (but I don't tell her, I'd rather keep the mystery or some shit). She doesn't know about GLL, but she does know I approach girls to get their number.
I've been busy (cold approaching and working) so haven't had much time and have been kinda slow the last week replying to her texts. Have kinda ignored her a bit. She texted me to ask if we were over or if I wasn't interested in her any more. Been a while since a girl was that open and vulnerable - most girls just slowly fade away instead of actually using their words (girls are useless at communication - which is hilarious because the stereotype is supposed to be that MEN don't communicate and girls are wonderfully open and communicative... HAHAHAHAHA). She's also pretty vulnerable with her feelings in the most adorable way - a couple of times after sex she tells me not to look at her, and she gets shy. She comes up to my ear, and whispers "I have to tell you a secret..." She gets even more shy, then whispers "Um... I really like you...." How fucking cute are girls?
Anyway, after she texted to ask if we were over, I told her to meet me for a coffee. So we sit down and she looks depressed, like she thinks this is it, I'm dropping her. I asked her if she enjoyed being with me (obviously yes), told her I also enjoy spending time with her, so it's an open-and-shut-case: we'll keep hanging out. She grabbed me and hugged the shit outta me for like 1 minute, wouldn't let go, was actually pretty sweet. We spent the day highfiving people, having sex, eating food, doing some other shit. Let her sleep over and in the morning she made me breakfast.
I'll definitely be keeping her around for a while, can't see any reason to drop her. She's sweet, affectionate, sex is 10/10 (best sex of my life), buys me gifts, she's cute (7/10), tries VERY VERY VERY hard to please me, she expects me to lead her and make all the decisions & tell her what to do (I completely avoid dominant women - I'm only interested in girls who are least a little submissive and know their place). She calls me Daddy too, which I fucking love.
Girls, for all their flaws, can be pretty cool sometimes.
Lol my nigger, it's in 3 hours time. Nervous, but really I just want to fucking have it done so I can relax. Will post an update tomorrow.
Last night I got laid, it was almost "accidental". So this girl I mentioned earlier, the one I kissed in the busy shopping mall. I'd made tentative plans to meet her last night, but I completely fucking forgot about it (been more focused on the vasectomy). She texted me yesterday to ask if we're still on. I was so tempted to say no, but thought fuck it, could use the distraction. So we meet.
I had absolutely NO plans to try and get laid - my apartment is a mess, there's vasectomy paperwork everywhere, and my mind was on other things. So I just took her for a walk around my area, we went to a park and just sat on the swings chatting, etc. Felt more like 2 friends hanging out rather than a date. I was cool with that - was just grateful for the distraction. And she's pretty easy and relaxed to talk to, she's interested in my life, etc.
We're walking back towards the train station, I'm about to walk her home. At some point I kiss her, pretty passionately, squeezing her ass hard, and she's REALLY into it, moaning and doing that thing girls do where they "melt" and you kinda have to support them so they don't fall over lol. We keep walking to the train station and in my head I'm debating - should I take her to my apartment, or to the train station? I thought "fuck it" and walked her to my apartment. She doesn't even say anything (normally girls will nervously say "Oh, are we going to your place....")
In my apartment, sitting on the couch, I'm STILL thinking "I don't know if I can be bothered fucking tonight." She's definitely cute, not super cute but cute (6/10). Again, "fuck it" so I kiss her passionately and she's REALLY into it. She was more into it than me. Absolutely NO resistance, but she was clearly really really nervous, shaking a little bit. I love when girls are nervous during sex, they're so cute.
Sex was pretty awesome, only lasted about 15 minutes, her pussy felt amazing. She was really turning me on and I tend to be really rough when I'm turned on (hair pulling, choking, calling them a whore, faceslapping, etc). I wasn't too rough with her but halfway through she told me I was. I said "It's your fault, you're turning me on so much, I can't help myself." Drove her crazy.
By the way, women get turned on by a guy being turned on. Magic words to say are things like "You drive me insane" or "I can't stop myself" or "I just HAVE to have you" etc. Women fucking LOVE that shit.
So good sex, we chatted for a bit after, I walked her back to the station. She messaged me a few hours afterwards which was cool. Will definitely see her again but she goes back to Singapore in 3 weeks so there's a time limit on it.
Bet you already know this (or maybe the technology has improved) but I heard there's a sort of danger period after the procedure (like a day or two) where you can still impregnate. Just saying to be careful.
so the vasectomy was amazing. everybody from the nurses to the secretaries was friendly as hell.
i walk in, they check my paperwork and then show me an instructional video.
dr comes in, Dr Andrew, he's super fucking cool and funny, we start chatting about my photography, his daughter is also a photographer. really chill dude, made me feel right at ease.
he asks me why i dont want to have kids, i say "Because theyre gross", he cracks up and says "all right lets do this thing".
so i go lay on a table, the nurse (nurse Jenny) is super fucking funny too. she and Dr Andrew and I are joking the whole time. i had my headphones to listen to music but ended up just talking shit with them the entire time. it was only about 20mins (felt like 5 mins though).
they gave me a local anaesthetic but also this drug thing called a "green whistle". i could suck on it as much as i wanted. no shit, IT GOT ME HIGH. like legitimately fucking HIGH like having 100 BEERS. my words were slurred, i couldnt stop giggling, and my head was spinning (in a good way). the whole time cracking jokes with the dr and the nurse, got to tell my favourite joke too: "How do you know when there's a doctor in the room? He'll tell you."
As for pain, NOTHING. A very very slight "pinch" when the local anaesthetic was injected but it was barely noticeable. nothing after that. i told the Dr I'd been putting off a vasectomy because i was scared of the pain. lol he said "youre a pussy, real men get vasectomies, i even gave myself my own vasectomy".
once it was all done, they even called a taxi for me. fucking cool people, everyone there was so friendly and chilled. the whole thing from start to finish including waiting was only 1.5hrs.
so glad I did this.
so the local anaesthetic hasnt worn off yet, doc said there MAY be some pain, but only minor. some guys get no pain at all. will update tomorrow or the next day, but supposedly just panadol is enough.
there is that weird "discomfort" feeling like when you get kicked in the balls. you know how it feels "weird" in your tummy? i have that. it's not pain, just that "weird" feeling.
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