TOPIC: How do you cope with rude bitches?

It always fucks with my head for at least a couple of days when I get a really rude response to something generally nice / neutral. Especially when I give a really nice compliment (not in this case) and get some unappreciative bullshit reply.

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In other cases I got asked whether I'm gay (for no reason, I had normal photos, used a generic opener. after 1 line, the girl just straight up asked me if I like to suck dick lol), told that I have no game (for telling a girl she is cute - as an opener. so, in return, I told her she is a rude bitch and she blocked me. FeelsGoodMan.jpg) etc. Usually, I just get ignored - got used to that - but if you go out of your way to treat people like shit, that's really something

My profile everywhere looks like a nice guy if anything lol, def not some creepy or fat photos

After 1 year of online dating, I'm starting to believe that it's filled with crazy bitches

Any advice how to handle the "inner game" and not letting this mess with your self-confidence? Of course if I had a pussy available, I probably wouldn't care so much

Guck off

When people are rude to me, I like to hit them with a one-two punch combo: laugh, initially, and, then, say "God bless you." Do the same online. It really is very disarming. If they are uninterested, they should not reply. After, report them.

Also, the girl does you a favor by reacting like that.

Just call 'em a cunt

whoa what the fuck? what website is this on, okcupid?

ive never had this problem with tinder. feelin grateful right now that i dont even fuck with dating websites.

HOWEVER, i know what is causing this.

My profile everywhere looks like a nice guy if anything lol,

I actually knew it was this before i even read that sentence.

when you look like a nice guy, girls give you ZERO LICENSE to be sleazy. i look like a bit of a scumbag in my tinder profile, so girls basically never call me out even though my first move is to invite them to my apartment. also, its tinder so its already girls that matched me, now that i think about it.

if you look more sleazy, you'll actually get less hate from girls for being sleazy

Oh, and by the way, that girls deserves to have her feelings hurt. if you really want to get some girl back who was super mean to you for no reason, go through her photos and tell her all of her flaws. EG your thighs are big, your jaw is all manly, your boobs are tiny, you have no sense of style etc.

Ignore. Immediately move on. Focus on the ones you can connect with. The rest don't mean shit.

...and yes you need to be getting laid regularly. Then your mindset on all of this will change.

Thx for all the advices. I wanted to tell her she is a cunt, but then I wouldn't be able to report her, or I would be in trouble too haha

BIB: it was on PoF. The other 2 other I mentioned were from Tinder But I guess statistically it's insignificant when I think about it, I've messaged a lot of girls over the year and only a few were so bitchy...

Just in case you wanna check my profile - www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=97312498 - it's basically a mix copypasta of all the recommended profiles around here I almost never use PoF since it's a graveyard everywhere except USA lol

Tell me if it's too niceguyish - honestly, I have really old photos, my style is now a bit more edgy ... I should probably get the DSLR out again

Btw, if you're interested to see a rude bitch, check out her profile:
www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=129305281
now tell me, would you expect this kind of bulldyke shit from such a cutie pie?

A:

Aight it's official I'm moving to Japan

B:

Holy fuck though, your profile has created a whole new level of "nice guy". I would say you look like husband material, ESPECIALLY in the last 3 photos. Even the photo of you in the tank top is too heavily offset by your friendly smile.

We have officially diagnosed why girls are saying rude things. Gonna need to completely overhaul your profile. Pic #2 can stay but ALL of the rest of them have to go.

If you're super buff, you can pull off the "friendly smile" look on your face. But until then you need to set your facial expression closer to this:

Hahaha okay. I'm gonna focus on getting new pics

It's funny because in RL I'm pretty much an asshole ... I almost got fired because of that ... But I guess in one of the articles Chris said like "be a douchebag, not an asshole" - I'm gonna work on that ...

BIB is right, rip into her with all her insecurities if you wanna cut deep. They will obsess over it for days.

My thoughts on this bitch after living in Japan 2 years:

This is definitely not a real profile OR she has been raised/exposed to some Western Culture. These girls are a complete self hating mess back in Japan, where men rule the social grounds.

Most girls who study English in Japan wouldn't dare be that rude or know how to use "You're gross" in proper context unless learned by some jaded cunt.

Red flags:
1.) She is a model, these girls are status seeking megacunts in Japan.
2.) First date is listed as Disney date, gold digger.
3.) She treated you poorly, this shows that she is pretty miserable with her life, bitches like that deserve to get fucked and thrown out of your house as soon as you're done with them. They are a cancer to your life otherwise than providing you with sexual satisfaction

This leads me to believe she has definitely been tainted by Western culture and/or has some Western friends she hangs with.

