TOPIC: Question for the HEAVY HITTERS only: effective way to drop your standards?

So again, question for the heavy hitters/guys with mad experience only, no keyboard jockey shit thanks

Do you guys drop your standards and if you do what is your most effective way when the situation calls for it?

Tonight just got out of work (at a nightclub) me and my coworker met two chicks, he approached them wanted me to wing with him. He's with this tall model London chick 8/10 and I'm with the 7.5 max/10 French chick. Most guys would LOVE to fuck the chick I'm with, very sexy face, curvy body. Just a bit of muffin top on her stomach. But a bit of fat on her thighs and ass. I personally love fucking with fit trim, slim chicks, fitness chicks type shit with great faces. Went with it because I'm psychologically attracted to her, subconsciously now that I should be attracted to her since 90%of all guys would love to fuck her but my dick wasn't really feelin it if you catch my drift. Plus I wanted to help my boy hook up with the model chick.

We went up stairs to the VIP section post 4am after the club closes, we got access there since we work there and we knew the chicks would eat that shit up.
Me and her were making out way before my wing was with her chick, they felt like they needed to catch up lol. Were up there in the private room, me and her making out hard, she's on top of me I'm fingering her but my dick just isn't feeling it getting semi at best. My boy is in the other couch getting jerked off and shit. I keep playing it off and stalling not escalating further than fingering and making out. We take shit and decide to started heading to his place, ( he lives literally 1 block away from the club but it's a small ass room) me and my wing both tell the girls that we don't have condoms, I proudly told my girl I don't have one cause I wasn't really felling like fucking her) she tells me "well I'm sure your friend has more condoms at his place"
I tell her welll listen(I made up some excuse didn't want to make her feel bad that she was not really getting me hard enough) his room is really small, he has 2 roommates , plus I told her earlier that I live and take care of my sick mom (not true btw I always say that as a way to make the girl feel sympathy or pity sex for me) so the excuse I used is that I need to get back home and shit and gotta make her breakfast and give her medication in the morning lol. I told her straoghf up she's a very hot and sexy girl but I need to head home. I don't even know if she understood half the shit I said cause she's French but I dead ass didn't want to make her feel bad. She honestly was attractive but not enough for me tonight specifically.
We all walked back to his place and they both went up to his place. I asked him before I left where my French chick is gonna chill and he said she's gonna be in his room while the him and the London model chick are gonna hook up in his bathroom. I'm like alright whatever and went to the train.

Point of all this shit is that, I really wish I could've dropped my standards just a littlle but tonight ton make it easier for my boy. I just honestly wasn't feeling the little extra fat around the chicks stomach and thighs. She had an amazing face but that other shit killed it for me. I get hard easily for the fit chicks with nice faces. Unnecessary fat kills it for me bro.

Do you guys always stick to your high standards once you get to that point, or are you able to drop that shit when the time calls for it? If so any tips on doing so or if anyone had been in my situation?

Fucking this chick would've been really useful for both my friend and the French chicks feelings(not that her feelings matter but might as well make everyone happy in this situation

Thanks
Ps( might be a little choppy, I had a couple shots tonight kinda tipsy shit happened like 30min ago)

Cialis, phenibut, or I do completely perverted shit that turns me on such as: treating her like an object, slapping my dick in her face etc. it's really all mental man. That being said I'm the same sometimes I just don't feel like fucking a chick and theres nothing wrong with that. Usually just doing what I want and treating them like an object does the trick (as bad as that sounds) but there's really no other way around it unfortunately or the dick won't go up

Also I find it way easier to get it up when I havent watched porn for at least a month

Even if you lower your standards, the girls shouldn't literally repulse you that you're banging. Even when I would fuck 6/10's years back for experience/fun I would still get turned on, it's not like I'm immune to getting hard with a girl touching me unless she's a 7 or better.

dc7 wrote: Even if you lower your standards, the girls shouldn't literally repulse you that you're banging. Even when I would fuck 6/10's years back for experience/fun I would still get turned on, it's not like I'm immune to getting hard with a girl touching me unless she's a 7 or better.

Don't get me wrong I used to fuck with 6/10 and 5/10 chicks early on when I was getting experience too.
This chick didn't 'repulse' me tho, I thought she's genuinely beautiful. Just not necessarily the body type I've been used to for this past year

Now that I think about it it might be a libido thing or I just truly didn't feel horny today
Idk

Edit: I take that back cause I know for a fkn FACT if the chick was my type/or hotter i'd get hard as fuck yo

Repo wrote:

dc7 wrote: Even if you lower your standards, the girls shouldn't literally repulse you that you're banging. Even when I would fuck 6/10's years back for experience/fun I would still get turned on, it's not like I'm immune to getting hard with a girl touching me unless she's a 7 or better.

Don't get me wrong I used to fuck with 6/10 and 5/10 chicks early on when I was getting experience too.
This chick didn't 'repulse' me tho, I thought she's genuinely beautiful. Just not necessarily the body type I've been used to for this past year

Now that I think about it it might be a libido thing or I just truly didn't feel horny today
Idk

Edit: I take that back cause I know for a fkn FACT if the chick was my type/or hotter i'd get hard as fuck yo

Have high-normal test levels and stop jerking off = get rock hard for 5/10's.

I'd bet money on that.

Don't lower your standards, quantity is not better than quality.

Not a heavy hitter, but I just went one week without orgasming despite having sex with my girlfriend 5 days out of 7 of that week. After pushing through two days of severe blue balls, I was able to lay the pipe very well (high EQ + staying power, interestingly). Try experimenting with how frequently you orgasm?

I don't lower my standards. except in two situations.

The reason I don't lower them is because I always have a circle of 3 attractive women I am sleeping with. If your not as hot or fucking awesome or can get me going Im not going to sleep with you because I don't need to. Plus I like what I like and I wanna fuck what I like. I am always looking to add to the circle but they have to meet the standard.

The two situations where I lower them.

1. to get my friend laid, If i need to play wing for example if you not fucking that french girl would fuck up his chances of getting his girl. Then I would of done it. 100% hands down. At least go and get her to blow you and then be fun to talk to and entertain her.

2. If I lose my circle. If i move to a new city, if i am visiting a new city, if i just got out of a relationship. If my girls move, whatever the valid reason is for me not to have a circle of women i am sleeping with. Ill fuck girls below standard because for me personally i need sex minimum twice a week. Minimum.

A big tip for accomplishing both of these things is CIalis. I take it for these purposes. along with a few other reasons but that helps a lot.

Even if I couldn't get hard for the girl, I probably would've distracted her long enough for my friend to fuck her friend.

The only exception to this would be if the girl was just too hit for me to feel dignified being seen with.

Either way though, I wouldn't overthink it. Bitches come and go, and if I go home alone I jerk off in the bathroom; usually just as good and I save myself her Uber fee.

as long as she was a 6.5-7, i'd definitely have banged it out with this chick for my boy. if she was like a 5-6.5 i'd probably just distract her and not hook up so my boy can get laid. this is probably the only circumstance i'd lower my standards to the 6-7 range; helping a friend game his chick. i mean, i'll smash 7's all day but i don't really wanna be fucking with the 6.5 and under bullshit unless it's to help one of my good friends out.

outside of that, i don't really see any reason to drop your standards. there your personal standards for a reason, it's nature's way of telling you what chicks you want to fuck lol

You obviously don't want to get laid. If you wanted to get laid, you would have fucked this girl.

Easy fix: have a desire to get laid.