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I think you could in theory leave out "bdsm" part of it, right? Since I am not ready for extreme stuff, I am only planning to ask them if they like when a guy pulls their hair during sex or orders them around and then invite them "for a drink".
How would you set up a rape fantasy. I believe it can be done do girls you have been going for a few weeks or months like a fwb.
P.S. I am not a newbie to bdsm and have done candle play for 2 of my lays and they loved it.
Also for the newbies, talk, communicate with the girl and respect her boundaries when doing these things. If you respect her boundaries, she will be open you to try new things with her.
P.P.S I have to get back online. Fuck 5 or 6s to get some action.
It's like Andy said, you gotta build up to it. Once they're comfortable with spank move onto choke, then onto light bondage, then heavy bondage, then full on hog tie.
Get them used to you forcing them to cum beyond their limits, and after a while just tell them you're gonna 'rape them' while you're turning them on - this is an over simplified version and I'd recommend reading the blogs Andy has linked.
Rape fantasy isn't recommend unless you're experienced - you fuck it up and you've literally raped her...
Had a date with a girl from Tinder who was supposed to text me three weeks ago, but nothing, until I hit her up on Tinder with Andy's lines, also the day before the date hit her up with "wear nice panties tomorrow".
- my hottest lay so far (daygame and online)
- she wore a romper that intentionally was made to look like a really short skirt (apparently I was supposed to tell her what to wear...)
- 15 mins into the date she was secretly showing me the side of her lacy panties
- we got many stares as we sat on a couch facing tables at a bar, got a bit handy with her naked legs
- tried a few toys from my drawer that I never used on anyone so far: nipple clamps, flogger, thigh sling, a "wrists to thighs" restrainer
- following bdsm typical guidelines we discussed hard and soft limits right at the bar: no pee play , no face slapping
Assuming she would have texted me anyway without me reconnecting with her, it probably would have been just a typical first date with light to heavy kino with me inviting her home after 1-2 hours into the date
- she regularly yelled to fuck her harder and harder and harder, which made me feel like being issued commands and being submissive haha
- forgot some stuff to try: eye mask, dog leash, non-sticky tape
35 yo | In USA since 27 | Failing Nofap since 28 | First sex at 31 | TRT since 34
Lays: 20 | daygame: 5, online: 15 | squirted: 11, asses eaten: 11, swallowed: 10, anal: 4, MFM: 1
Approaches: 500+ | AA Program: 18/64 as of 2016
5 Approaches a Day Log
First time trying the lines on a number I just got from a grocery store daygame, my second approach ever at a store. She didn't ask me any questions during the daygame conversation...
22yo just graduated
I'm still not sure what Andy means by "something very specific"... considering 57% of women have predominantly submissive fantasies (same internet individual was saying only 8% of men have predominantly dominant fantasies)
See that's the difference between you and me. I'm moving in the right direction, but last time I had that happen to me (girl was way fatter in real life than her pics, which were obviously from years ago), I felt bad and ended up wasting an hour on a stupid date with her. Instead of, like, the moment I saw her, being like, "ummm... no" and turning around.
You are not a "nice guy" anymore. And just look at how much ass you're getting. A true inspiration for the children.
(Question aimed at the veterans): Guys, I've been trying the whole "message girls on Instagram" thing. Quite a few have replied, so at least some of these hot girls are actually talking to me (on Tinder they sometimes match with me but never ever reply to me). But I'm not having any luck actually meeting them or fucking them.
Can you guys take a look at my instagram and lemme know what you think? Username is: handyandypandy
I'm thinking it's a combination of a) I'm not attractive enough and b) all my photos are my artistic photography shots, and not actually "lifestyle" shots of me/my life/etc. Basically it's an artist's Instagram, rather than "cool hot guy's Instagram".
I have more followers than most of the girls I'm messaging; I don't know if they give a shit about that or not.
This has been brought up before. I don't think anyone I the community here has a good script to lay from Instagram.
The only two observations I have is that from the pics it's hard to tell who's you.
To make up for that without changing the artistic nature of the account I think you should regularly post stories of your activities, and eventually have enough to list them.
If you're cold messaging these chicks then you'll definitely have a harder time, cause of the setting in general. In tinder they know what's up, Instagram is just social.
What I usually do with the chicks I match online, is to move the conversation to Instagram/Snapchat instead. I've been getting a lot of matches lately, so I'd like to keep them around that way, and not just a be a number.
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