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Been an interesting week. 4 girls I got numbers off went silent, gay.
Went on a roadtrip with "M" earlier this week, was good fun. We were just about to go home, when she fell and injured herself pretty badly. Got impaled in the foot by a stick about 4 inches long - it went through her thick leather shoes and about 3-4 inches into her foot. I tried to pull it out but there was absolutely no way she was going to let me touch it.
She freaked the fuck out and was pretty much in shock, screaming non stop, so I had to carry her to the carpark and flag down someone to take us to the hospital. Ended up spending 8 hours at the hospital with her by the time they got it all fixed up (and then another 5 hours the next day when she had to go back to get the wound cleaned up).
I let her stay at mine for a couple of days, since she couldn't walk - so we ended up spending 4 days together. Cooked together, slept together, had sex like 20 times, watched movies together, cuddled together - all that gay stuff. Not gonna lie, I caught some feelings - and she sure as fuck did too (she told me as much).
I can deal with it though, even when I catch feelings I don't lose my composure. I haven't told her I like her and I don't plan on it any time soon (I told her "you're ok, kiddo"). She seems happy enough to keep seeing me, even though she knows I'm banging other girls (she's stopped mentioning that as much now).
She's getting pretty filthy in the bedroom, and has really taken to being submissive and trying to please me. She basically got off just giving me a blowjob. I love breaking girls and training them to be kinky.
So re: the feelings, I'll be spending a week with my parents starting tomorrow, so I won't see "M" at all. After that I'll get back into approaching and will bang my other girls. And I'll stick to my rule of only seeing a girl once a week at most.
The main reason guys catch feelings is because they only have one girl ("oneitis") - I've basically done that to myself by spending 4 days straight with one girl. It's been an interesting "experiment", but I miss seeing lots of girls.
killtheinnerloser wrote: The main reason guys catch feelings is because they only have one girl ("oneitis") - I've basically done that to myself by spending 4 days straight with one girl. It's been an interesting "experiment", but I miss seeing lots of girls.
Idk about all that. Stay strong bro! I've seen even the most hardened players catch feelings and do some CRAZY shit while still smashing on lots of other girls. Some women are just better than others, and there is going to come a time when you have to cut this girl loose.
For me feels is purely a function of time spent with a girl. I've shagged around but still caught feels for my main girl.
Canada - met her, 2 weeks intensive seeing each other. Date a polish girl 3 times and get bj then 10 day trio to Barcelona, shag 2 girls there. See Canada for 1 more week then she flies home. I have feels.
Same girl in Feb - my then current (6 week intensive) Lithuania gf was away so I move Canada in for 2 intensive weeks. Shag a new asian gf before she arrives. Also shag Lithuania. Go monog when Canada arrives, miss Lithuania for 1st week. Canada goes home, have feels. Shag Lithuania for 1 more week then move.
Feels are weird, I can feel them for any girl I spend a lot of time with BUT only 1 at once. I can't miss several girls at the same time, it's sequential, not combined.
That's funny, I'm 10 months deep into dating E and I've definitely felt myself slipping into feels territory.
Today I was actually feeling a little mate-guardy. For no particular reason other than I had a rough week and felt generally vulnerable. It's certainly true that I can develop feelings for just about any girl as long as I spend enough time with her. It's just this involuntary reaction to the oxytocin buildup. That sounds a little bit 'tistic, but it really is the main mechanism behind bonding.
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@The Sick Stick: yeah I had 1 girl, "J", who did. And this current chick "M" already said she liked me, so I teased her and said ""M" is in love, "M" is in love, "M" is in loooooveeee".
What about you, had girls drop the L word?
"I've seen even the most hardened players catch feelings and do some CRAZY shit while still smashing on lots of other girls."
Fair enough. That ain't me though. I'm still cold and rational when I have feelings, I'm like a robot. Stoicism and all that.
@Dan and Mike:
Yeah its just a function of hormones. Still feels nice though. I like that despite all the girls we've banged, we haven't become these inhuman, cold-blooded robots who only want sex. I seriously thought that would happen. I also thought we'd HATE women (because of all the red pill stuff) but it's only made me love women and appreciate them for what they are.
For sure, I don't aim to break any hearts. I'm honest and upfront - "Im seeing other girls, I don't mind if you see other guys, I've had a vasectomy, i will NEVER get married, I'll never be monogamous, but I'd love to keep seeing you and see where this goes" etc
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