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Bad Habit - Dating Thirsty Girls Below My Level. Want to Meet 10s
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Bad Habit - Dating Thirsty Girls Below My Level. Want to Meet 10s 19 Apr 2020 05:20 #328019

Fellow Losers,

I've been reading GLL since late 2015. It changed my life. Today, at 25, I have 45 kills under my belt and have had some really amazing, wild, kinky experiences with women of different quality and ages. I've even fucked a few bonafide 10s.

That said, I'd like to confess a bad habit. All too often, I find myself dating girls below my level. I've found myself maintaining a roster of eager, thirsty, slutty 6s and 7s as they are easily controllable and take little to no effort to retain. From a sex appeal perspective (looks + style), I think most girls would consider me an 8 or a 9. Like Chris, I'm mixed-race. I have a unique look that some girls really dig. But here's my question to you...

At this point, am I doing myself a disservice by continuing to see these kinds of girls (which I don't give a fuck about)? Logically, I feel like it's satiating me just enough that I've lost my killer instinct to go out and hunt for 9s/10s. I'd like to retain a couple of these elite girls, with the intention of locking things down (after 6+ months, of course). My primary goal is building my business, so I'm looking for a high-quality, loyal girlfriend.

My second question... where the fuck do you find these upper echelon girls consistently? Instagram seems like a crapshoot, and those girls get DMd by hundreds of guys a day. I prefer to sack up and approach these kinds of girls in person, but I don't have a solid source. I don't necessarily have the desire to get heavy into the party scene (been there done that) - but I'd be open to it if that's what I gotta do. I live in Toronto.

I appreciate the advice.
Thanks

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Bad Habit - Dating Thirsty Girls Below My Level. Want to Meet 10s 20 Apr 2020 19:39 #328038

Welcome.

You can find them anywhere you'd find those slutty 6s and 7s.

Tinder, Gym, Grocery Store, Library, School Campuses, Coffee Shops, Malls, any street, bars, clubs, CN Tower, clothing stores, parks, social circles, banks etc.........

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Bad Habit - Dating Thirsty Girls Below My Level. Want to Meet 10s 21 Apr 2020 02:06 #328049

That's a fair point.

Interested in learning about the nuances of find/picking up this elite group. That said, I've been a GLL reader long enough to appreciate, as you said, they're in the same places as every other girl. Just need to sack up.

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Bad Habit - Dating Thirsty Girls Below My Level. Want to Meet 10s 21 Apr 2020 02:15 #328050

You're wasting time by hooking up with 6s-7s

I suggest you keep them as fuck buddies and go out and find some 10s.

What this will do is keep you in an abundance mindset because you have reliable ass you dont date, but you are looking for 10s.

If you want to speed up the process, become a high value male and the 10s will flirt with you everywhere you go.

I stopped dating below my expectations and it made me work harder to become a high value male.

You meet them anywhere.

Dont go to places where chicks will be at just because chicks are there. Go to places you genuinely enjoy because if chicks know when you;re there to just chase ass.

If you like going to clubs cool go to clubs because you want to not because chicks are there.

The best way is to attract dimes is to make your self the best man you can (high value male) live your life and let the woman choose you by letting them flirt with you and you approach the ones that are flirting.

Thats what i do. My lifestyle brings the chicks to me.

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Bad Habit - Dating Thirsty Girls Below My Level. Want to Meet 10s 21 Apr 2020 04:38 #328053

Thanks Mech66, that's great feedback.

In your experience, what are a few qualities that define a High Value Male? What are some of the lifestyle choices / attributes? In my mind, High Value Males have their shit together, wealth and power.

Also, it's important to note the difference between being high value in college vs. the real world. In my senior year of college I was a high value male (older, popular frat boy, partied hard, good in bed). In the real world, I'm a young man with a good job and low net-worth. That said, I'm building a side-business, so I really leverage my ambition (implied potential net worth) with girls I'm interested in.

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Bad Habit - Dating Thirsty Girls Below My Level. Want to Meet 10s 21 Apr 2020 18:26 #328067

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You say you have banged 45 girls.

You say that girls you fuck are 6s 7s and they are easily controllable. According to you, they see you as an 8 or 9.




You talk about 10s girls like they are super echelon, and you want to find a loyal girlfriend.

You talk about them like toys and trophys and it seems to me that you are being unsincere either towards them or yourself.

