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At the request of a couple users I'm going to walk ya'll through my Tinder process. It's not much, but since I signed up for Tinder I've had penis in vagina with 4 girls and gotten a blowjob from another. That's all within a month, so I'm averaging a new girl every week.
Your pics are 90% of your success on Tinder. The REAL Tinder game is figuring out how to get photos that get matches. I'm not gonna go into detail about that in this guide because there's SO MUCH to talk about on that front. I'm really barely giving you guys anything, but so many dudes really want to know "what to say". That is always a hangup point for guys and it comes up over and over again so I'm just gonna address all of that so you don't even have to think about it anymore.
Anyway, here's my profile:
As you can see, I use lots of editing and filters on my photos to make myself look better. That is CRUCIAL. You HAVE to use color filters, they REALLY REALLY WORK. If you start paying attention to girls photos, you'll notice that they look much fucking hotter with filters.Trust me the girls won't give you any shit about it. Assuming you use ACTUAL, CURRENT photos of you, the girls are going to understand that you won't look quite as awesome in person. They account for that. Make your photos AS ATTRACTIVE AS POSSIBLE.
GIRL #1 COMMENTARY:
See the lay reports section for a full vid. You might have to go back a few pages to find it.
GIRL #2 COMMENTARY:
All I had to use was a little persistence. She was saying she "can't do horror movies" so I just said "I believe in you". These are the kinds of comments that you learn to effortlessly brush off with experience. It would be easy to give up or start supplicating at those points, but often it's better to just barrel through and stick to your game plan. You'd be surprised at how many times a girl says "I can't hang out tonight, I have a midterm tomorrow" and then change their mind when you say "It'll be no problem, I'lll have you home early, promise"
Some guys might also give me shit for following her command or "falling into her frame" or whatever by sending her a selfie when she asked me for one. Personally, I don't give a shit. Doesn't matter had sex.
GIRL #3 COMMENTARY:
Don't have the original Tinder convo. Nothing much to talk about here. She was texting me a little bit much for my liking, but she seemed to want some basic information about me so I gave it to her. No need to be an ass, you don't have to deflect every question a girl asks about you. PUAs will say this is "bad game", but again it doesn't matter. Sometimes girls just need you to give a little to get a little.
GIRL #4 COMMENTARY:
Lol @ how the "are you going to murder me?" keeps coming up. That's a hallmark of online dating. Most guys don't dare to invite girls back to their place right away, so you're going to get this a lot. It's no big deal, just don't be a weirdo and reassure the girl you're not a psycho.
Thanks for everything you guys. It's time for me to move on to bigger things!
This is a great thread and should be stickied (I'm on my phone so I can't tell if it isn't already). I started reading this but then realized... I already know all this from my own experience so I should just focus on doing rather than being all insecure.
Tryin a new strategy myself - what if I just talk to the chicks for a week before even suggesting going out? That way I can weed out who's "in" and who's not.
25 y/o virgin before GLL
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