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Manpoolz wrote: Just got back from a date. Definitely not a fan of online dating anymore. I actually approached girls after my date left and it felt good. Talking to girls in person definitely seems easier and right then and there I decided if the girls is cool enough to hangout with me later. Too bad they were taken. I guess online dating is not for everyone. Going to focus more on AA now. I love the rush I get from approaching.
I've been flaked on dates soo many times its fucking ridiculous. I've even had girls say you're handsome/cute/hot and then flake...
Not every guy in LA or NYC has the social skills to get girls (Not Yet!). There are a ton of guys on this forum from those areas. It's not misleading at all. If you live in a small town or remote area do what Chris suggest and move to a better geographic location (whenever you're able to).
I live near a major metropolitan area and I do feel bad for guys who live in the sticks/rural areas. One thing I will say, OLD can be really frustrating. I recently experienced this myself. Women can be seriously flakey. Recently, I managed to pull 4-5 numbers from POF. Two of those girls are solid 8-9's. One of them, looks-wise, is a 10/10 IMO. It's tough. I must have sent 50-60 messages before I got to this point. Not to mention, countless AND relentless emails from whales and/or gross women.
My feeling is it's part of the picture. When you're applying for a job do you just apply to ONE job? Or do you increase your chances?
Believe me, I was in the same boat. Then I realized you have to keep as many irons in the fire as you can.
It's not the fault of OLD that you guys live in small towns with a small pool of women to choose from. Try to move to a bigger city - there's gonna be more/better looking women IRL to approach as well. The nature of OLD revolves around looking as good as possible and hitting up as many women as possible. I think I've fucked 5 girls from online this year and but I've gone on like 10 dates and sent hundreds of messages.
I had one chick send me naked snapchats of herself and say she can't wait for us to hang out. We made plans to meet the next day at 11pm, I go to the place & she texts me "hey i'm getting in the cab now - be there in 15" and then she never comes. I literally never heard from her ever again, she didn't answer my phone call/texts nothing. Yeah, some bitches are crazy but you can't let a few chicks acting nuts deter you from getting it in.
When it comes to online dating I've had real bad luck.
Like all of the girls I write to don't respond, and if they do respond, they are fatties. I've followed the pattern for getting numbers, but most flake out saying how they "wanna talk on here" or "I don't give my number out"
When I get a girls number, trying to set up a date is near impossible as they make tons of excuses as to why not.
Of all the girls I've met, none of them were normal. They had mental issues, were fatties, some lied about their pics and had facial hair and hairy arms. Other girls lied about their weight, etc.
In my 6 years of online dating, I've only met 17 girls, and only got some foreplay, etc. with 5 of them.
Each date just feels extremely awkward and I never feel like I've gotten better socially.
I've also thought of quitting online dating completely as it seems like it's a big let down.
Most don't look as good as in pics or they're dumb or arrogant. Online dating is online dating. Are we gonna bitch about it or accept that that's the name of the game and adapt? Here's my formula on what I'm gonna do next:
Message as many as possible. Only focus on the best responding ones.
Try to set up the date ASAP.
Don't small talk to them before the date.
Eject from the date ASAP if it's going nowhere.
25 y/o virgin before GLL
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