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It gladdens me to read about your epiphany and I cringe at the traumatizing memories that flash back as I identify with the experiences you describe (especially the part about 2 girls ganging up on me and having to withstand bullying and being put down).
The same thing is what caused my downfall from approaches and, ultimately, me going off the deep end with drugs etc. I got really hung up on the idea of forcing myself to endure every encounter to the bitter end racking up many a horrible reaction. That was shit I really didn't need to put myself through had I not been so overwhelmed by the obsession never to walk away. I succumbed to the same phenomenon on Tinder as well though. A part of it was false pride, and a large part unnecessary desperation to gain something from even the clearest of no-girls.
I should've saved my energy levels for yes-girls and certainly not persist on those who instantly gave me negative energy.
25 y/o virgin before GLL
That's interesting to read about, Andy. Since I came back to the forum, I thought you simply accomplished what you wanted out of cold approaching and stopped because you moved on to other things and are now just relying on Tinder. I'll start a new log in a couple of weeks and start hitting on girls in person again soon. Cool to see you back at it.
YEAH BOYS!!!!!!! Last night I banged 2 girls in a row, one after the other in the space of 1 hr LOL. I'll have to post this in 2 separate posts.
Ok so this girl was chubby but horny as fuckkkk. I have a mate staying with me for a few weeks, and didn't wanna shag a girl at my place. Met her, grabbed her hand and walked around for 5 minutes til I found an alleyway.
Sex wasn't great but I was ultra horny (haven't jacked off for a week, more on that later). I didn't cum (was hard to fuck her in the alleyway we were in). Was good fun anyway.
I walked her back to her hostel, and then as I was walking home, I started messaging a really cute ginger girl on Tinder. Which leads into part 2...
So I meet her in the bar and I literally lose my fucking breath. This girl was WAY WAY WAY WAY WAY WAY WAY WAY WAY hotter than her pics. Like she's a 6 in her pics - cute at best. In person she's just mindblowing. She has this totally innocent, shy, adorable vibe - she's the most innocent and feminine girl I've ever met. She has these big green eyes and she kept looking at me and smiling and my heart would skip a fucking beat. She has long red hair all the way down to her butt, her tits are HUGE (like E cups) and she's tiny and petite. She weighs 45kg (100lbs). She has these cute little freckles on her cheeks. She's *by far* one of the hottest girls I've banged.
But the hottest part is she doesn't even know she's hot. She just got out of a 4-year relationship; it was her first relationship and it's the only guy she's ever fucked. So she has no idea how to flirt and she finds it so novel that any guy would find her attractive.
I grab her hand, lead her to a table and we sit down together. She looks at me with those big green eyes and I fucking melt, and have this huge goofy grin on my face. She's smiling nonstop at me, and not saying anything, and every few seconds she looks down at the ground shyly, then looks back up at me to see if I'm still grinning at her, then back down at the ground. It's like a highschooler grinning shyly at the floor when their crush is near them.
We talk for a second then I lean over and kiss her, wrapping my hand around her throat and squeezing roughly, and she melts. I pull her hair a little and she's totally into it. After a few minutes of making out I try talking to her again but she can't stop smiling, and can barely say anything other than a few words, while staring at the floor, still smiling. I tell her to come for a walk with me, she says "What about my friends?" I tell her to text them "brb" so she does.
We go outside, I take her to some steps and get her to sit on my lap. We make out some more, I play with her tits,choke her a bit more and say "Wanna come back to mine?"
Then it begins. She says "I want to so badly, but I can't... I'm not supposed to do this, I shouldn't be doing this." After she says it, she looks up at me with those big eyes and looks sad, like she wants me to tell her to just do it. Turns out because she hasn't banged anyone else but her ex, she's built sex up to be some big important meaningful thing. She doesn't want to be a slut, doesn't want to do something she'll regret, blah blah blah.
