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That's funny that you guys set up a date just on tinder. I always ask for a number. To me if a girl is giving me a hard time about giving me her number then she's almost for sure not going to be easy when trying to get the lay. Just from my experience off course.
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^ Yeah mate, agree. I wrote about it
, I'll just copy-paste the whole section:
“Let’s talk for a bit longer” and “I’m not comfortable giving my number out too soon” are the absolute death of a conversation; the equivalent of smashing head-first into a wall at 200km/hr. Any girl who utters this phrase is usually a time-waster who never plans on giving you her number, let alone meeting with you & having sex with you.
She’s either trying to waste your time because she’s just killing time chatting to guys because she’s bored, or has some serious baggage/past bad experiences that are causing her to really hold back and be overly-cautious. She’s not the type of girl we’re aiming for (hey, if you want closed-off girls with heaps of baggage who take weeks/months of conversation before they’ll have sex with you, be my guest).
It might be tempting to keep talking to her in the hopes that if you chat for long enough, & just be patient enough, she’ll eventually become “comfortable” and will give you her number. That’s almost always a
S3nga wrote: Why are you giving girls your number? You should be taking their number. It will save you confusion. Also many girls will not use your number if you give it to them.
I have no problem giving my number first. I usually say something like: "Tinder is annoying. Can we just text? My number is XXX." I guess you could just change that and directly ask for her number, but it's never been a problem to me. I usually don't have to ask for a number because most just reply with their number automatically. To me, this is similar to offering my name first when meeting someone. People often reply with their name without even asking.
About 1/3 of them will text me first without telling me their number. Some will say "Hey it's Jenny" but most of them are too dumb to identify themselves in the first text. They often text quickly after Tinder so I know who it is. If I'm lost I simply say "How do you spell your name so I can put you in my phone"? Maybe that's super obvious but not one girl has ever called me out for it. Or you can be sneaky and fuck with them. When she writes the first time "Hey how's it going?" (who the fuck is this?). You can say "Hey Mike did you get your new phone"? Of course she will correct you.
I do sometimes give out my number, depending on how the conversation flows. Like, hey I’m about to go to bed, here’s my number.
But most of the time my go to is,
-hey we should grab a drink sometime
-cool, shoot me your number and let’s plan something
-figure out what she’s up to same day or next and once I figure out a free time slot, I pitch the idea of the date. And get their number
It all comes down to figuring out the logistics through normal conversation , and if she seems busy, I just say, let’s continue the conversation through text or IG.
There’s not much more to it, always think in terms of logistics, and things will look clear
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