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OK sorry for the long post but I am in serious need for advice.
Spring break with 3 friends. We meet up with a girl (N1) that is a friend of one of my friends. She has a friend with her (A1) who is the main person in this story. We meet up, get some dinner and make plans for the night. We decide to go over to N1's house for drinks and beer pong and what not. A1 leaves early to change. When we all leave the restaurant, N1 tells me that i should get on A1 tonight and that she wants me. My friend a few minutes later says that A1 specifically told N1 she wanted to bang.
We get back to the house and start drinking, she shows up with tight shorts and a very revealing shirt. We start drinking and talking, I'm smiling at her here and there just warming things up. We start playing beer pong, A1 and me are partners. We play and im putting my arm around her and she is leaning into me. We finish up the game and sit on the couch outside. I have my arm around her and we are talking about random things, gym, school, etc. I kiss her a couple short times.
I lead the way inside and we go to a couch and start getting it on. We are to third base and In the middle of things someone decides to walk in. no one sees anything but We stop and go back outside. We sit down in a chair by the fire pit now about 30ft away from people. We are talking and kissing a little more she doesn't show any signs of being uncomfortable. She is snap chatting pictures with me to her friends. She is sitting on my lap and i pick her up in my arms as we stand up. Kiss her and say lets go inside, she says not yet and i say ok, let her down and we walk over to where the others are. We drink another beer and talk a little.
Little while later We then go inside, i lead the way holding her hand and she isn't resisting. Sit on the couch and Start making out. we are getting a little touchy feely. There is a bathroom around the corner and i get up and i hold her hand and we walk that way. She gives a little bit of the typical Last minute resistance but i say "come on it'll be fine" and she follows along. We go inside start getting it on. Going off what my friend and his girl said earlier, this girl was DTF. But when we get in there i say something to see if she did wanted to do it. she says she doesn't want to go all the way. I say OK, not wanting to push her where she doesn't want to go. She starts going to 3rd base on me and about a minute in she stands up and pulls her shirt up. Not sure what she said at this point, or if she even did say anything, nothing stood out like she was uncomfortable or else i would have stopped right there. I put her hand on my stomach and she reaches down on her own and to 3rd base we go again.
A couple minutes in her friend (not N1) knocks on the door and we quickly get our clothes re-situated. She walks out somewhat quickly and i walk the opposite way toward two of my friends standing by the back door. Everything seemed fine, just the typical "busted" situation. A1 and her friend (not N1) walk outside and a few minutes later the friend comes in. I say "what's going on with A1", and she says "i don't even want to talk to you." At this point I'm confused and scared. Me and my friends look at each other confused as well.
The next day we get a call from N1 saying that A1 said i tried to force her to have sex and give me a blow job. I am so confused about the whole situation. I would never try to force a girl to do something she didn't want to do. I led the way and she followed.
I feel absolutely TERRIBlE about the way she felt afterwards. Sorry again for the long post but i wanted to make sure everyone got the full story. Any advice is appreciated.
EDIT: There were parents upstairs. The get together at the house consisted of about 8 people
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Agree with above. Your mistake was not properly isolating her from her friends/peers. With them around she was subject to too much pressure to not look like a slut in front of her friends and this likely made her too uncomfortable with the whole situation. Probably at some point in the interaction that pressure made her go from wanting to fuck you to genuinely feeling that she didn't want to have sex with you.
Logistics need to be worked out so that you can look wholesome around her friends and then isolate her away from her friends (not in that house, you needed to take her somewhere else) for the sex part and allow her to keep her dignity in front of her peers. She was looking to you for leadership on this and you probably spent too much time in "makeout" mode without quickly moving it to "get out of here and fuck" mode.
At least that's how I see it from what you wrote.
"She is only saying that because she doesnt want to look like a slut in front of her friends"
^Strong this. I'm surprised she didn't make a false rape accusation, bitches do that and get away with it all the time to avoid seeming like sloots to their friends. Next time don't go full retard and try to fuck her in front of her friends, pull to another location first. Tell everyone what really happened to save your rep if you can, don't want to be known as the "creepy raper guy".
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