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Andy (if I'm not mistaken) is also open with his girls about GLL and I think that is a huge level of honesty. In the past with my main girl I would say generic stuff like "I used to be inexperienced with girls and I had to work a lot to change that" or "I used to have sexual anxiety " or whatever but I never really opened up about GLL even though it was really the only reason I brought in such a high quality girl. So I think there's something to be said about even letting a trustworthy main girl know about what really improved my dating life.
Also this article rightly provides a different course for retention . The most valuable part of Chris retention article is the scale between nice guy player and scumbag. But the retention advice itself kinda leads toward mild deception and not full out honesty. In the past I've really only retained one duck buddy when there wasn't an emotional connection and honesty. I really think going the route of honesty plus up front talk about polyamory will give better long term results for a guy like me. For true legit players constantly playing the numbers game honesty doesn't matter as much because you constantly have new girls coming in through the revolving door haha. But I get tires of constantly playing the numbers game and typically settle once I have a couple girls in my life and then go for semi formal relationships. Anyway really good article that I can use
^ The further along I get, the more confused I am about Chris stringing girls along when he really didn't have to. The more girls you have that you can bang, and the more confident you are that you can always bring in new girls, the less you're interested in manipulating anyone into staying. You stop using phrases like "Oh shit I did something wrong and lost a girl." When a girl says she isn't sure if she wants to keep seeing you, you politely say "I completely understand. No hard feelings, I really enjoyed our time together. If you ever change your mind and wanna hang again, message me." There's literally no incentive to manipulate/string her along when you can walk outside your house and hit on 20 more girls.
It seems nuts to me that Chris would go to the lengths he went to to keep girls around who didn't really want to stay - especially when he had MANY more girls than I've ever had. It's something I'd love to hear his opinion on.. I have a feeling he's older and wiser now and would probably advocate a bit more honesty once you have abundance (absolute newbies should probably do whatever it takes to keep getting sex).
Re: honesty about GLL, I tell some girls about it. My main girl knows (I talk about it 10 times a day). We went through my entire AA Program log together (40 pages or so, lol). She knows about most of the "senior" guys on here, knows I'm a mod, reads every article I ever write, gives me tonnes of ideas for articles, etc.
Other girls I tell about GLL after we've dated a few months. I'm also very honest with pretty much every girl about my self-improvement journey, where I started, etc.
I get that newbies won't feel comfortable being honest (because when youre new to all this, you're terrified a girl will reject you if she knows "the real you".) It's something you have to FORCE yourself to do, just like you have to force yourself every day of the AA Program.
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