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Need advice on improving Tinder photos 25 Jun 2019 23:26 #318547

Hey all,

I've been using Tinder on/off for awhile and usually get a decent number of matches over time, but most of them are below average and if I'm lucky, average (I swipe right on every girl regardless). With that said, I don't want to force myself to go out with, let alone sleep with the girls I really don't want, but I feel like it's my only choice right now.

The hot girls I match with, will talk sometimes and then ghost or wont talk at all. It's frustrating, but I'm just here to get laid as much as I can with decent looking girls and not the ones that are below average. I feel like I set my standards too low to where I feel like I'm just settling. Like, most of the girls I would hook up with were 4/10 at best and I just wanted some action (my mindset is, hookup with a girl who I am completely unattracted to OR don't get laid at all) but I don't really want that anymore. I want to do MUCH better and I feel like I can. I'm not ripped, so I don't bother with shirtless pics. Below are the current photos on my Tinder account and ALL have filters on them. Any advice is greatly appreciated.
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Need advice on improving Tinder photos 26 Jun 2019 00:27 #318549

You need to greatly improve your looks my man.

You can hire the best photographer In the world, but if you’re not good looking enough, your photos won’t get you laid on tinder.
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Need advice on improving Tinder photos 26 Jun 2019 01:37 #318551

NoStringsAttached wrote: You need to greatly improve your looks my man.

You can hire the best photographer In the world, but if you’re not good looking enough, your photos won’t get you laid on tinder.


I appreciate your reply. And what you mentioned was basically what I was asking. I should've been more specific though. I'm not looking to improve the quality of the photos (enhancements), but what I wear/what I'm doing in them.

What would a good starting point for me to improve my looks?

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Need advice on improving Tinder photos 26 Jun 2019 02:13 #318553

spencers1994 wrote:

NoStringsAttached wrote: You need to greatly improve your looks my man.

You can hire the best photographer In the world, but if you’re not good looking enough, your photos won’t get you laid on tinder.


I appreciate your reply. And what you mentioned was basically what I was asking. I should've been more specific though. I'm not looking to improve the quality of the photos (enhancements), but what I wear/what I'm doing in them.

What would a good starting point for me to improve my looks?


I know you’re not new to the forum. I’ve seen you before. By now, I would have hoped that you at least read the articles on GLL.

But I’ll humor you.

Put on 20lb of muscle, get a decent haircut (get a fade), and dress cool. Right now you dress like 13 year old who likes to ride his Bicycle and burn firecrackers.
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Need advice on improving Tinder photos 26 Jun 2019 02:21 #318554

Put the one of you sticking up the middle finger as your main. It's a gem.

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But yea, start with what NSA said.
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Need advice on improving Tinder photos 26 Jun 2019 03:08 #318556

NoStringsAttached wrote:

spencers1994 wrote:

NoStringsAttached wrote: You need to greatly improve your looks my man.

You can hire the best photographer In the world, but if you’re not good looking enough, your photos won’t get you laid on tinder.


I appreciate your reply. And what you mentioned was basically what I was asking. I should've been more specific though. I'm not looking to improve the quality of the photos (enhancements), but what I wear/what I'm doing in them.

What would a good starting point for me to improve my looks?


I know you’re not new to the forum. I’ve seen you before. By now, I would have hoped that you at least read the articles on GLL.

But I’ll humor you.

Put on 20lb of muscle, get a decent haircut (get a fade), and dress cool. Right now you dress like 13 year old who likes to ride his Bicycle and burn firecrackers.


Thanks for your honesty man, really.

And yeah I remember you too from one of my old posts regarding this type of stuff. I'm glad I don't do the buzzcut anymore if you remember that. haha Idk why I thought that was a good style for me.

I briefly read a few of the articles before, but didn't do anything with it because I thought giving up was easier/the best bet (super low confidence in myself). I learned that that wasn't true for me and that I need to put more effort in.

But your last sentence was really eye opening. Thinking about it, I've been dressing very similarly, if not exactly the same as I did since I was in middle school, with a few exceptions. But otherwise, it's been skate shoes and shirts for too long.

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Need advice on improving Tinder photos 26 Jun 2019 03:22 #318557

Dashedhopes wrote: Put the one of you sticking up the middle finger as your main. It's a gem.

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But yea, start with what NSA said.


I actually got some interesting responses and a few meetups with that picture as my main photo. I thought it would be "different" from the norm and stand out a bit. But why do you say to not use that for a picture?

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Need advice on improving Tinder photos 26 Jun 2019 04:22 #318560

spencers1994 wrote:

NoStringsAttached wrote:

spencers1994 wrote:

NoStringsAttached wrote: You need to greatly improve your looks my man.