You cannot control someone. If you do think so and already have experienced such situations, it means somewhere somehow in the relation manipulation was present.
How Loyalness fits into such a configuration.


I believe you should take a moment and check your intentions.
If you had sex with 45 girls like you said, and you still have these perception where you do not place Sincerity and Honesty as a meaningful priority, it's a sign that you do not enjoy women but are using them, mostly for your ego and self interests.
Acting in such a way is perfectly fine, for a while. As you really make the decision and conscious efforts to enjoy yourself and share love with women you meet, these 10s girls Will flow towards you naturally.

People sense when you are being unsincere. Women Who are emotionally mature, and take care of themselves won't ever stay around unsincerity and manipulation.


If you want examples of high value male you can as well read the logs of Bib and Killyourinnerloser. They went through this process and made the choice of maturity and sincerity.

You Will find a loyal, beautiful girlfriend when you Will make such decision for yourself.
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Being able to screen 10 girls a day. DONE


Get 10 CA lays.
Get laid. A lot.
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Bad Habit - Dating Thirsty Girls Below My Level. Want to Meet 10s 21 Apr 2020 18:56 #328070

Hey Schwifted,

You're making a good point. I appreciate your feedback. I'll take some time to reflect on what you said, but I agree, I need to make a more conscious effort to be honest and sincere. That means clearly communicating my intentions up front and fostering a 'you and me' mentality, like Killyourinnerloser - he has a lot of great content.

Mr. Icarus

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Bad Habit - Dating Thirsty Girls Below My Level. Want to Meet 10s 21 Apr 2020 23:05 #328078

Damn, most of the advice feels like the kind you'd get at rsd lol.
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Bad Habit - Dating Thirsty Girls Below My Level. Want to Meet 10s 21 Apr 2020 23:36 #328079

Ha! Don't disagree.

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Bad Habit - Dating Thirsty Girls Below My Level. Want to Meet 10s 22 Apr 2020 02:31 #328083

I would like to see a pic of you and an example pic of a girl you would consider to be a 10.

I'm curious to know how you got those slutty 6's and 7's. Was it using the GLL method, or via social circle at the frat?

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Bad Habit - Dating Thirsty Girls Below My Level. Want to Meet 10s 23 Apr 2020 03:55 #328112

My take: You get the 9s and 10s once you've proven to society that you're worth their time (IE fame, or fortune, through business building)

I would focus 100% on your business and get yourself into the upper echelon of earners (over 500k/year or something), then see what it does for your sex life.

As you become more successful, you naturally network with others that are successful. They invite you into social circles because of the value you've provided (IE doing a deal with someone). Then you have access to the 9's and 10s.

It all comes down to self awareness and knowing what you REALLY want. Do you REALLY want to bang 9's and 10s and are you willing to sacrifice now for a better future? If not that's totally fine. But if you want different results, you godda make different moves. Otherwise you become stuck in a loop.
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Bad Habit - Dating Thirsty Girls Below My Level. Want to Meet 10s 23 Apr 2020 03:59 #328113

Mech66 wrote: You're wasting time by hooking up with 6s-7s

I suggest you keep them as fuck buddies and go out and find some 10s.

What this will do is keep you in an abundance mindset because you have reliable ass you dont date, but you are looking for 10s.

If you want to speed up the process, become a high value male and the 10s will flirt with you everywhere you go.

I stopped dating below my expectations and it made me work harder to become a high value male.

You meet them anywhere.

Dont go to places where chicks will be at just because chicks are there. Go to places you genuinely enjoy because if chicks know when you;re there to just chase ass.

If you like going to clubs cool go to clubs because you want to not because chicks are there.

The best way is to attract dimes is to make your self the best man you can (high value male) live your life and let the woman choose you by letting them flirt with you and you approach the ones that are flirting.

Thats what i do. My lifestyle brings the chicks to me.


I agree 100%. Chase your goals and aspirations. Money if that's what motivates you. Build something great. The 10s will fall into place. You already have skills with women if you're around 45 lays. You're capped out unless you become a truly high value male measured by society (women).

Show me a single person who constantly bangs 9s and 10s and isn't high value, in some way shape or form. It doesn't exist. It's the very principal of self improvement and GLL. Most guys never EVER get there. Most stop at 7s and occasional 8s and 9s. The difference is, the focus is on chasing women vs chasing your goals and dreams (regardless of women). Those who achieve success in other areas are likely to have the women follow.

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