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Met this girl on tinder a few weeks ago. Well three girls. We've been snap chatting each other. I'm trying to make plans to hang with them but don't want to spend money or leave the house and spend gas. I'll have drinks at my place for them. How can I get them to trust me enough to come over? I also moved back in with my parents but that's a story for another time.
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I agree with the above. Generally speaking, you can ask and don't make a big deal out of it.
If you've been snapping for a few weeks tbis should be easier.
What are the expectations set? Did you establish the frame that you wanna fuck her or are what have the snaps been about so far?
Is your tinder profile sexual or is it vanilla?
Basically what is she expecting out of meeting you. If you've been texting for a few weeks the comfort part must have already have been established.
You can test the waters by flirting back and forth a bit before you ask her to come over. I need some context.
Below are just a few examples. If you've built enough comfort the girl will reveal her objection too like in one of the screenshots
The "Zero-date bang" is kind of my specialty lol. Out of the 12 or so girls I hung out with on Tinder so far, I only went on dates with 2 of them, the rest came directly to my place on the first meetup.
Basically the best way is to just ask.
"We can chill at my place and get to know each other over a glass of wine" is usually how I pitch it. I like it personally because it handles a girls "we should get to know each other first" bullshit anti-slut defense upfront so you force her to either give you a "Yes" or "No" answer. Ideally the date at your place should be confirmed during your initial Tinder convo prior to exchanging numbers. No point in wasting time texting or snapchatting a broad for god knows how long, who has no intentions on coming over to your place.
Also it's not possible to get a girl to trust you. That's completely out of your control. Your only obligation is letting your intentions be known and allow her to decide from there.
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