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Second date with powerlifter gym bunny. She is absolutely a virgin, she's gotta be. She's so damn shy when i try to kiss her, especially with people around. She said "that was my first real kiss" but I couldn't tell if she was joking or being serious. She's only 18 and from china, so she could be telling the truth.
She's so ridiculously hot. But it's funny how quickly you stop being "starstruck" and just get used to their hotness. Since she's so inexperienced, I'm now feeling like I'm the one who's above her 'level" and she should be trying to impress me. Nuts.
Sounds obvious and stupid to say, but hot girls are still just girls.
Got another date with a second girl right now, will post later.
Dude I get psyched out by hot girls still. I assume the best way to handle that (besides getting more experience with hot girls) is to get lots of action from less hot girls and become more sexually experienced.
It's been happening more lately because I'm doing drills, I have fun with the "challenge" of doing drills on the hottest girls I can find, then they end up responding really positively or even carrying the interaction forward, and I'm like, "whoa whoa, no, I'm supposed to say one thing to you then get the fuck outta here!" Silly me.
I can't wait to hear about your third date with her
Powerlifter chick turned out to be a timewaster, unfortunately. Had to walk out on her mid-date when she dropped a "let's be friends"
Got a couple other girls I'm trying to organise dates with.
Still doing 1 approach a day.
I've completely fucked the last two weeks up. Not stuck to my diet, skipped the gym twice, jerked off to porn way too much, got completely drunk last night for the first time in 3+ months, haven't hung out with friends. Basically just wasted the 2 weeks.
Getting back on track now, about to head to the gym.
What you wrote hit me really hard dude. Thanks for saying what needed to be said. I haven't even been trying to get laid, so this last week I put some fucking effort in and got laid. I'll write more at the end of this post.
Signed up for OkCupid and Tinder this week. Made my OkCupid profile really sexual - profile says "Not looking for anything serious" and under "What you're looking for" I put "Hookups".
Messaged this 31yo chick with tatts, got her number. Right off the bat the convo was sexual, it was obvious she was DTF. Tried to organise a meetup but our schedules kept clashing. She joked "You should come say hi at my work during the day, lol"... so I did.
Took this pic while waiting for her in the lobby:
There's a toilet downstairs in the lobby. She went in there first, I waited 2 minutes then went in there after her.
Jesus christ it was pretty fucking insane sex. Super rough, spat all over her face, choked her, the usual. She was moaning super loud and I couldn't get her to be quiet, which made me laugh, so anyone walking past would have heard a girl moaning and a guy giggling like an idiot.
Here's a pic of her tits she sent me while waiting for me:
She's not super hot but a lay is a lay. Definitely gonna see her again. So why haven't I been getting laid? I haven't even been trying.
As Adrian pointed out, I haven't even been trying to get laid while on dates. And I've been flaking on so many girls who wanna meet up with me, for no reason at all. Like, I've cancelled dates, and ghosted girls, and messed them around, etc.
I've been self-sabotaging nonstop for the last.... 6 months. I got out a sheet of paper and wrote down all the girls I've flaked on and not tried to bang... and it's more than 15 girls. And those are just the ones I can remember, the real number is much more than that.
The only reason is fear of rejection. I don't give a shit about being rejected on approach, doesn't bother me in the slightest. But I have this huge aversion to getting rejected when I try to actually have sex with a chick, so I haven't even been trying. I've been satisfied just being on a date with a girl, and haven't tried for anything more than that. Which is fucking insane, and frankly, embarrassing as fuck to admit.
I didn't realise I was doing it, as stupid as that sounds. It wasn't until Adrian pointed it out that I had to stop and think, "Fuck, he's right." So thanks for saying it, dude.
Got a tonne more numbers from Tinder and OkCupid, and have still been doing a few approaches every single day. I'll get laid again either this week or next.
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