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Just about every woman will want a man (longer term) who is at least financially stable.
Two, the majority of marriages end in divorce. I'm not saying that women WANT to get divorced. I'm saying that IF it happens (and there's approximately a one in two chance), a woman will not want to LOSE in divorce proceedings, she will want to win. She might even do this two or three or more times in a lifetime.
Short term, yes, many women are fine with occasional hookups or flings where finances are less relevant.
But most women are screening for at least financial stability, if not an actual jackpot scenario.
They tend to want to choose where to meet. It's usually somewhere expensive, anywhere from restaurants to expensive wine/coctail bars.
If they're into you, they will follow your lead and not be picky about the place, particularly DTF girls.
Some I've noticed some of these high maintenance women do is they actually say "I'm a lady". Meaning she wants to be wined or dined.
Also, they come in and they try to order food when you agreed to just go for a drink. Like, girl you came straight from home, couldn't you grab a bite before heading out?Also if you go for the kiss on first date, and she acts prudish with some negative comments about you're too forward, then you know she's either a gold digger or screening you hard for beta boyfriend.
Also too many of these chicks try to order a couple of coctails during the date. So now I try to get the check right as they're about to finish the first drink.
If she's gonna make some comment about how she wanted another drink or something like that then you know she's in it just for that.
I've had to deal with my fair share of high maintenance chicks lately, and there are too many cues they've given out, these are just what I could think of.
I'm very sensitive about my finances so I can pick up really quick when a girls is trying to use me for free shit.
Over all pay attention to scenarios where the girl is trying to put you in a position where you have to pay.
Gold diggers are some of the easiest women to avoid. Being that I use Tinder a lot for meeting girls, once in a while I will match up with a "sugar baby" (basically a college-aged woman looking for a sugar daddy arrangement) and these girls were very direct about their intentions. Many will flat out say that they want a man "Who can spoil them", "take them on trips", "help pay their tuition", etc. They always reveal themselves very quickly.
However, contrary to popular belief, most women who are "serial daters" are not gold diggers, a lot of guys seem to confuse the two. GD's have a very specific strategy that they use to filter out men that goes well beyond demanding expensive outings or ordering food on "drink dates". Serial daters on the other hand are just a subset of Attention Whores who uses dates as a cheap ego-booster. Screening out GD's isn't even necessary 90% of the times because of their very no-nonsense nature. Serial daters on the other hand can be handled just anyone else in the "Timewaster" category. Making it clear that you want sex, invite her to your place for the first meetup, touching her early and often will scare most of them off.
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