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WoodisGood wrote: I've gotten good feedback from woman friends and dates on this one:
Shows that I travel, i'm fit, i'm having fun and don't need to display my 6 pack. Girls said that if I turned around and showed my whole body they wouldn't have swiped (gf quality, looks were a 8-9)
Yep. I find one of the best ways to show off a good physique is to find a way to make it look like you're not trying to show it off. Example: in your current avatar, you can tell you fit, but you're *just* wearing a t-shirt.
Give girls the opportunity to feel like they're not just looking for a guy with a hot body. In other words, provide her with PLAUSIBLE DENIABILITY. She's not online looking for a hot guy to fuck; she's just looking for a guy and - oh, what do you know? - he just so happens to have a great physique.
Temporarily unavailable as I need to focus on other areas of my life. Only focusing on no more than two goals at once. Best of luck to you guys.
All of y'all say my pics look good, but obviously they don't so I'd rather have some critique. I think I need to put Tinder on hold until I lose the fat and get shredded again. Also get a tan and work on bringing up my chest. Any more advice on what kinda pics to take? I'm starting to fear that I may never reach good enough looks to make this work...
I took the picture folder down due to privacy reasons.
25 y/o virgin before GLL
Hey man I saw your pics a few days ago and I think you are suffering from the same thing I was suffering back in 2013 when I was trying to be succesful online.
You can see the attached pic to see what my physique was like - I was not a big guy but I had an athletic look and genuienly am 6'4". I would get thousands of upvotes posting my pics on reddit with hundreds of women (and guys..) telling me I was hot etc etc, but online dating? nothing.
So here is the advice I will give you that I received back then that made me re-think my approach to online dating.
"Dude look at your eyes, you look desparate, you look needy. Yea you have a good body but your face says 'please, I need you'".
You're not as bad as I am but basically you look like you're trying too hard. You look like you're taking a lot of these pics for the sole reason of trying to get some tail online. You look like you're thinking "I hope they like this one". You look like you give a fuck.
You have a good body - better than most guys ever will, getting more shredded / bigger will have little return at this point. If you had one pic of you at a music festival, topless, with 2 hot girls on either side of you, you'd be slayin. Also back in 2013 I got a little too good at taking photos of myself in my room by myself. Like "yea that's a nice photo... but something seems off"
I don't know but the guys that seem to do good are posting very flaterring pics that are also totally nonchalant.
I tried to stalk some guys who are probably doing very well on PoF. I do this sometimes to scout my competition / what I'm up against:
@Leopard yeah, secretly I know it's probably what I'm saying or not saying and my overall attitude rather than the pics.
@Play_time_is_over I read your message and a lot of it rings true. I give too many shits and am afraid of experimenting and failing. I guess I just need to be taking more pictures of myself in general - especially when I'm out with friends.
25 y/o virgin before GLL
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