TOPIC: Recent Online Fuck-Up...

NoStringsAttached wrote: If you want to get laid, all you need is GLL. Follow GLL principles to the T and you will get laid.

With that said, stop reading everything else and go all in with GLL.

This.

And I'd say, don't worry about experimenting or whatever right now with details like complimenting/not complimenting. It's not important right now, what is important is to get that dick in a pussy and fuck it as many times as possible. Your confidence will skyrocket and you will start to understand.

Ok, thanks guys

So I tried to be less "needy" in my text this morning when I texted to confirm the Day 2 I have set up with this girl.

Here's the text, let me know if it looks good:

Hey guys. Didn't get the lay but I did get my first makeout EVER!!! I'm so happy! I followed Chris' "Lose your virginity" guide and got the makeout on date 2 just like he said!!!

So grateful I found this place.

Tell us what happened

VNER wrote: Tell us what happened

Kk.

I don't want to be too detailed because of privacy, but here are the mentionables:

- She paid for EVERYTHING without us even discussing it...

- I knew it was "on" when she gave me a piece of candy she was sucking on. I sucked on it sensually and loudly while looking into her eyes lol

- She brought up other women she knows her age who have guys my age. was DEFINITELY rationalizing it in her head.

- I suggested we get a room. She laughed, but then she said she wouldn't be opposed to it except she had family over and they would wonder where she was.

- The make out was simple, and there was no sign of it from her (i.e. I didn't know she wanted to kiss me). When I brought her home, I told her to close her eyes. She laughed and asked me something about her glasses.

Then I said "yes, take them off." she did. We kissed, and I wasn't going to go for the tongue but she did instead. We made out for a good minute or two. She was so soft. Then, she laughed and pulled her head to the side. I kissed her cheek.

Then, when she was getting out, I told her "here, one more for luck" we kissed again. and then when we were done, she's like "ok, one more" and we kissed again.

Then she asked when I'd be free during the week and started listing days she'd be free. I told her I was going to see her friday and we'd figure something out.

- After the date she texted me. (Posted below)

So that's basically what happened. If I learned one thing last night it was that you just gotta go for it whether there are signs or not (though, clearly, she was ioi-ing the f*ck out of me all night).

And here's the convo over text we had.I only realized she texted me a half hour after she did. That means I was 1/2 hour late in my reply but she responded immediately.

I've included the juiciest parts (tho my text game needs work perhaps)

H?ey guys, here's another online fuck-up. Seemed this girl was keen but then no reply.

I'd like to know what I did wrong. Thanks guys.

Yesterday - 7:47pm
Her: Evening ​
Evening ​

Today - 12:53pm
Me: Oh hey, looks like I missed this.

Her: Looks like I accidentally sent it twice ​

Me: It's all good. How are you?

Her: Enjoying a lazy morning in, contemplating getting some work done. Yourself? ​

Me: Pretty much the same, though I don't have to work today. What do you do?

Her: I'm finishing up my PhD in biology, so I make my own hours ​

Me: nice! I loved biology. You gonna be a doctor?

Her: A doctor of science! ​
What do you do? ​

Me: Lol, right on. I'm in sales.

Her: You like it? ​

Me: yes and no. how bout you? do you like being a doctor of sciene?

Her: Love the research aspect of it ​

Me: oh? like discovering new cures and stuff like that?

Her: More like discovering new things about bats ​

Me: lol, sounds intensive. but hey, whats your week looking like?

Her: It's quasi open ​

Today - 1:08pm
Me: I hear you. How bout we get a coffee sometime?

Her: Speedy, but sounds like a plan ​

Me: cool. give me your number and I'll text you.

Her: [number]

Me: K, I'm heading out but I'll text you in a few. My name is Pintero btw.

I was going to do daygame so I left the house. Sent her a text on whatsapp saying "Hey [name] It's Pintero from okc. didn't get your name before I left"

No answer, but she definitely read the message.

When I got home, I saw she sent me her name but like I said, I didn't see it before I left.


Thoughts?

I think you're overthinking it buddy.

Some women just find better options or choose not to go out with you because they feel like it.

Sometimes it's just outside your control regardless of what you say.

What?

She's still talking to you! What's the problem dude?

Bad Idea Bear wrote: What?

She's still talking to you! What's the problem dude?

Hey man, appreciate you stopping by. That girl went cold., I actually can't remember what happened.

Recently however I've been getting good at getting numbers online but no dates till I FINALLY got a V-Day date with a russian.

Went went for drinks, she seemed into me but a bit closed off.

halfway through our date she got "dark" on me. talked about her life, shit she's been through (father and brother died, etc) I tried to relate. Anyhow, we left and I drove her "home" (not really home, just to an area where she hopped out).

Before we got in the car to leave I kissed her. 2 pecks then she gave me the cheek.

When we got to the area she wanted me to drop her at. She hugged me, kissed me on the cheek, then we kissed a few more times then she got out.

Since then it's been impossible to meet up with her and I get the feeling she's jerking me around/friendzoned me.

Just last night, for example, I got her to agree to buy me coffee but when I suggested a place to meet she's like "it's too late to get coffee" so yeah. I don't think I'll contact her again.

This makes the 2nd girl I've ever kissed. Sure is a long/hard road.

Anyhow, just got back on GLL so thought I'd give a quick update. Cheers guys!

Hey Pint,

Were you touching her at all during the date? Also, did you talk about her past relationships / turn the convo sexual?

From my experience, Russian girls are a HUGE waste of time. Way too much bullshit expectations in their head, expensive + multiple dates mentality, etc...

Shanghai_Bobby wrote: Hey Pint,

Were you touching her at all during the date? Also, did you talk about her past relationships / turn the convo sexual?

From my experience, Russian girls are a HUGE waste of time. Way too much bullshit expectations in their head, expensive + multiple dates mentality, etc...

Hey Bobby.

I touched her on her back or arm a lot (rub/caress) whenever she said something I liked. I tried to touch her abs when she talked about how she needed to get to the gym but she wouldn't let me (had arms crossed and literally said "no" when I said "let me see")

We also play punched each other (mostly her doing it to me) when making jokes and stuff.

When we left the bar I put my arm around her and then after a few steps I grabbed her arm and put it around my waist too.

I didn't go sexual with the convo because I'm a virgin and, well, how can I talk about sex if I've never had it? lol

Didn't talk about past relationships no.

And yeah what you say about russian girls, I definitely see how that could be. I'm getting a distinct "pay for me" vibe from her. Like I said, won't be texting her again. If she texts me, well, I'll go for a meet but not holding my breath.

Thanks for weighing in.