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Back in 2009, I started online dating as a 16 year old (almost 17). To be honest, in the 5 years 10 months I've done online dating, I've only met 8 people in person. In my experience, it seems like the girls I've ran into on these sites are all damaged goods. The girls I've ran into were 1. gold diggers 2. flakey 3. rape victim/fat girl/won't have sex till love/Jesus freak 4. depressive/disability/drug user 5. lack of hygiene 6. shy/introverted.
I'd say I'm a good looking guy, I work out, eat healthy, and keep myself well groomed. I've written to many girls over the years only to not get many responses either. As a comparison, the first two girls I asked out in real life agreed to go on a date with me. It just seems to me that online you're more likely to deal with the above girls plus fakes, etc.
So my question is, for a guy whose self confidence has taken a hit from the negative responses from online dating, is it better to meet girls in person?
im the same way though - I get much better results from meeting real live girls but I have also had good results from online. The key is to get sexy pictures of yourself, hit the numbers hard and don't expect too much
Rooster wrote: Hows your pictures? post them up. You can post them on the members only board to keep it private from google, then paste the link here.
I've got tons of rejections/negative replies. But with solid pictures there's always some girls who will pull through to meet up.
There's always some crazies or flaky chicks, & to an extent you'll have to accept that, but there's a lot of legit normal girls who are completely willing to meet & fuck
Also, 17 years old is a difficult age for online dating. Chicks are much more willing to meet guys older than them than younger. This alone should make a big difference
Well, I'm 22 now. I'm sure I could've gotten 2 girls to fuck but 1. It would've been in a relationship 2. one girl was fat and refused to lose weight and the other had an ugly face and had facial hair.
Ok, I'll post my pictures and then post the think here.
Are these the same pics your using on the dating sites? If so that why your not having any success. Keep your shirt on, wear some clothes that fit (and no toys r us shirts), and get some professional pictures done. After that go message 100 girls and I guarantee you will see better results.
The best thing you can do is take that suit and get it custom tailored because its way to big and then get professional pics done. tell the photographer to make you look sexy.
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