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Today I hit a goal I've had for a while: deadlifted 130kg (286lbs) for 4x5. It was really fucking easy too. Considering when I started I could barely lift 40kg, I've now well and truly proven to myself I can actually gain muscle and strength - I'm not destined to be a skinnyfat midget.
Re style: Crappy bathroom selfies, but here's my current style now. Much better than the weird shit I was wearing before.
Once I got her number, I did my usual thing of sending her a nude photo of Woody Allen tied up. But this chick didn't reply - she didn't say anything at all, just acted like I hadn't sent the photo. That should have been the first red flag. Normally i NEVER have anything to do with chicks who autistically ignore messages like this. It's fucking retarded behaviour and I never usually accept it, I drop the girl immediately.
Then on the date I did lots of weird shit I have never done before, just to experiment. I wanted to see if this shit would still work if I changed some of the variables. So I wasn't dominant. I tried being more relaxed. I didn't touch her much on the date. I asked her what she wanted to do a few times, instead of telling her what to do.
Once we got back to my apartment, I didn't make a move on her. I let her seduce me, because I was "curious" what would happen if I did nothing. I wasn't all that rough with her either.
We had sex for a bit, but I was completely different - I was curious what would happen if I was more gentle. She even looked like it was too "intense" for her at one point, so I stopped and said "You ok? We can take a break if you'd like".
I NEVER DO ANY OF THIS SHIT NORMALLY, I have no fucking idea why tonight I felt like trying it. It's like I wanted to "roleplay" and see what'd happen.
So we cuddled for a bit then I tried to initiate sex again and she said "No." I figured it was just the usual girl game thing where they pretend to say no... so I kept rubbing her pussy. She gets really serious and says "Andy, I mean it. No more tonight."
I say "Huh? How come? What's up?"
Her: "Because I said no."
Immediately I'm like "Ok we'll call it a night" and I boot her out.
So what have I learned? If I give girls even a tiny bit of "control" or "respect" or whatever you wanna call it, they'll pull bullshit like this. This is EXACTLY what used to happen to me all the god damn time. I'd get "last minute resistance" and all that bullshit (since starting my BDSM lines, I have not ONCE had last minute resistance - other than tonight).
I'm so disgusted by the words "I mean it. No." I can't think of anything more disgusting. It's so unfeminine, it's such a disgusting way of talking. There's a billion more feminine ways she could have said it like "I'm sore, is it ok if we don't do any more tonight?" or "Is it ok if we save it for next time?" or "i'm sorry, I don't want to fuck any more tonight but I can make you cum in other ways?" etc etc. Rather than "No."
Bleh. I learned a lot tonight. Don't "roleplay" and don't try to be something I'm not.
I believe dominance goes beyond just actions and how you lead the interaction. There is suble things like strong eye contact, your whole vibe. Im not even sure it can be faked. You dont need to go full on alpha jerk to be dominant. There is nothing wrong with it but its not the only way.
She has a good body, but she seems to have that "annoying bitch" face. Never a good sign.
And that is why I look for girls who have high social/emotional intelligence. A girl has so many ways to say No, yet she does that in an annoying way, she's a failure as a girl. Or when they talk like dudes, immediate turn off for me and often a red flag.
The good part of knowing you can get laid, is that you can finally screen not just for DTF girls, but also for YOUR type of girl. No need to compromise your standards when you got chicks already.
I guess that's a good reminder for you and what's good for you.
Haven't banged any new girls, been focusing on work situation. Looking for a second job, first job isn't paying the bills anymore.
Woody Allen still losing weight, is good.
I'm still seeing Krav Maga girl, but I've renamed her to Dungeons and Dragons. I was walking outside with her the other night and we ran into one of my mates. I forgot her actual name LOL so I literally said "Hey Mike, this is Dungeons and Dragons girl."
Turns out she likes being called "Little girl", and she's very slowly warming up to the idea of calling me Daddy. Jesus it's BY FAR my biggest fantasy, I fucking love any girls who call me Daddy.
Focusing on learning Data Science as a future career. Got a mate who does it, money is great. I already know a few programming languages so shouldn't be too hard.
Still plan on getting a tatt.... when I have the money.
Gym still going good, getting stronger.
Got a couple dates this week so will post next time I get laid.
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