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dc7 wrote: Pics are all garbage. That is your problem.
Get better pictures, and your reply rates will go up multiple fold.
Higher quality, ones without shit boring outfits on (weak rain jacket holding your dog with a half assed smile in a potato quality camera in poor lighting will not cut it).
Never use mirror selfies, or selfies in general.
Get a cheap high quality mirrorless camera like a Sony A6000 for less than $1000. Get a prime lens that goes to f/1.4 or f/1.8 (Sony sells some good cheap prime lenses you can get for a few hundred bucks). Both should run you less than $1000 total.
Get some good lighting, better outfit, and a buddy to take some photos with the aperture set to the lowest number setting, and it'll look like you paid for a professional photo shoot.
Biggest fuck up I made when it came to accumulating good pictures, was not getting a good camera, and more importantly (what nobody really knows and took me a while to figure out), get a good prime lens.
Long-term investment that's well worth it.
This is the exact lens and camera I've been using. Very cheap set up that is formidable to full frame high quality Canons, Sonys and Nikons that you'd pay professional photographers to shoot you with:
Sony SEL35F18 35mm f/1.8 Prime Fixed Lens (this one would be ideal on this camera so you don't have to stand so far away, but the 50mm is cheaper):
Sony SEL50F18 50mm f/1.8 Lens (most cost effective high quality prime lens, but 50mm on an aps-c sensors force you to stand pretty far away to get some shots as it is so zoomed in, which can be annoying, but if you don't mind standing an extra foot away, you can save a couple hundred bucks):
God damn that seems like a lot of effort though... none of my friends would take pics of me, just seems incredibly cringey to do a photoshoot with a friend.
I think maybe in London the competition is just too much. Do most guys really need amazing photos to do well? Seems unlikely...
I do appreciate all the responses in the thread though. Realistically I think doing cold approach would be much better for me. That way I can show my good points (voice, height etc) in person. Whereas on online I'm just another cock amongst thousands.
For the guy that said 30 is not a bad number - no it's not but it's terrible considering how many girls I've attempted to speak to (probably 6000+ by now). Most of them were ugly / unattractive as well because they were the only ones that responded.
Hacknmash123 wrote: For the guy that said 30 is not a bad number - no it's not but it's terrible considering how many girls I've attempted to speak to (probably 6000+ by now). Most of them were ugly / unattractive as well because they were the only ones that responded.
That may be true, but consider that there is a dude here who despite using Tinder regularly didn't get laid in 3 years I think. (although he had gaps), so you are definitely not in the worst position out there.
While I am 1000% for you to start cold approaching. I must say. You really haven't done much work with your photos. You are handsome. If it works for the other guys here, it will work for you too. At least TRY to get good photos before you give up. So yeah, pick either approaching or good photos and start working on one of them.
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complete my redshirt year [900+ approaches / 10 lays] ✔
approach 1000 women ✔
learn screening [partially done]
1. Your looks (face/body/height)
2. Your pics (they showcase your vibe, personality etc)
3. Your text game (your ability to guide the conversation keeping the goal in mind aka getting laid. This is done through bantering, building comfort, handling objections etc etc). Each girl is different and girls have alot of concerns regarding coming home to some random guy theyev never met).
Pm me here whenever you need help I can help you out I get more lays online than more than 95% of the guys out there. I'll be posting some lr next week here and maybe hem I'll make a long post on how to get good pictures.
Meanwhile. These are the type of matches I got in the last 20 or so days .
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