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Both are definitely my girlfriends now. Both have said they love me, we go on roadtrips together, it's good fun. They're both good company, and super sexual.
Let me ask you a question. A while ago you were asking for depraved, hilarious ways of showing dominance, making girls do shit for you, etc. Do you feel any different at this point with the two girlfriend chicks? Would you make them do that stuff now? Would it bring the same effect? Would they be down, or do they expect more "respect" and more girlfriend-ish shit vs that??
Curious to see how this plays out
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A while ago you were asking for depraved, hilarious ways of showing dominance, making girls do shit for you, etc. Do you feel any different at this point with the two girlfriend chicks? Would you make them do that stuff now? Would it bring the same effect? Would they be down, or do they expect more "respect" and more girlfriend-ish shit vs that??
BAHAHHAA bro this is the best question ever, because they've gotten MORE depraved over time.
I recently made Woody Allen piss her pants on the train on the way to see me, just to humiliate herself. When she arrived at my place, I had to take her straight into the shower - her jeans were wet, socks were wet, shoes were soaked, she was bright red from humiliation. Made dungeons and dragons do the same thing at her workplace.
Made them both send me videos of them masturbating in the toilets at work. I made Woody Allen send a video during her lunchbreak of her slapping her face as hard as she possibly can, 3 times. She has the biggest smile on her face as she's doing it, you can hear other people just outside her cubicle who would have heard the slaps.
I made them both buy a collar, and they must wear it in absolutely everywhere - except when with their parents.
I show Woody Allen every nude I get from other girls, and tell her about other girls I fuck.
Two nights ago I came on both their faces during a 3some, then we went out for a walk (without them cleaning up), their hair and face was all sticky.
Dungeons and Dragons and I walked around in public (in a busy city) one night, and I kept slapping her in front of other people, and she'd giggle. I slapped her (gently) in front of 3 police officers... Yeah, I know that was dumb. They didn't seem to care (it wasn't a hard slap). But then I slapped her as hard as I could (REALLY hard) in front of about 20 people - nobody even looked, which is kind of sad if she was actually getting abused.
There's some things I'd never make them do (anything that'd hurt them longterm, or things like making them get a tatt). I only wanted to do those things to the asian girl because she was pathetic and she WANTED me to ruin her.
The main reason they're willing to be so depraved for me is they know I look after them & trust me not to hurt them. I've given them a TONNE of mentoring, counselling, etc over the last month or two (including the LSD trip). Also steered them onto better paths.
Woody Allen has:
- started losing weight
- given up drinking
- fixed an eating disorder
- quit her job and gotten a better one
- changed university course to one she actually wants to do (she was just doing Engineering to please her father)
- gotten a counsellor
- told her parents + friends about some childhood trauma she kept secret
- made plans to move out of home
- written down 5 longterm goals she's working towards
- become more confident & stopped being neurotic (eg she used to hate having her picture taken; now she likes it. She hated getting compliments; now she says thankyou)
- learned to orgasm in front of other people
- fixed most of her social anxiety
- finally admitted she deserves love and good things
Dungeons and Dragons has:
- quit her job
- gotten a counsellor
- told friends & family about some trauma from her past
- dropped a couple of friends who were bad influences
- started counting her calories so she can lose weight
- become more confident (she also hated having photo taken; now she likes it. She never initated sex ever in her entire life; now she can, sometimes)
- worked on opening up to people (she had trust issues - I'm the only guy she's ever seen more than 2 times)
- learned to orgasm in front of people
- written down some longterm goals to work on
- become mindful of her daily thoughts and emotions.
In case it's not apparent, I'm pretty fucking proud of both of them.
Today I deadlifted 160kg (352lbs) with a belt (no wrist straps). Goal is 180kg in the next 6 months, but should be able to get there MUCH MUCH sooner.
killtheinnerloser wrote: @S3nga: "You are really good at photography."
Thanks man, but it's just like everything else we do on here - practice makes perfect. I've taken quite literally tens of thousands of photos over the years. I was dogshit when I started, and now I'm good because I put in the work - exactly like the AA program/hitting on girls/getting laid/going to the gym/everything else we do.
Lol, all these replies made me lol.
Mr Montreal has a point; I am tall and white. Those are two extremely beneficial things.
