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killtheinnerloser wrote: Still gaining strength and muscle in the gym, still working out 6 days a week (3-4 of those days I work out twice, for a total of 9-10 gym sessions a week). But the last 3 weeks my weight on the scales hasn't gone up, and last week it actually went DOWN by 0.3kg. I've been eating 3000 cals a day which is clearly not remotely enough so I've bumped it to 4000. Will see what happens for the next 2 weeks or so.
You are working out like crazy so maybe you'll handle it but I still wonder if a 1000kcal increase (if you do it in one day) will just go to fat. That's what would happen to me (I'd transition in one day from "cuts" <= 1700kcal to bulks >= 3700kcal and I'd gain weight but not very prettily). Then again, maybe 1000kcal isn't that bad. Do you ever ask dc7 for advice?
EDIT: And good to see you didn't disappear too. Are you also doing forum only 1x week?
You're prob right re: 4000 cals, but then I think you? (or someone else) said the same thing when I jumped from 2000 cals -> 3000 cals (and 3000 has ended up not being enough not that I'm working out so much). I'll stick to 4000 for 2 weeks and monitor my weight/bodyfat closely. If I'm adding too much weight too fast i'll throw in some cardio/drop the cals a bit.
Yeah trying to do forums only once or twice a week. I'll catch up on your log (and everyone else) in the next few days. Hope you're well you living legend
Another approach to increasing calories, is adding them in cycles and see how you respond. So instead of just all 7 days 4000 calories, you could do every second day 4000 calories, keep the other days at 3000 and see how much you gain in a 4 week period and then add more days from there.
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had most hilarious approach i've ever done today. i stop this girl, she looks confused. then as soon as I tell her she's cute she just CRACKS UP, loses control, laughing her head off. its contagious i start cracking up too, we're both laughing like idiots in the middle of the street, then im like "HAHAHA WHY ARE YOU LAUGHING?" she doesnt stop laughing she's like "do you do this often?" im like "youre the first, mum told me i have to go lose my virginity... so todays the day". that only made her crack up even more. she laughed for a good 30 seconds, im laughing too lol.
im like "yo if youre laughing the least you can do is give me your number" so she does. then laughs for like 15 more seconds, the whole time im amused as hell. i dunno if she was high
even all the crazy AA drills, the funnyman ones, no girl ever laughed THIS hard. i really really really really really wanna get a drink with this chick, i like her already. i checked her out on facebook she's pretty average (a 5 or a 6 at best) but just because of the laughing her head off thing I wanna grab a drink with her. i almost don't even care if I bang her (fuck that's a weird thing to say). got a date set up for monday night, should be good.
killtheinnerloser wrote: You're prob right re: 4000 cals, but then I think you? (or someone else) said the same thing when I jumped from 2000 cals -> 3000 cals (and 3000 has ended up not being enough not that I'm working out so much).
It's not "4000 is too much", it's the jump that worries me; I'm at 3000 now and it's not enough; maybe we both need 4000. I'm going super conservative and just adding 100 per week, but if you stay lean let me know and I might switch to 500 kcal jumps.
Looking forward to some approach updates from you too, lady slayer
EDIT: Just saw your most recent post, keep it up boss
@ Ganso, years and years of cutting and gaining weight for boxing mainly lol
I am not a qualified anything, just 10 years of doing this stuff with amateur league martial arts where I have to hit certain weights to compete, and also know lots of stuff for performance like dynamic stretches, PNF to increase static, how to load carbs to perform, stuff like that etc.
Updated my signature down below to reflect my new priorities.
Main goal is fixing my debt. I have almost $5000 credit card debt (I know, I know....) + another $5000 tax debt. I'll attack the credit card debt first, then the tax debt. My job is pretty flexible and if I push myself and work fucking hard, I can save about $2000-$2500 a month, I've just been stupid with my spending over the last year. I've created a hardcore budget of absolutely EVERYTHING I spend, and have a plan in place to live frugally and pay off my debts. Have been sticking to it religiously the last month. I'm eating literally nothing except rice, tuna and super cheap protein powder (I really do mean NOTHING else). Barely spending anything.
Secondary goal is fitness. I'm bulking right now, carefully - making sure I don't put on much fat. At some point before the end of the year I'll do a cut for 4 weeks or so (maybe longer) to get abs. I've never had abs in my life so it's something I desperately want.
Third goal is to get 5 fuckbuddies at once. I'm getting closer (see below).
