TOPIC: Struggling with tinder

sybo wrote: Alright thank you guys. I might try with it too, but definitely gonna get some good outdoor shots

S3nga wrote:

NoStringsAttached wrote:

S3nga wrote: Exactly what BIB said. Every girl I talk about tinder with complains about the shirtless photos being lame. I always respond that a shirtless photo can be made cool, if they are natural and interesting. Like the ones BIB showed. And every girl agrees with me in matter thus far.

Your physique is on point through. And I love the photo too. It's just girls being picky bitches lol.

Don't listen to girls. Look at their actions!

The same girl that says shirtless photos are lame probably fucked some guy that had a shirtless photo up on Tinder.

Anything is a lame to a girl if she doesn't find the guy attractive.

That was the point! I am not telling to drop shirtless pics, but to make it the cool way, lol.

NoStringsAttached wrote: You completely missed my point *facepalm*

You said that OP should take “cool” shirtless photos because a few girls that you talked to said they thought those photos would be appropriate.

What I am saying is that it doesn’t matter what girls say, what matters is what they do.

Most girls are secretive about liking douchebags and fuckboys. They will tell you that they find shirtless photos repulsive then go fuck a guy whose main photo on tinder is a shirtless photo.

This is also why I believe that you should test your photos in the field (on tinder), than asking your friends or photofeeler.

If you want to get laid, then see how many lays you will get using your photos. Notice I said lays and not matches. More matches does not necessarily equate with more lays.

In summary, watch what girls do!

Bad Idea Bear wrote: This is what good shirtless photos look like:

Homeskills wrote:

Rune wrote: Perfect. You look great.

Remember, you'll screen a lot of girls *out* by doing this. They'll think it's lame.

The good news is that the ones that are in will *really* be in.

In other words, hard screening. A lot of rejection, but the ones that are in won't waste your time.

Actually you don't want to be screening too hard with your pics on Tinder. The reason is because Tinder uses the elo-ish scoring system to determine the most popular profiles, and it shows the most popular profiles far more often than those at the bottom. So he can screen hard for girls that are into him and his body all he wants, but the problem is those girls might not ever even see his profile because it's way down in the rankings because so many other girls swiped left.

To use an extreme example, a squeaky-clean profile of a handsome guy doing innocent things like rock climbing or cuddling a dog, with humorous but still non-offensive bio, will be shown to all the girls in his area, while a profile with photos like Chris' dick-through-underpants shot will be shown to almost no one on Tinder. As a result, there might be plenty of girls out there who are into Chris and his dick, but it won't matter because he'll never show up in their list and they won't even get the chance to swipe on him. Basically, you want to try your best to not give girls a reason to swipe left on you. You want to try to appeal to the max amount of girls. You can do your screening for sex in the actual chat messages. This is different than say, POF, where you can message any girl you want and the ones who aren't interested just won't reply, and it doesn't matter, there is no profile "rankings" and so it doesn't get affected.