TOPIC: Online Dating: Sureal's Journal

yo suli your pof profile isnt working bro

Oh yeah, actually deleted my PoF, got to start from scratch with that one. but I still have my OKC account. www.okcupid.com/profile and Tinder.

it wont bring up your profile for some reason bro it keep directing it to mine whats your username on okc

Really? ok yeah, I go by suli19. let me know if this works yeah? www.okcupid.com/profile/Suli19?cf=profile

Yeah it worked Bruh. Your profile is official , this is how a profile should look. whats your sucess on okc. are different races of girls hitting you up

looks good dude!

Hey Nooche. Yeah the response rates pretty good, especially after I cut my hair (GLL recommended it for black guys). There really is alot of girls looking for a relationship online. I just had this one date with this girl I kinda of stood up that lives dt. But I texted her and she was starting to act a little to high and mighty. she definitely wanted to meet up but was acting offended. so i played along because Im about the experience. And as long as you look at it that way it doesnt matter what happens. i'm glad I did because i learned alot on this one. She was definietly looking for a boyfriend. I was escalating on her and she didnt seem to mind. Rubbing on her leg at the bar. then all of a sudden some guy who was at the bar alone butted in. it kinda of killed the vibe. but whatever. she was definitely not that hot but thought she was. I hate it when fat girls think their hot shit. Anyways i tried to ask for a kiss but she said she doesnt do that on the first date. Which I just said ok, I usually get the kiss when I go for it. So after that i just said fuck it then I'm going to do what I want. So i lit up a cig. When I did that i could tell she didint like that but I didnt care. Then this couple next to asked for one. The guys wife was hot and asked me alot of questions. she seemed really into me. I could tell her husband was getting jealous. Then she kept high fiving me. But i didnt push it. thats some next level shit. i really felt she was into me. But I stopped talking to her and went back to my date who was still talking to the guy and giving him info on how to get a girl and i couldnt of disagreed more. The guy reminded me of myself before GLL. Then the question of wether or not as a girl would she go abroad with a guy on the fourth date. And she said no. i was like why not. then i asked the married chick the same question and she said it depends on how the first three dates went. See here is when i thought ok the fat chick is a boyfriend hunter and the married chick was a dtf girl just not sexually available. Then the husband let slip that they actually banged on the first night they met and that solidified my thought. In the end I tried to kiss the girl but she wasn't having it.

Man the fat chick was so whack and boring. I can see how having that first real good lay is important. After being with an 8 she just didnt seem worth it, really. Maybe I got a little mad that she didnt kiss me but I didnt care I just did what I wanted and it felt good. seeing two girls who were polar opposites was eyeopening. it was worth the 30 dollars I spent on drinks for me and her. But I'm sick of paying for dates. I want to do more of an aggressive profile. Also I'm going to do the 25 checklist to see if I have social anxiety. There so many girls I'm not hitting up in real life and I got figure out why. And I'm kicking my brother out I've done so much for him and all he does is spout negativity which is not good for the psyche. I think if he tried the check list it would come out that he has high social anxiety. And I cant have that. Also having him in my place brings down my social status. i want to change and he's not helping.
So yeah I would get roosters guide that first hot lay is such a confident booster. I'm still looking for my first FWB but I just kind of suck at that at the moment. Self sabotage.

Pics look good man, where did you get them done?

I actually have a a few professional photographers as friends. so they were free.

so I had a 6 come over but since she was Asian she gets a +1 because I rarely get asians. She was like the other lays someone that I talked to a while back but never got her over due to car logistics i.e. not having one. But then I hit her up because I finally fixed that. But then all of a sudden she was down to drive herself... but whatever we hung out for a bit watch T.V. then we went to my bed where I had to do ALOT of foreplay. This is where I realize the nipple play gets girls real wet. The past 3 firls once I played with their nipples it was on. But with this girl it was different she wasn't drunk or smoked weed. I remember in Rooster pdf about the move of putting on the condom while still playing with the girl to keep her hot and man I wished I did.... because at the last second she stopped the Whole thing when I went to put the condom on. i think it just stopped the whole momentum... so I just ended up fingering her. We'll see if there will be next time.

I learned though never delete numbers you never know when you'll be able to hit them up again. All the girls so far have been ones I talked to before but never got them to come out. girls are fucking weird.

nice man. sometimes the girl just wont fuck for whatever reason but keeping the momentum really helps sex 'just happen'. you'll know next time

exactly with not deleting numbers. You may already know this, but if your phone has the capability- put those girls numbers who didn't work out into a contact group. Then after a few months or so send a mass text to all of them. Once in awhile you'll get a girl whose down to meet when she wasnt before. just shows sexual availability opens and closes and you need to get it in while you have the chance

Rooster wrote: nice man. sometimes the girl just wont fuck for whatever reason but keeping the momentum really helps sex 'just happen'. you'll know next time

exactly with not deleting numbers. You may already know this, but if your phone has the capability- put those girls numbers who didn't work out into a contact group. Then after a few months or so send a mass text to all of them. Once in awhile you'll get a girl whose down to meet when she wasnt before. just shows sexual availability opens and closes and you need to get it in while you have the chance

Yeah felt like if I just stuck it in it wouldve been on but I really didnt want to do it with out a condom. I always get freaked out the next day.
Yeah I'm understanding that concept more and more and being less butthurt when things dont go my way. Definitely going to do that with the numbers, such a great idea.