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I'm wondering what people think the best way of improving the quality of their online messaging is? Is there a 'product'?
I have Rooster's ebook and made an attempt on online dating with tinder and pof a few months ago. I didn't have great or even good photos, however even when I got matches (eg. she liked my photo) my messages would still mostly go unanswered. I tried being sincere, being funny, and I tried blanket bombing simple little one liners, and mostly got ignored, often by girls who really aren't that attractive.
I intend to make another push and a better prepared one now, and I completely get that good photographs should be my first priority, but how to work on my messaging? I appreciate what is written in Rooster's guide but feel I need more. There are products out there, which I don't particularly want to buy, but if they deliver what they promise maybe I do. I feel like I can be witty and write well, but have a really hard time expressing my personality through a message.
Fair enough. Maybe I'm thinking of it in terms of going out, and seeing women looking but not having the words to follow up. But when I've been successful I admit the words didn't matter anyway. So, photos first.
On that topic, I think it's great that you guys are prepared to offer feedback on people's pictures here, and would like to take advantage of that. But I'm a little paranoid of uploading myself on a public forum. Is there any way to protect your identity?
I appreciate the opportunity to get feedback on pics, and completely understand that it's best not to scrub posts/pics out for the continuity of the threads. I'll read around and get my pics up soon as possible.
HighSchoolOperatic wrote: I didn't have great or even good photos
There's your problem.
Imagine a chick with bad photos.
Maybe she's hot (enough) in real life and has shit pic.
Maybe she's shit in real life and the pics are pretty accurate.
Either way, she had bad photos.
Now, what could she possibly text you that would make you forget all about the sub-standard pics? Could she "wow" you with her "game"? Maybe give herself a few DHV's while giving you a double-neg-backturn-disqualifier?
She wouldn't have to do much if you thought she was hot (great pics) and you were available.
HELP ME HELP YOU. If you're looking for image, fashion, or style advice, please post pictures INSIDE THE FORUM (if possible). You're more likely to get a response. Clicking to links outside the GLL community is a nuisance.
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