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I'd say screen just like you would regularly, but you already have an in since you both are on the same dating site. If she does any shit that you don't want to deal with just move on the same as you would with any chick on PoF.
There was I girl I was only friends with, but was in love with her(my elementary school nce guy years). So after 4 years(FOUR!) of friendzone, I called her to watch a movie together(we've never been to each other's home), and made out with her. It was awkwardly at first, but then it went really good. I didn't fuck her, we just cuddled on my bed. I went for it, but she didn't want. She needed more time to reframe my person in her head to be my fuckbuddy. But I had almost no time, I should have gone to another city to study my fucking physics. You now shouldn't go anywhere(at least for a couple of months), so go for it, may be it will be the greatest relatonships in your life.
And may be you can use pof for the best effect. Since you are both on dating site, ask her on a date like you don't know her and go for it on a "date". It should be awesome.
My opinion is to go for it. Just don't have any expectations. So make your move, try and fuck her and if it doesn't work out, or she bitches about her boyfriend and annoys you, oh well. At least you tried. Better to make a move and have it not work out - at least then you have an answer instead of wondering.
“Of all sad words of tongue or pen, the saddest are these, 'It might have been.”
― John Greenleaf Whittier
I personally avoid being too serious with girls in a conversation that way. I would just redirect what she says and frame it into a dating mindset, but I have a much more joking personality than most guys here seem to have with girls.
My response would probably be more like "woah, friends again?! You gotta slow down there homegirl, take me on a date first and we can consider it."
NumberOneStag wrote: Almost tempted to say "I passed up an opportunity to get involved with you 3 years ago. Regret it. And now I don't know if I'd be able to control myself around you."
Dude, you've already lost because you like her too much. After 3 years, the vibe you should be having is that she is lucky that you're even talking to her. Anything less, and she's gonna friendzone your ass.
Your problem is that she only knows how you were 3 years ago. Don't still be that guy.
Be the guy exuding Swag and Entitlement - if you have to, fake it!
She needs to experience the new you before you even attempt to go for it.
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