TOPIC: Struggling with tinder

Hey guys, I havent been using tinder for a while and I am currently setting up a new profile. What do you think about this photo as a shirtless picture?

Depends on other photos

Perfect. You look great.

Remember, you'll screen a lot of girls *out* by doing this. They'll think it's lame.

The good news is that the ones that are in will *really* be in.

In other words, hard screening. A lot of rejection, but the ones that are in won't waste your time.

I want to use it with 2-3 of these photos.

Yes thanks. I wasnt sure if the quality is good enough. My other pictures have definitely better quality

The shirtless pic is on point, man.

Use it with the first pic of your second post and one with a bunch of mates and you'll be set to slay.

Ya'll are out of your minds.

Nooooooot good.

Get some candid shots, this one is super weird with you emerging from the darkness facing/staring directly into the camera. It's too much. Too forced.

For shirtless photos, you want them to look as natural as possible.

You're very good looking, but this photo is awkward.

This is what good shirtless photos look like:

Exactly what BIB said. Every girl I talk about tinder with complains about the shirtless photos being lame. I always respond that a shirtless photo can be made cool, if they are natural and interesting. Like the ones BIB showed. And every girl agrees with me in matter thus far.

Your physique is on point through. And I love the photo too. It's just girls being picky bitches lol.

S3nga wrote: Exactly what BIB said. Every girl I talk about tinder with complains about the shirtless photos being lame. I always respond that a shirtless photo can be made cool, if they are natural and interesting. Like the ones BIB showed. And every girl agrees with me in matter thus far.

Your physique is on point through. And I love the photo too. It's just girls being picky bitches lol.

Don't listen to girls. Look at their actions!

The same girl that says shirtless photos are lame probably fucked some guy that had a shirtless photo up on Tinder.

Anything is a lame to a girl if she doesn't find the guy attractive.

Rune wrote: Perfect. You look great.

Remember, you'll screen a lot of girls *out* by doing this. They'll think it's lame.

The good news is that the ones that are in will *really* be in.

In other words, hard screening. A lot of rejection, but the ones that are in won't waste your time.

Actually you don't want to be screening too hard with your pics on Tinder. The reason is because Tinder uses the elo-ish scoring system to determine the most popular profiles, and it shows the most popular profiles far more often than those at the bottom. So he can screen hard for girls that are into him and his body all he wants, but the problem is those girls might not ever even see his profile because it's way down in the rankings because so many other girls swiped left.

To use an extreme example, a squeaky-clean profile of a handsome guy doing innocent things like rock climbing or cuddling a dog, with humorous but still non-offensive bio, will be shown to all the girls in his area, while a profile with photos like Chris' dick-through-underpants shot will be shown to almost no one on Tinder. As a result, there might be plenty of girls out there who are into Chris and his dick, but it won't matter because he'll never show up in their list and they won't even get the chance to swipe on him. Basically, you want to try your best to not give girls a reason to swipe left on you. You want to try to appeal to the max amount of girls. You can do your screening for sex in the actual chat messages. This is different than say, POF, where you can message any girl you want and the ones who aren't interested just won't reply, and it doesn't matter, there is no profile "rankings" and so it doesn't get affected.

To the OP, you have a good enough physique that you could go out and get a good shirtless in a few hours tops. Just go to the pool, on a hike, mountain biking, literally just any activity where it's feasible to have your shirt off and take some pics, and it would be better than the one you have.

NoStringsAttached wrote:

S3nga wrote: Exactly what BIB said. Every girl I talk about tinder with complains about the shirtless photos being lame. I always respond that a shirtless photo can be made cool, if they are natural and interesting. Like the ones BIB showed. And every girl agrees with me in matter thus far.

Your physique is on point through. And I love the photo too. It's just girls being picky bitches lol.

Don't listen to girls. Look at their actions!

The same girl that says shirtless photos are lame probably fucked some guy that had a shirtless photo up on Tinder.

Anything is a lame to a girl if she doesn't find the guy attractive.

That was the point! I am not telling to drop shirtless pics, but to make it the cool way, lol.