I tell her "I don't mind what you do, doesn't bother me. You're hot and I want to fuck you, but if you're not up for it, I don't care. I'll walk you back to the bar and we can hang another time, it's all good." But then she looks at me with a sad look in her eyes, literally pleading with me to make the decision for her. She keeps repeating, "I want to... but I'm not allowed to... it's wrong..." etc.
Eventually I just say, "Ok. You want me to make the decision for you, so here's what we'll do. I'll walk you to my apartment, we'll stand outside and you can decide if you want to come up. Doesn't bother me if you do or don't."
Give her a piggyback back to mine, she just comes straight up and we go to my room. (I feel bad for my mate who's staying over, because we kept him up all night...)
In bed she's INSANELY passionate and into it, and I have to keep covering her mouth because she's making too much noise. Her tits are to die for, holy fuck she is hot. Her pussy has this little ginger fuzz all over it, it's so insanely sexy. She's thin and petite with a cute little ass, and every time I squeeze her or choke her she lets out this little squeak, it's so hot.
I finger her, she plays with my dick, we tease each other for like an hour, it's good fun. I ask her a few times if she wants to fuck, she says no each time because "I'm not ready, I'm sorry. This is a big step for me."
I'm not really fussed if we have sex or not - she's just fun to make out with, and I already got laid that night (and have more than enough girls in my life anyway). I tell her we can fool around a bit and then sleep, but she says in a sad voice, "But I really want to..."
I say "Ok, again you want me to make this decision for you." I put on a condom, hold my dick near her pussy and make out with her. I say "Do you want this or not?" She starts crying softly and says "I'm so sorry, I thought I was ready but I'm not." She keeps saying sorry over and over again, it's actually fucking adorable and I try not to laugh lol. I say "Haha you retard, why the hell are you sorry?"
"I know I'm being irrational and silly and making a big deal out of nothing and I'm disappointing you"
"Yeah I know, I'm so disappointed I'm literally gonna cut my wrists because I didn't get some pussy."
She laughs, we cuddle for a bit and fool around some more. 5 minutes later we're grinding (condom is still on) and she says "I really want this." Dick goes in and boom goes the dynamite.
Sex was INSAAAAAAANNNNNNNEEEEEEE. We fucked from 1am to 5.30am. Tried so hard not to make too much noise (because of my mate) and we had to be gentle, but it was one of the best lays of my life. She's so insanely passionate, and innocent, and shy, all at the same time. Her body is so sensitive, her pussy tastes amazing, her tits are HUUUUGE and she just feels so damn good to be inside of. I had to fuck her with a pillow on her head for a lot of it, she was being too noisy. I fingered her ass a bit and tried anal, but it was too tight for her. Had to take like 20 breaks so I wouldn't cum.
Finally she gets really close to my ear and out of nowhere says, "Cum." Holy fuck that was the hottest thing ever, and I fucking lost it. I immediately pull out, take off the condom and BLAST her face, drenching her entirely, splashing onto the bed and shit lol. I should add I've been doing nofap, and this is the first time in my entire life I've gone more than 1 day without cumming. I normally barely cum AT ALL, it's literally like 5 drops dribbling out. I actually shocked myself - this was literally like a water pistol like you see in porn. I didn't even know my body was capable of that. I've never looking at porn again (serious).
She started moaning really hard from that which turned me on, so I immediately put on another condom and started fucking her, with her face and tits covered in cum. Jesus that was so hot I pulled out and jerked off on her tits and came again, like immediately. FUCKKKKKKK.
We cuddled for a bit, then she got an uber home. In case you can't tell, I'm really into this girl. Holy shit. My dick is hard just thinking about her right now. NOFAP:
Any browser extensions you guys recommend for blocking porn?At the moment I'm using
I absolutely can never jerk off again. I didn't even know I could have pornstar cum loads. I literally just assumed my dick was broken and I'd always be destined to dribble 5 drops of cum. I thought that was normal.My site:
Posted a new article about
one time a girl tried to give me herpes
(Bad Idea Bear, see if you remember the story... I skype called you at the time and was freaking out, remember? ) Writing articles is easy for me, but PUBLISHING them is another story entirely. I have too many draft posts I just haven't completed:
I like starting articles more than I like finishing them...