Unfortunately, when a woman doesn't find you fuckable, she will treat you with zero respect (if she is a miserable cunt/person of low character). You are a leper to them if they deem you unattractive.

I can tell by your low number count that you're relatively innocent. The game makes you hard. Examples, look @ Bibs face vs yours. He looks hardened by the game and it's not fake. Same with Chris from GLL here. Most girls in Japan thought I was in the mafia, despite my chipper Youtube presence, I rarely smile in real life. I'm happy but not shooting rainbows out of my ass 24/7.

Advice for you:

1.) Be more selfish, plan dates that you want, where you want, and what you wanna do.

2.) Warm smiles whatever your title is on POF, sounds gay as fuck. Say it with much love brother, make it more masculine.

3.) You're not ugly at all. You need to re-package yourself. You look like a cute little puppy in your photos.

4.) In Japan you have a huge edge by being foreign and the girls there are actually normal and feminine so sexual relations are a lot easier and more fluid. (American girls are the biggest sluts/psychos/headaches/trouble in the world) So keep in mind that if you come back to the USA it will be 10x harder. The good thing is if you can consistently fuck girls in the USA then you can do it anywhere in the world with a few cultural tweaks.

5.) Get into the gym and start packing on muscle. I was on TRT in Japan (steroids are legal there) and I got to a decent size. The women loved it, they were always touching my arms and rubbing my chest saying I'm "very macho body." The average Japanese guy has a body similar to yours, thin and frail looking. Pack on some muscle+ being white+ having game= a Tsunami of pussy. You have to stand out from the other nerdy gaijin too.

In 2015, I lived in Osaka and fucked 27 girls in 1 year while gaming part time and working 3-6 jobs a week 6-7 days a week. Money came first, bitches second, so it's definitely possible for you.I can get you set on Easy mode. Are you going to any Gaitomo parties or International parties? Those things are shooting fish in a barrel and you're armed with an M249 lol

If you have any questions DM me, I am an expert at fucking Japanese girls. I can have them literally washing your body in the shower in no time, hate to see my fellow men get treated like shit by women!

BIB is right, rip into her with all her insecurities if you wanna cut deep. They will obsess over it for days.

That's some really negative shit, dude... People say what they want on the internet and putting that much energy into making someone "cut deep and obsess over it for days"... Why would you ever wish that on someone?

There's a fine line between standing up for yourself (which he did) and spending extra time just to be negative, which effects you in the long run more than them because you're just a shitty person if you want to hurt someone.

In terms of style and pictures, take BIB's advice.

My experience with doing the AA program is that rude girls are the ugly ones. I would approach all girls cause it's easier to get the drills done on ugly chicks as well as the hot ones (more girls in total). Whenever I approached either an ugly chick or a fat chick they would give me a negative reaction because more likely than not they believe you're joking with them since they cannot comprehend in their mind why a hot guy would talk to them.

There can be hot girls that are bitches but most good looking girls are emotionally stable and healthy so they either just decline giving you their number or say they have a boyfriend.

If a girl gives you a bad reaction then it's their loss. Minimize your feelings about the approach and move on asap. Don't let a negative reaction ruin your day because then they've achieved what they wanted to do, make you feel bad. If you want to say, "You have small tits anyway" or something mean then say it but don't fight with someone cause that's just dumb and counterproductive to what you're doing.

Hope this helps.

PS. You dealt with this chick online just fine.

Big.in.Japan wrote: Thx for all the advices. I wanted to tell her she is a cunt, but then I wouldn't be able to report her, or I would be in trouble too haha

BIB: it was on PoF. The other 2 other I mentioned were from Tinder But I guess statistically it's insignificant when I think about it, I've messaged a lot of girls over the year and only a few were so bitchy...

Just in case you wanna check my profile - www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=97312498 - it's basically a mix copypasta of all the recommended profiles around here I almost never use PoF since it's a graveyard everywhere except USA lol

Tell me if it's too niceguyish - honestly, I have really old photos, my style is now a bit more edgy ... I should probably get the DSLR out again

Btw, if you're interested to see a rude bitch, check out her profile:
www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=129305281
now tell me, would you expect this kind of bulldyke shit from such a cutie pie?

"I love English culture, it's cool. " She even sounds young and immature.