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I really hurt fwb's feelings, what should I say to her? 07 Oct 2019 02:04 #322139

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There's this milf I've been hanging out with once in a while, we usually go eat and then go for a hike and fuck back at her place. She's nice and its usually relaxing/fun to talk to her. She's really been working hard on losing weight (she looked good before, just had a little bit that needed to go) and was drinking a lot but stopped a few months ago for the weight loss.

When we met up today I was extremely critical of her, called her an alcoholic, which was honest but I kept going on about it like a dumbass because she didn't seem to take it seriously at first and when she tried to talk about other stuff it wound up coming back to that. It really hurt her feelings and undermined her progress. She said it seemed like I enjoyed bringing her down, which is a huge problem that I need to look at.

I realize that she may just never want to talk to me again and if that's the price of learning this lesson then oh well, but I do need to apologize to her and it would be nice to still hang out with her once in a while, so what should I say?

I was thinking "sorry for being a dick, I undermined the accomplishments you've made and that's fucked up. You're doing a great job and I know you'll meet your goals. I'll think about what I say more because I don't want to bring you or anyone else down again. Good luck with *event* tomorrow"

And this is probably overanalyzing, but should I say something asap or wait a few days?

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I really hurt fwb's feelings, what should I say to her? 07 Oct 2019 03:31 #322144

Copy-paste exactly what you wrote to her. That's really great.

There's no need to worry about saying "the perfect thing" - as long as you're speaking honestly, it doesn't matter if you phrase things akwardly or aren't smooth. Just say what's on your mind and you'll be good. Life isn't a movie with perfectly-scripted lines and well-paced dialogue; you're bound to be awkward and clumsy, especially when you're speaking honestly or being vulnerable like you are here.

Send it to her now. Let us know what she replies mate.

And good job having the balls to admit youwere a dick, and good job trying to fix it. That takes a lot of courage, so give yourself credit.
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I really hurt fwb's feelings, what should I say to her? 07 Oct 2019 04:21 #322152

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Thanks Andy.
I sent it to her and we're good now. Honesty is exactly what I was going for, 99% sure I got that idea from you. Seems like girls really pick up on that stuff.
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I really hurt fwb's feelings, what should I say to her? 07 Oct 2019 04:54 #322154

Glad to hear it.
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