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@Chule: he's aiming for DTF girls, not just "the most matches possible". Hence fri sat nights late at night when all the girls are drunk/feeling naught/more open-minded, etc.
Sunday is great if you want to have nice conversations that don't necessarily lead to a date/sex.
Caveat: Of course, you shouldn't be taking what I say as the gospel. Only way to know if Fri/Sat night works better than Sunday arvo is to try it yourself a bunch of times. Experiment, see what works for you, figure it out - the whole point of self-improvement and getting laid is to carve your own path and find out what works for YOU. (Because it'll be different to what works for me).
Fahad wrote: I seem to get some pretty hot matches when i was swiping in Poland (when i was in a relationship), but it seems to really suck here in Montreal, way less matches and overall less attractive.
I think that you getting more matches in Poland because your look was more exotic/intriguing; as a result, you were "different" and exciting to those women. Here in Montreal your look is more common; I know that you said you're Pakistani but you could pass for Arab. There are a lot of Arabic guys your age with a similar look in MTL. So maybe your not seen as being as unique.Just a theory.
You're a tall, good-looking guy who gives off a smoldering bad boy vibe; you'll do very well, eventually. Off to a slow start but you'll be okay. As for suggestions,like someone else mentioned I would sign-up to as many sites as possible. As for your profile bio....the line about "pulling hair" might be considered cheesy/cringy or too agressive for some girls & might turn them off. I think that your main photo and the one in the white sweater are the best. You should try and get some candid shots...as someone already mentioned.
Quick question...do you approach girls when you go out ? Daytime or night ?
I've definitely gotten laid at least a couple of times from last minute matches on friday/saturday nights. But I usually don't go for those nights, because of logistical reasons. I am not going to keep myself completely available on the weekend for the chance of getting laid off dating apps.
The best logistical time to try for me is Sundays. Sundays are perfect. Because I am generally free with no specific plans, and so are girls who are probably running errands or chillin' at home. I'd message all the matches, old and new, and I either setup a same day date, or make plans to grab a drink on monday or tuesday. All these are days where chances are higher that she'll be available.
Hey man, you're on the right track but there are several changes that I recommend you make. Your husky pic is pretty badass. I would make that your main pic. Make the watch one your second picture. For your 3rd picture use your beard picture and the group pic number 4. Ideally, you want to be able to replace 3rd or 4th pics. They are average, but not that great. Also, I recommend changing your bio. That phrase was copied by a lot of people on tinder and most girls have seen it too many times (I was sitting with a girl when I responded and she rolled her eyes before I could even say anything) This one would have been good a few years ago but now you need something new. You need something more original and personal to you. Hope this helps. Let me know if you have any questions.
Only way to know is to try it and see if you get more or less matches/lays.
Us theorising about what the answer may be will only get you so far. Only way to actually know is to do it and find out.
This is all just 1 big experiment, dude. Trial and error. Eventually you'll figure out what works for you (it'll likely be different to what works for me/anyone else who gives you advice). This is your own path to carve.
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