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When her and I started dating...did it with the help of Goodlookingloser of course...we had sex all the time and as we've dated for almost a year and a half now she doesn't like doing anything sexual anymore...how do I break her out of this?!! Seems like all of my relationships get to this point so it's probably because of me wanting it so much...I'm on and off gear all the time and it gets really bad when I'm on...anybody with experience with gear will know what I'm talking about
I don't see what gear has to do with this. As a man who went through a sexless marriage, my advice is this: End the relationship and move on to the next girl who is excited to have sex with you. Have the mindset, it's her loss, not yours. Lots of hot girls want to fuck you.
There are more subtle considerations, if you are super intent on making it work with this girl. Like:
What's going on with your relationship?
Is she depressed?
Is she on medication? In fact, hormonal birth control can kill a girl's libido. Get her on the IUD, ASAP! (This answer is the one good exception if she is otherwise your dream girl.) Otherwise, I suggest you return to my original answer.
put a number on it, are we talking you tend to want it twice a day while she's more like every other day or are we talking you both wanted to go daily but recently she goes weeks without it? if it's the latter she's honestly most likely just giving the attention to someone else now.
this is super typical of girls btw, if they get hit on all the time there's only so long they can resist as the relationship gets longer and eventually they're really gonna like one of the guys
Ask her why. It's going to be an awkward conversation, but she's your girlfriend - you should be able to talk about this kind of thing. There are many reasons why her sex drive might have tanked. Maybe she's not attracted to you any more, maybe it's a side effect of a new medication she's taking. Either way, you ought to know and she's the best person to tell you. Let her answer dictate the action you choose to take.
If she refuses to give a reasonable answer, that's grounds for letting her go. Relationships take work from both parties, and if she's not even going to face up to your problems then things likely aren't going to work well in the long term.
Heres my two cents.
I really do hope the best outcome for you my brotha.
Does she still have sex with you sometimes ?
I got out of a relationship once to fall into a desert island with no pussy for like 3 months lol.
It was brutal. ... lack of pussy makes you needy and it shows.
You dont want to have to stay in no pussy land for months okay.
So if shes still having sex with you. Dont break it off just yet. And dont completely ignore her.
You gotta find some fbudies before you leave her
. And its ok man.. feel good about this search cause.. it sounds like thats what shes doing. Shes talking to some guy but the guy is either not ready to commot or shes not ready to leave. Ive been in bad relationships for ever because girls dont have the balls to leave lol ( i didnt care to end things cause i had fuckbuddies aside)
So yes man there are many options
Thikron is right too... tell her upfront ( but be ready to jump ship with some fbuddies in your new boat lol)
20 girls a week
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140lb to 160lb.
Hah dude in my marriage it turned into sex once every 1-2 weeks, but because it happened over years I got used to it. I have sex more now I'm single than when I was with my ex. I used to wake up in the morning and instead of even bothering touching her would sneak off and jack off to porn in the bathroom. Used to get home from work each night and do the same thing.
Living with a girl who is hot but disinterested in you sexually is like having a Ferrari in the garage that you can look at, touch, sit in, start up, but never drive.
At least if you choose to leave her you're on gear/muscular then you've got options at least.. you aren't starting from zero like some of us did.
Personally I wouldn't directly talk to her, it solves nothing in my experience. I did that with my ex.. I tried everything. Talked more, talked less, gave her more space, gave her less space, etc etc. The reason it didn't work is that she wasn't into me any more - I was a utility not a sex interest.
Women are terrible communicators with this stuff, they think they are saying a lot with silences etc but they aren't, they have just become really evasive and hard to understand.
You might be perfect tbh. She's a woman so who knows what it is.
Alright yeaaah i get it..I agree with them sure its not good man... its not good the relationship is probably fucked beyond repair.
But the way i see why not just fucken ask ? For shits and gigglea maybe it does work.
Like i said find some fuck buddies or some kind of rebound asap. Lol
But yeah why not just ask her ... sit her down.... look at her and say whats going on.? She asks what youre talking about and say something about the ssx drive.. dont
Tell her how you feel dont ask why or whatever just fucken listen maybe she gives you a gold nugget of information and you learn what you did or what happend.
Your not gonna learn anything from this is if you fucken yell next and dip ! Lol
Let us know what you end up doing
20 girls a week
- Lose AA for groups and people around.
140lb to 160lb.
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