TOPIC: Online Dating: Sureal's Journal

It's only been a few days since I put my new style and photos up and have had some success already. Got a number off of Tinder and have a date scheduled later this week (kinda got hoodwinked into a valentines day date because I let her choose the date without realizing that that day was Valentine's. I'm just not a fan of Valentines and the expectation there is on the guy to go all out, so I was trying to avoid setting a date on that date. Gonna try to reschedule)

Anyways, one off of Okcupid by this cute Mexican chick. She lives  across the border (I live real close to it) but she's down to meet up. (She's Hot!) I asked for her number by the third message and she was down. I ask for her number per the way rooster says to do in his guide (Golden stuff by the way). Got a international card to chat with her on the phone. I'm making it a point to call girls. Still getting a little nervous before the call but I know its the best way to guarantee a meet up. (I just look at the phone/text guide whenever I need a refresher on the structure) So far every girl I've called has ended up in a meet up.

Even tonight i almost got a one nightstand this asian girl off tinder. She ended up opening me and was straight to the point about "having Fun" and I immediately said to come out downtown (where I have my own place)to have a couple drinks and "watch a movie" and she was down....The problem was logistics I had to go pick her up but my car is out of commission. (living and working downtown, I rarely have need to use a car) But whatever it was cool she liked my pics enough to want the "D". On to the next one, haha.

So far though I've havent sent out too many messages. maybe 40. I can say though my pics are probably the biggest difference between this profile and the old profile. I was lucky enough to have a friend with a great camera. If anyone has a friend with a decent camera, i would have them do it for you. Beg them even, haha. They're that important. I'll chime back in soon, Hopefully with some actual lay reports.

You look a bit like RZA on the pic taken from side.

You look a bit like RZA on the pic taken from side.

Oh shit your right, haha. Its been such along time since I've been this bald.

Found these pics of RZA side view.

http://hypebeast.com/2011/11/wesc-x-rza-chambers-headphones

http://nahright.com/news/2011/12/01/wesc-chambers-by-rza-giveaway/rza-2/

And I actually dig his cut, way cleaner than mine. Gonna take this photo to the barber and have him give me the same cut, haha.

don't believe in online dating but looks $$$

don't believe in online dating but looks $$$

Thanks man, appreciate it. I'm trying to get where you at though. Baby steps, haha.

I would delete the 2 others pictures, and only have this up....
It's much better than the two other pictures in my opinion.

I would delete the 2 others pictures, and only have this up....
It's much better than the two other pictures in my opinion.

Would it be fine with just one? I have a few others I could put up where I'm smiling. I'm also planning on getting some action shots with the same guy who took these. Like one where I'm playing basketball and the other with my road bike(finally got it looking nice). Been back in the gym since those photos and my arms are looking better, haha. Also, what you think about this site for clothes and whatnot?

They have pretty good sales. http://www.jackthreads.com/

Yeah, but women will be curious to see "more" pictures which you can send them....
But you look like an aesthetic black male model on that picture...

So try to get the other pictures on that level too

The site looks fine!

I also use www.asos.com   and h&m

cheap stuff

Make the other picture black&white too...

It'll look better =)

Interesting, the ol' leave them wanting more trick, haha. I'll test it out see it how it goes. I'm always up for experimenting with new things. Also I'll get my boy to strive for shots with that same aesthetic look. Cool, thanks man. And will do on the black & white.

Great man..

I guarantee you, that you will get LAID if you put in the time and effort!
There is no question about it if you have the willpower, motivation and dedication to succeed.