It's going SO MUCH BETTER now that I can walk away whenever I want to. Still a tiny bit of AA there but only "I'm nervous" rather than "Holy shit this is going to go so terribly".
Been using the BDSM line and I FINALLY found a girl who's into it, we'll grab a drink in the next few days. fucking hilarious thing is she lives IN MY APARTMENT BLOCK LOL:
Holy shit dude that was an awesome read, props. You're really reaching some new levels of alpha now
Oh and as far as NoFap, I've used K9 Web Protection. It's highly customizable (you can be very specific with what you block and what you allow, down to websites and webpages). To keep myself clean, I made a randomized password that I wouldn't remember, wrote each 1/4 of it down on 4 separate pieces of paper, then "hid" the papers throughout my room so I'd have to go through several minutes of effort to get through the filter.
Or if you have a roommate, you can ask him to create a password that only he knows/will remember, so you won't be able to look at porn on your computer. I've never used it on my phone though, so I'm not sure about that.
@mw616: Thanks dude that's really helpful. My main issue is looking at it on my computer, so like you I don't use the phone. I've just gotta put in that "gap" like you said - make it so if I want to look at porn, I have to go through a long process, which will hopefully give me time to go "No, I shouldn't do this".
I also have the insanely awesome motivation of knowing I could cum like I did last night, every time. That was cool as hell.
When I moved out in March of this year I didn't have internet at my apartment for a month. Funnily enough, I had been on noporn for a month before I moved out, and so that extra month of no internet put me up to about 2 1/2 months noporn. I made a lot of progress in that time. I discovered GLL, conquered my approach anxiety, and got laid for the first time in over 2 years during that timespan.
Come to think of it I should probably try doing that again...you should try getting rid of your internet for a little while, maybe start out for 1 day or 1 week, and see how things go
^ I love that idea. I "need" the internet though. My job is online, I work from home.
Though I suppose I could try this: install a block to ONLY allowed literally my work website and NOTHING else. So I effectively have no internet except for my work.
What about your phone, did you have internet on that?
As for nofap, yeah my motivation goes up tenfold when I don't jerk off for a couple days. I am SO HORNY and desperate to hit on girls, I approach way more chicks (like 10 times more girls). I put more effort into tinder. I'm motivated to go to the gym so I can look sexier and get more girls. I'm pushed to work on my goals because I have more energy and "drive". Not to mention sex is WAY more fun because I'm more sensitive - the girls barely touch my dick and it's like electricity. So much fun.
Approach is: "Hey, you're sexy and I wanted to say hi. You single?"
If she says yes, talk and get her number.
Me: Hey sexy, cool meeting you -Andy
Her: [she says whatever]
Me: I'm looking for something very specific, by the way.
Me: Have experience with being submissive/BDSM, or is it something you'd like to be taught?
So far I've had:
- 3 girls not reply to the BDSM message
- 1 said "What the ***, is this a ***ing joke? *** off"
- 2 said "No thanks"
- 1 "Yes I have had experience..." (Will hopefully meet her for drink this week).
At a completely random, made-up guess, I'd be happy if 1 in 10 phone numbers agree to go for a drink with me and *** me. That'd be really, really, really good. Then I'd only have to hit on about 30-40 girls to get laid (and get laid EASILY, with no dates/games/last minute resistance), which would be amazing odds.
Of course, all of this is meaningless until I actually *** A GIRL. So ignore literally everything I say until it works at least 1 time.
I had internet on my phone yes, but probably 90% of the time where I was using the internet on my phone, I was either reading GLL articles or being productive in some other way I never look at porn on my phone, I just never developed the habit thankfully
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