TOPIC: How do you cope with rude bitches?

Dashed relax buddy. I didn't tell him to do so, I presented some truth about the female psychology. It's up to him to do what he wants.

She is rude to you because she thinks you are ugly. You have NCT (Negative Canthal Tilt).

I don't get bad responses too often, but if I feel like it I'll sometimes be mean back to girls (rarely tho and it tends to happen when Im drunk haha.)

I usually tell guys that if they feel to tell a girl off who they feel disrespected them, to do it.

There is a method to my madness though. Usually the guys who are having this happen to them are beginners. It can crush their confidence if they think these womens' opinions are valid, because men who have trouble with women, have self love/confidence problems.

When she attacks the guy and the guy tells her off, he is actually saying that he loves/values himself to such a high degree that it angers him that she would dare think poorly of him.

Chris writes about this with the sense of entitlement.

MLD: You pretty much confirmed everything I already know man, thanks for that, Im glad to be reassured

Just to reiterate what I've already posted in other threads - I don't live in Japan, I live in Prague, and I'm extremely picky to whom I fuck (I know I shouldn't, but I am), I also don't do cold approach yet = low numbers, there's only a handful of Japanese girls - I'm only on PoF for Tokyo because I like to travel to Japan, I have a fuckbuddy there - I've been pretty successful in the short periods of time I've been there, although I didn't lay any new girls (last time I had a few girls very interested, but ended up with my fuckbuddy for the rest of the week). So far I've been 3 times, once before I discovered GLL (Tokyo actually made me wanna do pick-up lol), now I'm going to Korea in 1 month (before that, I have this fuckbuddy coming to visit me here)

I also don't fuck non-Asian girls, and even between Asians, I'm still picky - I really go for Japanese and Korean girls mostly, and so far just online... I started AA program again (see my AA log in the forum) only to be able to hit on Asian tourists in here, there are many

I wanna pack a lot of muscle, but I only recently stopped doing bullshit and I realised what I've been doing wrong. Believe it or not, I've been going to the gym for more than 1 year already, but almost never had results - they just started showing

And yeah, about Japanese girls psychology ... I'm definitely not as experienced as you, but I see and have heard variations of this many many times ... everything you said is 100% true

Slight off-topic, in reply to the "Japanese game"

One example of GLL-type screening in Roppongi, Tokyo

Basically, I made eye contact with her in a bar, made the "come here" gesture, we talked, started making out 10 minutes later, I dragged her outside and started massaging her pussy, but she had to go back to HUB to her fat friend who had a birthday party. We went inside, I smacked her ass (she returned the favour) and told her to call me back when they're finished in the club after. This convo followed (she even called me on the phone, horny and drunk as fuck)

imgur.com/a/VwlVL ?

Gaijin hunters are funny. She was spamming me the next day and wanted to come to my hotel, but I already had a meetup lined up with my fuckbuddy from the last time (also, this girl isn't so attractive honestly...). Then we ended up fucking for 3 days, so I didnt have time for any other "numbers"

I know I would have massive success in Japan if I lived there, that's why I'm trying to move there - but I can't get a visa until I finish university, and even then a job might be a problem - so, I'm looking at 3 more years at best and never at worst

Well, there are still other Asian countries, right?

"your gross" means Im a bitch don't waste your time or energy on me.

Say thank god I found that out fast before I wasted more time on her. Dint respond with petty butt hurt feelings like you did. Lowers your value, makes you invest in a shit interaction even further, it solidifies her view of you and makes her feel justified, and it makes you look extremely needy and childish and like you don't get laid.

I do one of two things. If its in person I say something like " Oh, I guess you don't like Lamborghnis" and walk away without waiting for a reaction. Or I say "But I have a lot of Money!" but i am doing this for my own amusement not to actually change her mind. If I'm out approaching women it is critical to stay in a good mood so if this happens to you in person you immediately have to make yourself laugh. Saying things like that makes me laugh and i Leave in a good mood ready for more.

Or two if its online Which has only happened like literally twice but still.. Ill say mmm oh yeah talk dirty to me. But also knowing i will never talk to her again if she responds then cool ill still ignore it. if she doesn't then good because i don't want her attitude anyway. But again it makes me laugh, keeps my mood high and puts me in a place in her mind of oh shit he must have abundance.

"You're gross"

"So are you, but IDGAF...fat chicks always give the best head."


That is the ONLY kind of thing I would ever reply with in a situation like that. Most likely I just wouldn't respond at all. When you type up a mini paragraph in response to someone's insult, it only reveals to them that they succeeded in getting under your skin.

It's never happened to me before, but honestly i'd meet said disrespect with my own disrespect and Insult her back. No long paragraph about her physical flaws. No "god bless you" and laughing it off- none of that. Do it as succinctly as possible.

Many girls today assume they can get away with almost anything-just cuz. Whether it's hitting a man and not expecting to get hit back or being disrespectful verbally with her broke ass keyboard- can't even spell "fuck" right- self.

foh with that.

I think you are good looking AND you look like a nice guy. I imagine if you try to seduce girls with telling them they are a cutie or sexy or babe or whatever, and not "court" them in a polite manner, girls will be bitches to you. I agree about changing your appearance to look like a bad boy.

Now as to how to cope? I have had my fair share of it. I am an average looking guy that also looks kind of like a husband. I am also emotionally sensitive and at the same time I've developed a way of dealing with criticism ad insults. So some might say I'm thick skinned but I'm not really. The way I think you need to deal with it is if you are really angry in the moment, then just be simple, dumb and express your anger. Just say, "fuck you bitch." Or something like that so you blow off a bit of steam. And your anger in your body may or may not increase. And then the most important part is to meditate over your body (I recommend vipassana) rather than think/imagine/argue. Your ego is hurt and angry, and your body may have some uncomfortable sensations. E.g warmth, tension, tightness, pulsing. So pay attention to all those sensations. And do so neutrally. Even if a sensation is painful or uncomfortable, just observe it neutrally, if it's pleasurable, observe it neutrally. What your mind is saying is mostly unimportant but it will trick you into thinking it's important. If you learn this well enough to observe your bodily sensations FIRST and your mind SECOND. (takes a lot of practice) You can deal with almost any criticism, insults whatever because you realise it's mostly just sounds coming out of someones mouth (or text on a screen in this case) and your body is reacting, and you can be ok with all the sensations. You can observe your mind neutrally after looking at the sensations. If you instead start going into your mind first and body second, (or don't even look at your body) your ego will get defensive and angry and hurt and possibly sad and keep thinking over it, which you could probably call suffering. You're not what someone else thinks of you, you're not even what you think of you. You're just a noticing being, that has the ability to observe everything going on. I highly recommend you do vipassana.

CitySleek wrote: Guck off

LOL @ this thread.

In all seriousness don't even bother responding, a complete waste of your time. If girls are telling you that your gross online I would assume you need to work on your looks, I have never had that happen to me, ever.

^ Thank God for your replies. I don't understand how these threads even drag on