You can hire the best photographer In the world, but if you’re not good looking enough, your photos won’t get you laid on tinder.


I appreciate your reply. And what you mentioned was basically what I was asking. I should've been more specific though. I'm not looking to improve the quality of the photos (enhancements), but what I wear/what I'm doing in them.

What would a good starting point for me to improve my looks?


I know you’re not new to the forum. I’ve seen you before. By now, I would have hoped that you at least read the articles on GLL.

But I’ll humor you.

Put on 20lb of muscle, get a decent haircut (get a fade), and dress cool. Right now you dress like 13 year old who likes to ride his Bicycle and burn firecrackers.


Thanks for your honesty man, really.

And yeah I remember you too from one of my old posts regarding this type of stuff. I'm glad I don't do the buzzcut anymore if you remember that. haha Idk why I thought that was a good style for me.

I briefly read a few of the articles before, but didn't do anything with it because I thought giving up was easier/the best bet (super low confidence in myself). I learned that that wasn't true for me and that I need to put more effort in.

But your last sentence was really eye opening. Thinking about it, I've been dressing very similarly, if not exactly the same as I did since I was in middle school, with a few exceptions. But otherwise, it's been skate shoes and shirts for too long.


I’m glad that you believe in yourself now. Now all you need is to take action and your self confidence will grow and push you to great heights!
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Need advice on improving Tinder photos 26 Jun 2019 05:43 #318563

spencers1994 wrote:

Dashedhopes wrote: Put the one of you sticking up the middle finger as your main. It's a gem.

Warning: Spoiler! [ Click to expand ]


But yea, start with what NSA said.


I actually got some interesting responses and a few meetups with that picture as my main photo. I thought it would be "different" from the norm and stand out a bit. But why do you say to not use that for a picture?


Because, as mentioned, with your pics you:

"usually get a decent number of matches over time, but most of them are below average and if I'm lucky, average"

So, if you don't like the quality of girls you're getting, you should NOT listen to what they like.

Let me give you a personal example. My mom and male friends said I looked really good in this pic. And that my long hair was great.

Problem is, my mom has slept with 0 girls in her life. And, I've slept with more girls than some of my friends combined.

Then, Bad Idea Bear (a legit player) tells me:

"I know I'm piling on, and you've already been told this, but HOLY SHIT MAN. You've been obliterating your own chances at getting laid. Life is gonna be so much better when you de-neckbeard yourself (meaning your whole outfit, hair, etc. not your actual beard)"

So I had to make a choice: either let my ego cockblock me and think "that BIB guy is jealous of me and doesn't love me like my mom and friends do"...or...go through 2 days of feeling like an ugly slob and eventually get a haircut and throw away 95% of my summer clothes.

I know that telling you to not use the pic with your middle finger is not the same as a style rehaul. But the principle are the same. You either listen to the guys who've had sex with 100+ girls and had to overcome every challenge under the sun, or you don't listen and keep struggling.

At the end of the day you can either feed your ego...or...your cock with above average and hot girls.

The choice is up to you.
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Need advice on improving Tinder photos 26 Jun 2019 06:19 #318567

You have to make it to ‘look’ like you’re getting laid and not someone to chill with

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Need advice on improving Tinder photos 26 Jun 2019 23:09 #318589

spencers1994 wrote:

Dashedhopes wrote: Put the one of you sticking up the middle finger as your main. It's a gem.

Warning: Spoiler! [ Click to expand ]


But yea, start with what NSA said.


I actually got some interesting responses and a few meetups with that picture as my main photo. I thought it would be "different" from the norm and stand out a bit. But why do you say to not use that for a picture?


It's not a flattering photo.

Do you honestly think that a girl will say Damn that guys cool if she saw that picture?

You just need to be persistent and consistent in improving yourself and eventually you'll be able to get some real good pictures.

You got this!
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Need advice on improving Tinder photos 27 Jun 2019 06:06 #318606

Dashedhopes wrote:

spencers1994 wrote:

Dashedhopes wrote: Put the one of you sticking up the middle finger as your main. It's a gem.

Warning: Spoiler! [ Click to expand ]


But yea, start with what NSA said.


I actually got some interesting responses and a few meetups with that picture as my main photo. I thought it would be "different" from the norm and stand out a bit. But why do you say to not use that for a picture?


It's not a flattering photo.

Do you honestly think that a girl will say Damn that guys cool if she saw that picture?

You just need to be persistent and consistent in improving yourself and eventually you'll be able to get some real good pictures.

You got this!


You're right. It's totally goofy/lame looking. If I were a girl who's good looking and respects herself, and saw that picture, I'd think the guy (me) was a complete bum.
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