Final goal is to complete 500 approaches by end of year. At the rate I'm going, it's probably not going to happen unless I change something drastically (as in, I'd start doing 10 approaches a day). It's not my biggest priority, I want to work on the above 3 goals FIRST, and then focus on going nuts with cold approach. $10,000 debt is fucking stupid, I've ignored it for over 2 years and just lived paycheck to paycheck. Time to fix it.
Polish chick from couple weeks ago is coming over tonight, hopefully will bang. She was weird about me kissing her on the 1st date (I had to force it), so we'll see.
Had a date with French chick few nights ago, made out with her. She's been texting me a LOT since then, telling me how excited she is to see me again, said she never kisses anyone as fast as I kissed her, etc. She's acting like an excited little kid, it's cute. Coming straight over to my apartment saturday night, should be a bang fairly easy. But nothing guaranteed, obviously...
If I convert both of these girls, I'll have hit my 2016 goal of having 5 fuckbuddies at once (other 3 girls are: Dara the ex-virgin, cheerleader girl, and an African girl from Craigslist). Trying not to count my chickens before they hatch, but fuck I'm excited....
Jesus christ. So this girl is the one that first time I cold approached her, I was just a fucking superhero, touching her instantly, holding her around the waist, touching her ass, even tried to kiss her within 20min of meeting her.
But then on the first date, I hungout with her for like 2 hours and she wouldn't kiss me. I had to force it, and she was super weird about it.
So tonight she comes to where I live, I meet her at my local train station. Right away I hold her hand, touch her a lot, etc. Bring her back to my place and as we're in the elevator, she says "Oh... I thought we were just going to go for a nice walk tonight..." Bad sign.
We chill at mine, talk for a while, finally I'm like "fuck it" so I kiss her. She's more into it this time, she starts SHAKING with pleasure/excitement, but asks me to stop. So I back off, chat for a bit, then start making out again. This time touch her ass, tits, pussy, then she stops me and says "Andy... wait... it's too soon..."
I keep doing this dance, back off and chat for a bit, then heat her up again, I can tell she REALLY wants me but she's super conservative. Eventually I get her top off, and bra off, and it's game on...
Only she stops me again when we're completely naked in bed, "wait, I can't do this, it's too soon andy..." So I chat for a bit, then heat her up again... fingering her, she's moaning like crazy, she is WET as fuck, but keeps stopping me with "it's too soon, we shouldn't do this".
Keep heating up, cooling off, heating up, for like an hour then finally she's like "is it ok to do this?" I'm like "yes, it's ok" then BOOM finally we start banging.
It starts off so fucking slow and gentle, like some hollywood romance movie or some shit. literally "making love", LOL. but I start getting more and more turned on, rougher and rougher, and she starts to go a little crazy... eventually I went full retard, choking her until she couldn't breathe, forcing her to suck my cock until she choked then holding her head down for longer, slapping my cock against her face, the usual. She was REALLY into it, like crazier than any other girl i've banged. HANDS DOWN BEST SEX OF MY YOUNG ADULT LIFE.
She had this crazy look in her eyes when I was very rough, it was the look of a crazy, completely lusty chick. You see it very rarely, only a few girls ever do it - those are the best girls. The girls who literally go CRAZY over your cock.
We banged for like 3hours (with breaks in between) eventually I can't hold off any more so I pull out and move towards her face. She goes NUTS, like a fucking banshee, like a woman possessed, yelling "YES, YES, YES, GIVE IT TO ME!" and just sucks the living fuck out of my cock, like a fucking vacuum cleaner. I swear to god I almost fucking passed out from pleasure, it was INSANE. She keeps sucking me for like 3 minutes after I cum then I have to get her to stop, it feels TOO good and I'm going to die from pleasure.
Best bang ever. The weirdest thing is I very nearly didn't even bother setting up the date with her, because i assumed she wouldn't be DTF since she was weird about kissing me first time. Goes to show you should ALWAYS push things as far as you can - don't disqualify a girl ever.
She's also really intelligent (degree in mining engineering), REALLY happy-go-lucky (she smiles CONSTANTLY, non-stop) and has a very witty sense of humour. Cool chick, will DEFINITELY bang again fo' sho'.
AND FUCK YEAH BOYS this means I'm up to 4 fuckbuddies on rotation. French chick who's really into me is coming over 2 nights from now... FUCK I hope I bang her to complete my goal of 5 girls.
OH GOD DAMMIT LIFE IS GOOD. FUCKING THANK YOU CHRIS YOU SEXY LITTLE CUNT FOR THE AA PROGRAM AND EVERYTHING ELSE. FUCKING LOVE YOU, FULL HOMO
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