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That feeling will go away. I do most of my approaches in the same shopping centre where I did most of my AA drills. So 6 days a week I'm hitting on chicks in the same place lol. It doesn't matter, nobody cares, trust me.
Are you in a city? Im in Melb. Other places to try: Coles/Woolies, just walking down the street, parks, train stations, universities/TAFE campuses, gym. I find being on the street is my favourite.
Yeah, I am in Melb. Good idea, I might trawl the streets. The shopping center was fun, but eventually I was wondering if I had asked her before for the time lol.
That girl in your last vid who tried to bring you out to the city, wants a relationship or felt like a slut after having sex and is trying to see if you would hang out with her without sex lol. The idea of it is pissing me off already.
Train girl went silent, so did the instadate girl who seemed REALLY into me yesterday. Talking to more advanced guys on here, they've said that happens a lot. You get a number off a girl who seems REALLY into you, but the next day she just goes silent. Girls are flaky as fuck.
I'm green with envy that you're in such a large city. I'm in a fairly decent sized city, but the population density is shit. It's ok though, if I can even get 5 girls within the next 12 months, I'd consider it a success. You'll kill it in no time. I'm going to steal that form you, the text thing on the train with the girl. Idk, man I think there's a time and place for everything, you made the right call, creative as fuck.
A few weeks ago, at my work, as I was bagging for this lady that was all dolled up, my coworker slipped a piece of paper with his number in it to me and told me to give it to her. It was scary as shit for me to do... felt like I was the one 'approaching'. I did it, he claims she texted him but his girlfriend found out about it, I call bs... and I think she thought the number on the paper was mine and she told him that.
Elganso: Never be envious or jealous. Being envious/jealous puts you in a "passive" mindset - you're telling yourself "I wish I could have what he has", you're telling yourself that you can't have something. Truth is you CAN - nothing is stopping you from moving to a large city. If you don't wanna move to a big city yet, that's fine - but don't ever tell yourself "I'm envious". You'll just make yourself sad for no good reason.
And hell yeah man, steal the text train thing. Let me know as soon as you use it, I wanna hear how it goes for you. It was the best thing I could think of in a crowded train, I was too nervous to hit on her with everyone watching. In future I'll work on my confidence so I don't care who's watching.
Your coworker is a pussy.
@Playtime: Talked a bit about Craigslist towards the end of the vid below.
42yo from CL, approach while depressed, Playtime tips:
Dude. Damn. I hooked up with a girl just like that. a 26 year old cashier from a fast food joint who slipped her phone number to me on a piece of paper when I was 23 She was a 4 in the looks department, but I didn't give a fuck at the time. That was my first lay after finding GLL(not in any of my logs). Turned out her husband was deported to Mexico, a real nice sweet girl, but man was she ugly. She was exactly how you describe that divorced lady, she would text me various times a day and try to hangout all the time with me. It weirded me out since it was my first experience with a woman. At the time, that made me think all girls were like that.
I'll give craigslist a shot man thanks. By the way, I didn't mean that I was actually envious, I just meant, it would be nice to be in a more populous city, I shouldn't have worded my post as I did, but I'll do with what I have for now. I'm actually bound to the city I'm in temporarily, the Uni I go to is in this city (just shy of 400k people, so not really that terrible, but you can straight up see the difference in population density everywhere you go as opposed to the larger cities).
@elganso: A little bit of neediness can be cute from a girl. But too much like that chick you banged is just sad. Shoot me a pm, I'll give you a few of the ads I post on Craigslist.
Only did 1 approach today, just wanted to hit my minimum and get out. Cute looking asian chick, didnt wanna give out a number even though she seemed kinda tempted. She said "Im traditional!" I pointed to myself and said "Dont I look traditional?"
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