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If you were making six figures a year, how would you get high volumes of women to come to you and want to fuck you? I'm talking like Dan Bilzerian, Hugh Hefner, and Travers Beynon aka The Candyman, just on a smaller scale.
I don't mean through cold approach either. I love cold approach, but just humor me. Without doing ANY cold approach whatsoever, how would you go about building a miniature version of Dan Bilzerian's lifestyle?
Remember, you make six figures a year. Anywhere from 100K to 400K annually.
How would you do it? I would love to hear some brainstorming ideas. How would you get the hot girls to come to you and fuck you?
A few of my ideas include:
-With all the money I make, opening up a strip club, and playing the "I'm the owner card," to fuck these girls.
-I like the idea of handpicking select hot women to work for me, and playing the "I'm the boss, and therefore you will fuck me when I want," card. (Written contracts would be involved with that).
-I've also just thought about running an ad in the news paper or online seeking hotties to come hang around me and my six figure a year lifestyle. Legal contracts would also be involved with that.
I don't care how stupid you think your ideas are, I would love to hear them.
Look at this this way. If cold approach was an 8 to 5 job, how would you turn it into passive income (pussy)?
P.S. I wanted to put my quick story last, in case any body gives a shit about reading it, but the important thing is the answer to the question above ^^^ and really don't care if you read this short synopsis about me or not.
I was doing pickup "full time" for about 3 months. I quote "full time" because I had a full time job I was working 8 hours a day five days a week, but spent all my free time committed to getting laid. However, it began to be too much. I was tired after everyday of work, and couldn't put my heart into cold approach. I would go on dates exhausted, and if I worked hard at it with the few hours I had left in the day, I could approach 20 girls, hit the gym, and do some penis enlargement. Assuming I didn't have a date, which would prevent me from doing any of those things.
It was just too much.
So, reluctantly, after 3 months of committed work, I realized this was not going to work. Please understand I was NOT giving up. In fact, I hated the idea of throwing the last 3 months out the window. I was starting to get good. I was going on dates with more and more attractive girls and was getting them farther and farther on each date. I had fucked a 6 I met at the club too.
My goal was of course to be a killer with screening, but I had to know I could get laid on the dates first. I know that I was just weeks away from hitting a hottie, it was just a matter of finding her. I did not want to stop my goal of getting laid. But the fact remained, I hated my bottom-of-the-totem pole job. But I needed it to pay for the awesome smash pad studio apartment I was living in in the heart of downtown.
But the idea of working this job for a year, two years, or however long it took, scared me. And if I lost the job, I'd be fucked. Not only that, I hated that I was so stuck. 1K a month on rent, plus basic living expenses left just about nothing. And the plan was to move to L.A. next year so I could go where the REAL hotties were. But the numbers just didn't make sense.
So I gave myself 3 days to decide if this was the path I really wanted to take.
I did not want to fucking stop, believe me when I tell you. But I knew to do this full time, I had to make way more money than I am now. After 3 days, I decided to change my commitment and pursue a business idea I had had years before. It's an easy business to get into, and within a few years, if I stick with it (and it's been 3 months and I'm still going strong and consistent with it), I'll be making 100K-200K minimum. Again, that'll be 2 to 3 years from now assuming the world doesn't end in that time. Though I think the business seems to top off at half a mill a year. But those numbers are rare.
The plan was to get into the business, build it well and then return to cold approach, and move to L.A. as planned. But the more I work on this business, the more I see the potential for doing something bigger. Which is where the "Six Figure Dan," idea comes into play.
By the time you make 100K/400K your social circle will be filled with people like yourself.
Fellow entrepreneurs, rich inheritors, and whatnot.
Like all social circles, there will be parties and nightclubs to go to and all that.
And in those kinds of worlds, they are hotties everywhere, they gravitate tryin' to get in one way or the other.
Pornstars, escorts, models, you name it, they will be there.
You won't even need to pay much for them to be around.
(I did not live this life but someone I knew very well did)
Honestly though, if I were you, I'd just hit the street to rack up those lays anyway, that way, you'll know it won't be about the money, but because of your balls.
