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I think that touristy pic with the city background is workable. The setting is great which chicks will love. Drawbacks are the scarf and receding hairline, but you're kinda stuck with that hairline though certain haircuts will be more forgiving.
A guitar pic is a good idea but that particular one falls short, the guitar is barely visible and the overall photo quality is poor. Pics with a musical instrument (you don't have to be playing or singing) or a dog are top attractions for girls.
I don't think tinder pics have to totally say player. They just have to say "swipe right". You can sexualize and screen in the messages and dates. Finally, you'll find 2nd date lay is far easier and common than 1st date lays for most guys. Although, tinder is the best place for insta-lays if that's really your goal. In most cases, I'm happy with a 2 date goal, and keeping the 1st date under an hour.
I think some guys are myopic here. They forget or don't realize there are many kinds of girls who are attracted to different types of guys. There are ways to stay true to yourself while still maximizing that personal style and attractiveness. Plenty of girls are attracted to a nomadic hippie, but they're quite different than the ones who fall for the slick dressed club guy.
And finally x2, chill out with the passive aggressive, blatantly sarcastic BS.
Global Nomad wrote: OK so I showed some audios of my cold approaching to a friend, basically said my game had not improved in last 3 years, and I'm not man to woman in my conversations. I rely too much on my fascinating background to keep attention instead of using aloofness and cockiness to create attraction. So I must give same impression I give in my pics.
How can I look and act more men to woman, both through my tinder pics and in real life?
I hope you're joking here.
You can't "create attraction" with "aloofness and cockiness". You need to go actually read the content on GLL before you ask so many questions. I don't get the impression you've actually read anything on this website when you say stuff like this.
- I currently have a lay count of 80. Most of my lays come from day-time cold approach, followed closely by extended social circle and very few night game lays. Only 7 of these 80 women have come from online (all of them these past 18 months as I didn't have a smartphone before).
Additionally, I straight up think you are lying about having 40+ lays from daytime cold approach. You would not be saying ridiculous stuff the above if that was true.
You don't do yourself any favors if you lie to us. We can help you best if you're honest.
So in conclusion, stop worrying about your "game" because pickup artist stuff DOES NOT WORK. You CANNOT "generate attraction" in girls that aren't already interested in you. Go actually READ GLL, and don't lie to us about your level of experience and expect us to give you decent advice in response.
Thanks for everything you guys. It's time for me to move on to bigger things!
I would start with the "less is more" concept. Get your 3 best pics and ditch the rest. You want to max the chance of her swiping right, and minimize any negatives. More pics = more possible reasons to pass you.
You want the pics all high quality, so get someone to take the pic with a galaxy s7 or good iphone, and crop them appropriately. A bunch of your pics are far away, or fuzzy. You want 3 basic things: a good face pic, a good full body shot showing either decent physique or style, a pic showing you doing something interesting.
Also, consider many women are swiping from the first pic and won't see the rest, so you want that main pic to be as good as possible. Go get a good haircut, use a great camera, ideal lighting, and get the best main pic possible.
i actually understand nomad complains. I remember smb made great analogy about passive/active game on rok. Passive is your looks, status, purpose in life, knowledge about attraction and ext = quality of the potential girl. While active ( approaching, verbal skills, escalation, building sexual tension) is sealing deal= quantity of girls. So yes, you can have 100+ lays but if your passive game is lacking your approach/hit rate won't increase and you also won't pass certain threshold among some * quality * women. So blue pill lol )
As to your pictures i highly suggest to put them through photofeeler and get feedback from women. I saw direct correlation with attractive % rate over there and successful match rate on tinder. Guys, in all honesty, can't really judge other guys. We can only when we see asymmetrical disbalance and give advice like- you are fat or you are scrawny or you look dumb..need fix but when it comes judging which guy looks like as 6 on the photo and which one looks as 8...... most guys cant really distinguish and its really crucial cause women are picky as fuck online.
offtopic-i saw few of your posts and wanted to say that im also big fan of paul jankas. I would also recommend you to check david tian in google. Hes one of those intelligent analytical guys who likes to dig deeper non stop in all things that are devoted to the attraction. Why cocky/funny works( whats the biological mechanism behind that), why tonality is important, source of sexual chemistry, what is masculinity and other shit. And he explains all this shit in so coherent manner that it always stayed in my long term memory. Long story short i would say that jankas, chris and other manoshpere writers highly contributed to my active game while David tian made a huge impact on my passive.
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I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
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