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Have a date setup for saturday. Really hoping this one doesn't flake lol. Bought some new clothes/shoes to hold me over. Don't want to work on style too much until body gets where it needs to be first or it wont fit in the future. I'd say she's like 5, nice tits. She lives on the way to where I'm going fishing that day, so would be convenient. Not holding my breath though, I'll take it seriously only when I actually see that she showed up lol. FB dating has given me way more leads than any other app/site so far.
This one actually didn't flake. Got coffee. Her recent fb pics were kind of cute, 5, maybe 6. Turned out to be maybe a 3 irl. Doesn't really matter because she wasn't interested regardless, even though I felt like it went decent. Feels even worse when an unattractive girl turns you down lol.
I probably need to change up my first date strategy lol. I've been doing coffee dates and usually don't go for more than a hug, wait till 2nd date to advance more (only changed venues (restaurant) one time after coffee, chick was interested so it worked well). Had drink date few months back but it's just too expensive for a first date when you're not sure if either of you are actually interested. I like coffee dates, cheap and good for screening but not sure if this is hurting my chances and making me look even more like a "nice guy" than I already am.
Coffee dates are fine. I usually grab starbucks with a girl. The issue isn't what you're drinking; it's the fact you're not making a move.
Hang out with the girl for 1hr. When the 1hr is up, say, "Hey, wanna come back to my place and hang out? It's nicer than this place."
If she says no thankyou, cool - "No worries. I've gotta get some errands and stuff done anyway, so I'll walk you back to the train station/your car/etc. Today was really fun."
Then meet her for a second date. On the second date, hangout for 30 min or so, then invite her back to yours. If she says no again, "No worries. I'll walk you back to the car/train station."
Third time, try again. This time if she STILL doesn't want to come back, just have a talk with her - "Are you not feeling the chemistry or something? No hard feelings if so, but you seem really resistant to coming back to mine." You'll likely have a discussion about it, she'll tell you she's just nervous, you'll talk about it and she'll either agree to come back or she won't. If she doesn't, move on and talk to more girls. But most girls will come back with you if you're honest with your intentions.
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