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I wouldn't worry about not looking like the picture. Personally, I'd put the shredded picture up and make a joke about having a change in career and "becoming a professional potato chip connoisseur" or something along those lines.
As for the mild anxiety you feel towards messaging- don't use Tinder with a scarcity mindset. Unless you live in the middle of nowhere, you have unlimited access to women with that app. You can also stack it with other apps like Bumble, etc.
The anxiety will leave as you keep messaging multiple girls.
I tell guys- "just screw it up"- its o.k. Rooster has tons of information on online dating and there are plenty of tips on the forums. Keep you pipeline full( have lots of matches across multiple apps), don't get attached to any one girl and as soon as she's interested, give her your number.
Crisis_Overcomer wrote: As for my favorite opener:
"<name of girl> shame on you. We connected so many hours ago and you still haven't said "hi". Where are your manners? Sheesh."
I tried this but neither answered. I think it only works if youre good looking. I also had a couple of good interactions going but both died as soon as I started moving it towards meeting up. Maybe I should try talking to them for a few days before pitching the meet? Maybe its my pics, I'm not getting a whole lot of matches. I came across my ex on there too, I wonder if she thinks I wont be able to hook up with anyone after her. Im really low on motivation I wish I just had one little success story to motivate me.
25 y/o virgin before GLL
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