TOPIC: Women infuriating me on online dating apps - tips to improve reply rates?

Wait, are you texting them with "Hey" and "hey how are you?"

Come on mate, you're not even fucking trying.

indian cassanova wrote: Lol at guys who think online dating is dead.

Online game is a combination of 3 things.

1. Your looks (face/body/height)
2. Your pics (they showcase your vibe, personality etc)
3. Your text game (your ability to guide the conversation keeping the goal in mind aka getting laid. This is done through bantering, building comfort, handling objections etc etc). Each girl is different and girls have alot of concerns regarding coming home to some random guy theyev never met).

Pm me here whenever you need help I can help you out I get more lays online than more than 95% of the guys out there. I'll be posting some lr next week here and maybe hem I'll make a long post on how to get good pictures.

Meanwhile. These are the type of matches I got in the last 20 or so days .

drive.google.com/file/d/1y8jFZ8KAeQvqZJf...2p/view?usp=drivesdk

I used to always use online as tool to display value to the women I was talking to on there, and it did, or at least I thought it did a lot to seal the deal/s.

Lately I've been trying to use online the same way I would real life(once I handle AA/SA), go right up and tell her I'm attracted and I decided to say hello, get her number and leave, because I don't actually have time to go out just to talk to women, so I have to take advantage of opportunities when they arise and in the time I have, which I think would be very effective, because it forces me to go for it in the moment actually for real.

Online, in my opinion, has become a sort of playground where you can take risks without actually feeling the fear or rejection or even having go through with anything unless you feel comfortable, it's like there's an added buffer zone. I also think it's a place where women can get a LOT of entertainment and validation plus pick and choose who they want to actually talk to or meet if they get attracted enough, so there's a lot of competition for those reasons, and that's likely why I don't do well online anymore. And that kinda sucks for superficial reasons, but I'm not too booty hurt over it, because I never really met anyone who I thought was that great online anyways.

Back to the original subject; it's like anything in life, if you let it get to you it will get to you, so you have to disassociate what you're trying to do with your emotions. No one owes you anything just because you want to fuck them. You can fuck who you want or talk to who you want if you want to. The same goes for them, if they're not responding the way you want, it's because you're not giving them a reason to. If that infuriates you, it's not them doing it, you're doing to yourself by being dependent/need for a certain outcome in order to feel good about yourself or to otherwise be happy.

killtheinnerloser wrote: "But getting them to be responsive is impossible"

Definitely impossible

Should give up now

Don't even try, it's literally impossible.

... I'm obviously being sarcastic. But be careful of the language you use - telling yourself something is "impossible" is a surefire way to make yourself fail.

Nobody's saying it's easy, and it certainly takes a lot of work. But if you think it's impossible, you won't even try.

Like whiteknightrises said: either go 100% ALL IN, or don't bother.

I agree, if they're not being responsive it's not because it's impossible, it's because it's impossible the way you're doing it, with them at least, some might be responsive, but you can't count on anyone being responsive, that's being outcome dependent/needy.

A much more resourceful frame of mind is to think of it as an experiment where you try something and measure the result, if it doesn't work, instead of getting infuriated, just back up and try something different until you get results you like

killtheinnerloser wrote: Wait, are you texting them with "Hey" and "hey how are you?"

Come on mate, you're not even fucking trying.

I've fucked over 20 girls using 'Hey' and 'hey how are you?' as openers.
If a girl is attracted to you she'll respond.
Nothing more pathetic than crafting some wordy well thought out opener when the girl won't even respond 90% of the time.

Hacknmash123 wrote:

killtheinnerloser wrote: Wait, are you texting them with "Hey" and "hey how are you?"

Come on mate, you're not even fucking trying.

I've fucked over 20 girls using 'Hey' and 'hey how are you?' as openers.
If a girl is attracted to you she'll respond.
Nothing more pathetic than crafting some wordy well thought out opener when the girl won't even respond 90% of the time.

Taking time to text something unique for each girl is a negative ROI.

It's all about time management.

Cut and paste saves you a lot of time.

If she's interested, she won't give a damn about your "originality."

You can be more unique after you meet up. Until then, it's a numbers game and cut and paste helps you put in the numbers.

Hacknmash123 wrote: If a girl is attracted to you she'll respond.

I agree, and at the same time you answered your own question, if they were attracted they would respond, they aren't responding so that means they aren't really attracted. Solution: get better pics.

Jake da Dawg wrote:

Hacknmash123 wrote: If a girl is attracted to you she'll respond.

I agree, and at the same time you answered your own question, if they were attracted they would respond, they aren't responding so that means they aren't really attracted. Solution: get better pics.

I disagree. Getting a better face is the issue, not getting better pics

"Hey guys, help me get better results."
*Multiple people tell you your pics are fucking awful and you need to improve them*
"Nah I disagree"

Don't ask for help if you're not going to listen to anybody.

Hacknmash123 wrote:

Jake da Dawg wrote:

Hacknmash123 wrote: If a girl is attracted to you she'll respond.

I agree, and at the same time you answered your own question, if they were attracted they would respond, they aren't responding so that means they aren't really attracted. Solution: get better pics.

I disagree. Getting a better face is the issue, not getting better pics

Then jump from the highest building in town and hope you get blessed with a 10/10 face in your next life.