TOPIC: First swingers clubs

Met up with a girl I dated after not seeing each other for two years. We we're relatively serious back in the day but broke up because of long distance and life going in different directions. We talked a lot and got on the topic of dating and other partners. I expressed how I was glad that she dated and slept with other guys and I talked about my own dating life. So we kept talking about non-monogamy and our actual sexual desires. I wish I would have done this years ago with this girl but the time was right now.

Anyway so I brought up swinging with her and going to a swingers club. She accepted and said she was willing to check it out. She was visiting me for a month and a half and we ended up going to two different swingers clubs and one private party. Fuck what a crazy and awesome experience. We did fuck each other in the orgy rooms but we didn't swap partners (she was a little to shy for that but mostly she has unrealistic standards for guys and I just happen to be her "type")

So here's a review of swingers clubs for anyone who cares. I was always intrigued by this because I've been drawn to non monogamy and used to jerk off to swinger porn when I used to watch porn.

- Swinging is an older crowd. The average age is probably 30s-40s. There are people in their 20s for sure but mostly the girls (good). Some younger guys so it's not unheard of, it's just the average age is older. The first club we went to was a very old crowd and kinda gross... 50 year old grannies. So we left fortunately and went to the second club I researched which had the "young hot" crowd think late 20s early 30s for girls, late 30s early 40s for guys on average.

- There are really hot girls. But there are also fatties. At the different places we went including one private house party there are some really hot girls but it's also a mix. Also one thing that I can say is that the way these girls carry themselves makes them infinitely hot. Everything about how the girls walk, talk, dance, and fuck is super charged sexually. These girls are really on another level, it's indescribable how much more I like girls like this (really truly slutty)

- "On premise" clubs have a back orgy room. The clubs themselves are look like any other nightclub. The dancing is kinda like the appetizer because basically everyone there on couples night is getting laid. So it's a sexually charged atmosphere kinda like a gay club but no homo shit going on lol. The dancing and flirting is actually kinda fun. The back orgy room where we went has private rooms but also bigger rooms with several couches and vinyl beds. You get naked in a locker room and walk back with a towel and you use your towels to fuck on.

-Here's what I did. Didn't full swap but just fucked my girl on the same bed as other couples on multiple occasions. Some of these couples we talked to before and met and other times we just shared a bed where other couples would swap. It was so damn hot to watch these other girls get fucked. I was really disappointed not to be able to swap because I was ready to go. I did get to feel up some other girls a little next to us and my girl got felt up but that was it. I did have some other girls really make themselves available to me but it wasn't going to happen. I really wanted to make sure we did things together since my relationship with this girl is important.

-if you're in "the lifestyle" you can really rack up some lays. If you have a hot girlfriend to swing with and both of you are really into it you can definitely swap with other couples. But you have to find a girl that is down. This is something I really want now. A committed relationship with a girl and to explore something like this together.

- I learned that it honestly wouldn't bother me to watch my girl get fucked by another guy (but I would have to fuck his girl... no cuck shit going on).

-The swinger crowd is a group of ultra cool, honest, open people. Cool people to be around. Made me feel real comfortable.

- You don't have to worry about your cock size. Seriously, most people are average. All you need is a hot girl, you don't need a monster cock.

-Group sex is incredible to be around. Think 30 or so people fucking in one room, mostly hot/cute girls at the one club.

That's it really. I wish I would've swapped but still glad to have been there and seen what it is like. It gives me something to work for.

Oh dude I'm so trying this. One of my fuckbuddies would be SO into this.

You still in Melbourne? If so, mind PM'ing me the name of the second place you went to (with the attractive people)?

This is an exciting opportunity and I’d love to do it some day. But on a fundamental way I don’t find it the best way to have group sex.
I got into this shit because I didn’t want my sex life to depend on a single person’s approval and a lot of this swinging lifestyle is guys who still are dependent on their woman choosing when he can fuck and when not. Not my cup of tea.
Again it’s fun and I’d do it eventually.

ETA wrote: This is an exciting opportunity and I’d love to do it some day. But on a fundamental way I don’t find it the best way to have group sex.
I got into this shit because I didn’t want my sex life to depend on a single person’s approval and a lot of this swinging lifestyle is guys who still are dependent on their woman choosing when he can fuck and when not. Not my cup of tea.
Again it’s fun and I’d do it eventually.

That's true to a certain extent. Couples do the non monogamy together mostly I think. Some couples also have side partners that they see solo. In my case my girl it's more that my girl didn't like any of the guys, it's not that she wanted to prevent me from banging another girl. This girl has taught me a lot about how picky some girls can be... she has really unrealistic standards... she's only into tall blonde guys. That's it, other guys even if they're cool and good looking are a hard no. She's from Southern Europe and doesn't like her type... she only goes for the northern euro looking guys. Crazy. it definitely was frustrating to not swap but I'm happy I've gotten to see it.

@Andy... This is the private house party I went to when I was in Chicago if you wanna check out info. Honestly the club I went to in Toronto had a hotter crowd. No doubt Sydney or Melbourne has some clubs

youngcouplesparty.com

It's funny cuz "young" goes up to 42 just cuz the guys tend to be older in this scene. You're already there with the group sex, what you're doing is way harder than what most swinger guys do. Most these guys are guys who have had a bunch of monogamous girlfriends over the years and then get into non monogamy with a committed partner. They didn't seem like the the types of guys that can organize multiple threesomes (which is obviously an ultra rare ability... something I haven't done yet and want to)

Legend mate, thankyou.

I'm writing a massive 3some guide which will lay out step-by-step how to make it happen. Probably be done sometime in the new year.

Damn that place is not far from me and it seems legit. I sent the link to this older chick I used to date and she seems down to try. So might have first hand experience and opinion on this soon.
If you have more details about that place feel free to message me in private.

@ Andy I'm sure the guide will be awesome

@eta gonna message ya

I sent the link to this older chick I used to date and she seems down to try.

OHHHHH SHEEEEIIIITTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GET IT

If you want to get real dark, [Link Deleted]? Lots of girls want them, not very many can find guys to make them happen.