But everybody has their advantages and disadvantages. Some dudes are tall, some dudes are thin, some dudes are muscular, some dudes are naturally charming. Someone might get jealous that I'm tall and white, but I get jealous that they're muscular and I'm skinny-fat.
You can't just cherry-pick "tall and white", you have to tell the whole story.
Naturally witty, very funny
Great upbringing; no neglect. Supportive & loving parents
Live in a 1st world country where I can be whoever I want to be, make whichever choices I want to make. Western country too, so it's much easier to get laid
Extroverted, good at making friends
Brilliant at photography (but remember I worked hard to get good at it)
Very optimistic and happy (though as you'll see below, this was NOT the case most of my life. I had to LEARN to be optimistic and happy)
Was suicidal from age 14 to 24. As in, every single day I'd have fantasies of killing myself. Only reason I didn't was because my self esteem was so low I didn't even think I deserved to end my suffering. Eventually I hit rock bottom & had a breakdown, went on medication and saw a counsellor for 9 months.
Had extreme agoraphobia - years ago I literally could not leave the house unless someone came with me. I couldn't go check the mailbox out the front of my apartment. Only reason I survived was my girlfriend did EVERYTHING for me.
Started out my GLL journey being obese. Was 104kg (229lbs). I had to put in a TONNE of work to lose weight - you have no idea how hard I dieted, how many days I struggled, I used to walk 6+ hours a day every day, I'd stay up til 11pm just walking nonstop. I was obsessed with reaching my goal weight.
Started out with NO muscle. I am NOT an athletic person. I literally couldn't do a single pushup, or a single chinup, or a bodyweight squat. It's been HELL to get to where I am now in terms of strength/muscle, and I still have so far to go.
Balding VERY badly. My hairline is fucked. It's the reason I always wear beanies/caps. It's such a huge point of insecurity for me I think about it almost every hour (I know that's fucked up, and something I need to fix - I need to stop obsessing about it).
I'm 31. A lot of you would consider that very old, and a lot of guys would consider that too late to start getting good with girls.
Had ZERO fashion sense. I've had to teach myself to dress properly, it's been a long process. Go back and look at my old AA vids and you'll see how goofy I dressed.
I used to be a feminist. Took me a lot to overcome that brainwashing.
Absolutely DID NOT believe I had the right to talk to girls. Watch my AA vlogs - I could do all the goofy stuff like "banana phone drills" etc but once it came time to tell girls they were cute, I had a breakdown and couldn't do it. I didn't think I "deserved" to talk to girls, I felt like a loser who wasn't on their level. That was HELL to overcome. It was probably the hardest thing I've ever done in my life.
Started out with NO confidence. I was meek and scared, not just with girls... I guess with life in general. Despite being funny and good at talking to people, I didn't believe I had the "right" to be a cool, fun guy, so I held myself back. Took a long time to gain confidence (like, 10 years)
Currently have a $16,000 debt to my parents (university)
There's probably 50 more things I could add to the "advantages" list, and 50 more things I could add to the "disadvantages" list.
The point is we all have our flaws and our advantages. You can't pick one or two advantages and leave out all the disadvantages.
And as Bad Idea Bear pointed out, if being "tall and white" was such a turnon to asian girls, how come I wasn't getting pussy from ages 18 to 28? Why did I only start getting laid (with asians and other girls) when I found GLL and put in years of consistent effort to fix myself?
More importantly, let's say you're right (we have no evidence, just this vague stereotype everybody "assumes" is true, that asian girls love white guys. Are there any studies on this, or do you just assume it to be true?) But let's say you're correct. If you're NOT a tall white guy (let's say you're an average-height Indian guy) is it IMPOSSIBLE to bang an asian girl? Of course not. You'll have to put in more numbers and talk to more girls to bang one, but so fucking what. The answer to almost all of our problems on here is:
Take a break from the forums and go talk to more girls.
killtheinnerloser wrote: Today I deadlifted 160kg (352lbs) with a belt (no wrist straps). Goal is 180kg in the next 6 months, but should be able to get there MUCH MUCH sooner.
nice progress. I think last time we spoke you said your max was 100 or 120kg? you've come a long way since then, must have been over a year now..
haha make me almost miss deadlifting. after i herniated my discs last year havent been able to really deadlift.
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I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
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