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It's been awhile since I've read the retention articles.
Also I'm not the best at having a structure with retention cause I get bored easily with most of the chicks.
One question I have is, have you banged them at least 2-3 times before you moving to retention mode?
I feel like you need to do that to not coming across as just a random hookup.
Also, I don't see any problem with texting them back if they're the ones starting it.
Beyond that, I like talking so I text normally whenever I can, just normal texting.
The reason he says only text once per week is to stop guys from texting girls obsessively. You can gauge yourself how often you should text them but guys will get oneitis for chicks and stop approaching/looking for other girls and then end up completely dependant on that one chick. My approach is just sticking to texts about the next time you're going to meet up. Sometimes I'll snapchat them or bullshit but I limit it to a degree. (Mostly cause I have better shit to do)
Text them however much you want. Focus on the actual relationship with these girls and enjoy it because that's what this is about, not just sex. Don't get me wrong I love sex but building a real connection between a girl and you is much more rewarding in my opinion.
Here are two things you can do that will help with retention:
Do something thoughtful for them every once and a while - like a dinner, meeting your friends, give a gift (I give a rose to a girl at least at some point during the time that I'm with them and they usually keep it for a while).
Fuck them really well and make them cum like they haven't before.
These are infinitely more important than sticking to one text a week.
You also have Snapchat and Instagram as forms of communication now. Adding them there can help with it without directly going out of your way to text them.
So try to figure out that dynamic too to keep your balance
This world is based on balance. Text too much and she will think you have no life, not enough she will think you aren't as interested/invested
It also matters what kind of girls you are talking to and what you want out of them. If you want quantity quick lays and no cuddles then SCREEN out the relationship-cravers with dbag retention game. If you want quality (not easy) chicks that have more self value and want more than just sex then texting them more than just booty calls = substance.
I ran that no text game on decent chicks a few years back and it backfired on the non-DTF ones. At the end of the day do what you want and just DO YOU
Dude75 wrote: Each and everytime I ignore a girl’s texts, she either tells me straight up how vexed she got or she starts ignoring me as well. We’re talking girls that I banged and that like me.
Is there something I don’t get concerning this “text Once to twice a week” ?
Other than that, I just moved to LA and it’s pretty much the best city to be a player.
I don't text. If she calls it's because she wants to be with me, I don't disappoint her.
"Hey it's good to hear from you; we should get together, what's your schedule look like this week"?
If you're not hearing "no" you're not trying, if you're not getting laid you stopped trying at no.
The world doesn't reward perfectionists, it rewards people who get things done.
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