TOPIC: Taking girls back home

So... I have fairly good logistics starting tonight. I'm 3-5 miles in every direction of ALOT of bars, clubs, lounges etc.

I know it takes practice, but what do I do after I approach? Verbalize the pull back to my place? Take her hand and drive her over to my place? (that has to involve SOME verbals..)

I'm not going for phone numbers anymore unless she's with 3 of her friends and she's the DD and has work in the morning etc.


Help please.

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I was never too good at bars/clubs (my brain is lazy and realized I could just take women on a date and get them from there with a way higher percentage than cold approaching girls at bars) but when I did do it, I always just led the interaction in small steps.

If a girl is into you and you can tell, you can just say "I want to take you home with me." And start taking her home. See what happens.

Or you can simply say, "come over here" or "let's catch from fresh air." Once you lead her outside, then say, "lets go back to my place."

BUT, I would say the best way to do it especially if you aren't very aggressive, is just have an "excuse" to go back to your place. The girl will know what is going on, but there will still be tension and she can lie to herself that she is just going back to your place to see your dog.

Simply say, "Let's get some fresh air." Take her outside. When talking to her and being physical out there, grab her hand and say, "You gotta see my friend's dog/my guitar/my pet fish. Come with me" and start leading her to your place.

I've gotten girls in my apartment by asking to use their vacuum, saying I needed to refrigerate my yogurt, and saying I wanted to open up a coconut. When I was in Thailand I became known for my line, "Have you ever had a mango in a coconut before?" They would say "No" and I would say "Oh, you have to try it!" and just start going back to my place.

In a club in Vegas I once said, "Lets go for a walk." When she realized we were heading to a hotel, I said, "I am getting some almonds, I'm hungry." In the elevator she asked, "Where are these almonds?" I said, "In my room." Then we were in my room and it happened.

I live about live closer to some spots than others, but for the most part I'll be driving. 5 min drive is like a 20 minute walk lol.

I was watching Chris's screening night time video.. That's just crazy man. I have a very hard time imagining a girl I approached at the bar would be down so quick. I have a hard time imagining SAme night lays in the first place.

But anywho, guess it can be a combo of verbally bringing her back and physicality. None of which will work if I don't approach. Going out trying to bring them home is much more intimidating/daunting than a phone number. :/

Does it happen often though? I know it's happening "all around us"

But for the guys who are pulling consistently, does pulling consistently mean day 2, day 3 and so on, or pulling that same night?

I know Chris mentions guys who get laid a lot get laid that same day/night.. But I don't think he takes into consideration not every guy is 6"3 and blah blah..

I can only see guys pulling on dates (meaning sex) on a day 2 but...

It's really hard to imagine guys are doing it consistently (1-3 SNL a month).. If I can't imagine it then I can't believe it.. And if I can't believe it I'll doubt myself more so and I will fail.

For the guys who are doing consistent or semi consistent SNL please chime in.