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Nearly 2 years porn free but... 15 Mar 2017 21:41 #279898

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Nearly 2 years porn free but... 20 Mar 2017 04:07 #280185

T Wolf wrote: I guess it depends on how you look at it.

I often feel more productive by getting it out of the way quickly rather than going into my phone, texting some girls and having them come over, entertaining them for some time, wasting time on foreplay/post-sex emotional support, getting them home, etc.


^lol that is so much truth in a few sentences

but i think i can agree that when fapping one has to do it for healthy/normal/loving reasons. i'm a compulsive fapper and when i have down times (such as now) i tend to forget all my obligations and stay in bed fapping like 3-4 times in a row. and to dark shit too. femdom/cuckold/submissive shit, and it's really fucking me up
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Nearly 2 years porn free but... 20 Mar 2017 04:54 #280187

No lie. I have still been fapping regardless of my long and rather eloborate response.

Only once a day on most days of the week. I guess even with porn, I still couldn't quit cold turkey. Kinda like slowly easin off of it. I get a strong urge to "use" in the morning and just say well, it's only gonna be once. Then I seriously have to abstain myself from going on with another session.

Behaviors like this strongly resemble to people who have druga addictions. The fact that even though we are not physically consuming anything, our brain still delivers massive amounts to dopamine, and once we develop a tolerance, we have to up our dosage or use something much stronger.

Even though I'm a hypocrite, somethin to think about.

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Nearly 2 years porn free but... 21 Mar 2017 10:53 #280250

UnrelentingAlpha wrote: Behaviors like this strongly resemble to people who have druga addictions. The fact that even though we are not physically consuming anything, our brain still delivers massive amounts to dopamine, and once we develop a tolerance, we have to up our dosage or use something much stronger.


That's because it's not the drugs that are the problem, but the disease of addiction, which is the same whether it manifests into smoking crack or playing video games. Trust me I've been addicted to alcohol, drugs and a lot of seemingly benign things too and the compulsive thought process is the same. It's kind of scary actually. However, as long as you don't take drugs you can make a change. For me fapping kinda decreases my sex drive so it's self-limiting to an extent. If I fap a lot, I won't wanna watch much porn for a couple of days. Sometimes I still do it and fap with a limp dick desperately trying to cum which is kinda pathetic.
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Terminator wrote: Sometimes I still do it and fap with a limp dick desperately trying to cum which is kinda pathetic.


We have too much in common :lol:
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Bad news, I went a few months without porn or masturbation before my last lay and still couldn't orgasm. I couldn't stop making out with her but then when I actually fucked her it was just ~2 hours of frustration (and half time I was thinking "maybe I should grunt more," probably a bad sign.) All these "my sex drive would be out of control without porn" posts are making me think I have a bigger problem.
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I dunno, I got my dick out without really thinking about it both times but then when I put it in I started to get worried.
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Nearly 2 years porn free but... 03 Jun 2017 02:42 #284953

Think you have a lack of experience in getting sex intercourse that is why it seems you are really excited and get you fall with the porn video you're watching.
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