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Hey guys, so I'm having luck with more matches on Tinder which is great, but the thing is, I think I might be giving too many girls my number at a time. As in before I get a text from one or more, I'll have already given say, 3 girls my number.
Yesterday, on tinder, one said she'll text me later. I kept talk to other girls in the meantime and gave my number to them. I got a text in the evening that said "Hello." The problem is, I didn't know which one it was. I think it probably the one who said she'd text me, but who knows.
So I asked who it was and she responded by asking if it was me (Spencer). I said yeah and she asked how many people i give my number to, with some funny emojis. I thought she was just messing with me, so, jokingly, I said, "too many I guess haha." She then said "Nvm." (nevermind). I told her I was kidding and asked again who it was. No response at all.
A lot of girls usually text me saying, "Hey it's (their name)." I'm wondering if I should stick to one girl at a time (which could be innefficient) or if I should keep doing what I've been doing (giving my number after some conversation with as many girls as possible).
@Dashed: The reason I personally ask for a number is so I can look her up on instagram or whatsapp or facebook (they all link to phone numbers so you can search people up), to make sure she looks like she does in her photos. But yeah, it's not mandatory.
@OP: Either do what Dashedhopes says and just make plans on Tinder, or do what s3nga said and get HER number. In general, there's no point giving any girl your number - why would you do that? YOU are the man, YOU are supposed to make the moves, not her. Ever been to a restaurant with a woman? They take ages to make a decision, they're not the default decision-makers, so why are you asking her to take the lead for you?
@OP: Either do what Dashedhopes says and just make plans on Tinder, or do what s3nga said and get HER number.
To be exact, I usually make the plans on tinder too, haha. Then taking a number/fb when the date is set up, because I believe the girls that are afraid to give any contact are more likely to flake. Also it's stupid to go for a meeting with someone your only contact is via tinder. Your messages disappear under other man's messages, girls don't check tinder often and generally can disappear at any time.
If I was doing more smalltalk before setting up the date I would ask for the contact first through.
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I always ask for the number AFTER setting up the date on Tinder, that way I have a way of contacting her while she's on her way to the date, just in case she doesn't have Wi-Fi and doesn't want to use her Data to use Tinder.
Funny enough, I do the same thing that Andy suggests, I always look up their WhatsApp and also their IG to see if they're really who they say they are.
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KillTheInnerLoser wrote: @OP: Either do what Dashedhopes says and just make plans on Tinder, or do what s3nga said and get HER number. In general, there's no point giving any girl your number - why would you do that? YOU are the man, YOU are supposed to make the moves, not her. Ever been to a restaurant with a woman? They take ages to make a decision, they're not the default decision-makers, so why are you asking her to take the lead for you?
I totally agree. I would give them my number and tell them to text me, thinking that that was me taking the lead. After asking for numbers a couple times now, it's worked much better. There's a night/day difference.
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