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After years of PUA, I'm now older and want to settle with this girl i know who is a beautiful "good girl type" that doesn't go out, party, etc and doesn't even use social media much. We connect really well.
She's had her heart broken in the past and wants to take it slow. We've known each other for a couple years and been on and off as I've been out of country etc. Recently been seeing each other more this year (have kiss closed her etc, but haven't banged as she's pretty traditional).
Summer is starting in my country and I want to spend it with her all Summer long.
The problem? = I've never had a relationship before or attempted to pursue one (just always pursued flings..)
How should I go about it in terms of dating her? (Eg. how can you "game" a girl into a long term relationship?).
I don't want to come across too needy for her (Not going to lie, I have oneitus for her..).
Any advice on how to go about this from people who've used game to get a girl to date you? Would be very appreciated.
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01 Dec 2018 17:23 #311509
I find it hilarious that someone could read Good Looking Loser and still come on here and ask a question like this.
Which makes me think, OP, you haven't read a single article on GLL, have you? Your username is "GoGetGirls" and you're doing the exact opposite - you've avoiding having to go get girls by instead focusing on just one and pinning all your hopes and dreams on her.
@JakeDaDawg Aside from the subject, you’re a perfect example of a guy who SHOULD NOT be spending all his time on the forum. If I recall, your experience with women is extra limited and you skinny as sh*t. I’m not hating, but this whole forum is based on the concept of getting laid like a scumbag or a player, and I’m pretty sure you fit none of those two categories. Go focus on yourself until you know something about women.
Lay Count before GLL (September 2015): 1
Lay Count after reading GLL: 44
Are u talking about a game where I talk with a girl on a date being completely myself and try to kiss her because I feel like it and if she refuses it I take her chin and turn it towards me and kiss her anyways?
If that is called a game, then we are all serious gamers over here. No game. Game doesn't exist. Kick that stupid shit out of your head. NO GAME. Just u taking moves and doing what u want.
Dude75 wrote: @JakeDaDawg Aside from the subject, you’re a perfect example of a guy who SHOULD NOT be spending all his time on the forum. If I recall, your experience with women is extra limited and you skinny as sh*t. I’m not hating, but this whole forum is based on the concept of getting laid like a scumbag or a player, and I’m pretty sure you fit none of those two categories. Go focus on yourself until you know something about women.
Dudes who need someone to pick on always lead a miserable life. I'm sure other people also think I lost my v card to my own hand but they don't say anything because they don't need to bitch around and have better shit to do with their lives.
You never post creep pics so to me, you don't get laid. Now, there are other people here who do get laid (and post proof) so they do have the right to doubt me, that's the only reason why I'm even bothering to reply.
So these last 2 months I've fucked 5 new girls from tinder, but I only have creep pics for 2 of them (my webcam software is fucking up), the reason why I didn't post about this is because I personally never find tinder lays memorable and none of these girls were hot so wtv.
This girl was cute and all, she had a pretty face but she was kind of chubby.
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This girl was alright, she was tiny as fuck so that was nice.
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Also here's a pic of the first girl I fucked from cold approach (since signing up for the forum anyway) cause she was underappreciated when I posted her and bc dat ass.
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(look how skinny I was but "you can't get laid if you're skinny" ahahahahahahah)
Also what the fuck is this "you're skinny so you obviously don't get laid" logic, not like Adam was a fucking bodybuilder lmfao. To any skinny dude reading this: yes, adding mass to your frame WILL help you (anything that helps your looks will help obviously), but if you aren't getting laid as a skinny dude, then you have other problems.
Jake, thanks for this post. I partially agreed with that guy(to focus on yourself, this forum is not actually all about getting laid) because I sincerely thought u aren't getting laid. But seems like u are, and I am done with that topic in my mind
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