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First of all, I'm a 16 year old guy from Germany, still a virgin (On the way to loose ny v card though).
When I was 15 I had my first girlfriend and my first (and only) big love. She had some personal problems at home and at her school that lead to her breaking up with me. Aprox. half a year ago we met up again to drink, I got so wasted and I said some stupid shit to her that was kinda rude. She left and I apologised like a thousand times once I was sober, I genuienly felt bad because I still had some feelings for her. A month ago I was in bed late at night thinking about all sorts of things, then the bad incident I had with her came up again. I thought I wouldn't see her ever again so I wrote her another apologie, just to get it off my chest and because that's really the most embarassing and the worst thing I ever did. I also said that I'm not interested in her anymore so it doesn't come off as if I only text her because I want to get with her again. She replied saying that it isn't that big of a deal anymore and I shouldn't feel bad. After that I thought it was done, I'll never speak to her ever again. A week later she hits me up asking if I'd like to meet up, to talk (At this point I didn't really have that profound feelings for her). I agreed and we met up. We were walking for 4 hours talking the whole time, we got really good chemistry. The problem is I wrote that I'm no longer interested in her. I'm kinda interested in her, especially after the nice evening we had with each other. I don't know if she just wants to be friends with me or if she's open to being in a relationship / to date. I don't want to waste my time meeting up with her just to be her friend, I'm not interested in a girl best friend, I don't want to catch feelings just to get thrown into the friend zone. I don't know how to go about this, since I don't want to scare her away. I don't want to fuck this up because I really like her. This may be a stupid post since I'm probably overthinking way too much. Don't have a big brother I could ask so I thought I'd post here. Ty! (Keep in mind she is 17, not really experienced with relationships / relationship stuff...)
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