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healthyadda wrote: It looks like you are after something long-term, plus online dating is extremely hard. I mean, the competition is unbelievable. 6/10 girls become 10/10 on there and the real hot ones....don't even bother.
There couldn't be a better description of online dating than that.
To the OP, whatever you do, good luck. I am an online dating vet that got dick-all for his hours of emails, chasing, trying, etc.
Needless to say I gave up and never looked back.
I may try again one day but now I'm working on improving myself in the same manner these guys are telling you.
P.S. don't get butthurt by anything anyone says. The dating game is cruel and if you want results then it's tough love time.
Supes1000 wrote: Thank you for your response. Though with all due respect, I don't see how at least my first two pics look any more "try hard" than yours profile pic on here. No offense, but you look like your trying too hard to be like The Fonz. Even the "most popular guys on Tinder" shown in the Tinder seduction article you referred me to all look like they are posing as hard as I am. I don't see the difference. Please enlighten me, if possible.
Indian Cassanova is right. That photo was from a campaign I did with Timex where I was primed by the agency for a "timeless/edgy look." I was thinking more marlon brando/james dean classic look with modern swag so The Fonz is actually what they were going for. Did I ever remotely consider this pic for online dating? No. Too pompous d-bag. I have hundreds of professional modeling pics, but the ones on my online dating profile are candid, natural pics often from international travel. It's all about context.
Indian Cassanova actually has a thread about his picture progress and they went from unnatural to emitting personality with realistic settings and using his eyes to squinch. All the resources are on this forum already. Also, go through the look good posts, at least a few pages. Alot of solid advice in there
I'd embrace the beard an go shorter up top and add texture so it isn't as thin (matte clay). More Ben Affleck than combover. Hair & Style does need work, but even with a solid makeover that same forced body language will set your ceiling pretty low
If you're going to get offended from brutal honesty then GLL isn't the forum for you. The banner reads "Personal Improvement for Aspiring Douchebags" not sugarcoat me so i can underachieve
And most people take at least 1 year if not more to get a set of 3-4 decent pictures. Sometimes longer if you want really awesome travel pictures in exotic locals. Yeah. so don't get discouraged. Evey time you go out, dress well, have a good haircut, and ask someone to take your picture. Sooner or later you'll have a few good ones.
Supes1000 wrote: Also, I just realized something. If Chris's style articles are usually out of date, then does that mean that all of his articles in general are out dated such as the article on number's game?
You just got a LOT of good advice concerning your online profile / pictures - and this is your response to everything ...
(people put time and effort into helping you)
I let this thread go for a bit because it was fine and like I said - the advice has been great and I wanted to give you a chance. However I recognized you in your 3rd photo. You've been banned before - it must not have been IP Banned. (it will be this time)
Anyways. Great advice everybody - will be leaving the thread up for other guys to reference.
Supes, you want proof this shit works? Go read people's logs. More specifically people that have done the AA program and then started a log. I am not talking about written ones either. Go look at videos like Killtheinnerloser or Bad Idea Bear. Look at how they first started in their Vlogs/journals, and look at them today and compare their later videos/loser logs.
This place is brutal/hardcore. We have fucking "verified" lay reports for crying out loud.
The only outdated stuff is obviously things that move on, like technology/fashion. Numbers game ain't ever going to move on, unless she fucking evolves.
A bit specifically on your hair: what looks funny is how it's longer on top and short on the sides. In other words, the hair on top is a different style than the hair on the sides. When you brush the bangs to the side, with your hairline, it looks like your wearing a toupee. Your hair in the gym selfie looks the best, the hair looks longer down the sides so it matches the rest on top.
You might try growing it all out 1-2 inches and seeing if you can style + piece it out with texture.
Although, I can't tell, is your hair really thinning and balding? In which case you might want to just go real short and tight.
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