After that, do whatever you like, escorts/sugar daddy sites are very much popular to get what you want without doing much.
You are severely overestimating how much 100K per year is. I make well over that. You think my life looks anything like Dan Bilzerian's?
In Los Angeles, 1-200k means you can live comfortably in a beach city, drive a nice car, and travel a few times per year (on commercial planes, not private jets). You're not gonna be opening up any strip clubs on the side, and ads showing your "lavish" lifestyle? LOL dude, the guys who do that around here have millions of dollars and nice mansions up in Hollywood Hills. You wouldn't even be noticed.
You want to be a millionaire, not make six figures. Big, big difference. To be a millionaire, you're gonna be working way more than 40 hours per week. Dan Bilzerian may have inherited money from his father (no one really knows). You're looking at social media stars, social media is rampant with fake staged lifestyles, and at best you're looking at trust fund kids who basically won a lottery. People who actually earn millions of dollars are slaving away 16+ hours per day on their ventures.
If you want pussy, go get pussy. Stop distracting yourself with these ridiculous fantasies that come from a bunch of photoshopped images you see on the internet.
I had a full time job I was working 8 hours a day five days a week, but spent all my free time committed to getting laid. However, it began to be too much. I was tired after everyday of work, and couldn't put my heart into cold approach. I would go on dates exhausted, and if I worked hard at it with the few hours I had left in the day, I could approach 20 girls, hit the gym, and do some penis enlargement. Assuming I didn't have a date, which would prevent me from doing any of those things.
It was just too much.
So, reluctantly, after 3 months of committed work, I realized this was not going to work. Please understand I was NOT giving up
That's exactly what "giving up" is. What do you mean you didn't give up!? It's "exhausting"? Please. People in third world countries work in sweat shops for over 16 hours every day, and that's way more strenuous than walking around trying to meet girls. Why do they do it? Because they'll die if they don't. You won't die if you don't get laid. Hence, you're not serious enough to actually want it.
You're too comfortable
. If you're that ambivalent to it, and the only reason you want to run a business is to get laid, I can guarantee the business won't last. It will start to take off, which will require you to work way more than the combined 8 hours of your current job + all evening of hitting on girls, and you'll do the exact same thing: quit, tell yourself you didn't quit, and start fantasizing about some other goal instead of sticking with a single goal and seeing it all the way through.
I work an 8 hour job, then I go hit on girls, and on weekends I go out to bars. I have off days, days where I'm too tired, and days where I actually don't stick with it. There are plenty of days I'm tired as shit and push through and do it anyways. Why? Because I actually want to get laid. Quit making excuses. The first step is to admit you just gave up and there wasn't anything that forced you to, you just made a choice. Take responsibility for that choice, then ask yourself what choice you want to make now. Stop looking for an easy way out, like you do the right thing you can just sit back and hand pick hot girls to, what, pretend like they're into you while you essentially pay them to fuck you (you can do that now, just go buy a hooker)? Getting laid is hard work. You either want to get laid enough that you're willing to do the work, or you're not.
I will actually kinda chime in here even though people have attacked the OP.
It is not only pretty nice to not only have this lifestyle but I find that to get the top tier girls, you can't exclusively rely on cold approach. Chris kinda talked about it in his college post where he said college is a microcosm of the real world meaning that a lot of 9s and 10s want guys with "status". At some point in my life, I want my life to be on cruise control when it comes to pussy because there is no way I want to be a 35 year old man hitting up girls in nightclubs or running daygame, I can do it now in my 20s because it is actually fun as hell.
Some things I think can work:
1 - Getting involved in nightlife anyway possible, whether it is partially owning a club or a bar or finding a way in.
2 - Getting involved with the modeling industry somehow? I hear some dude on the Misc named ViperGQ is an engineer but he also photographs women for a living, he must be slaying like crazy.
3 - Maybe lucking into a good social circle although by their 30s, I think most people are already married with kids so I cannot see this working out, others can talk more about it.
I am keeping an eye out on this thread because 10 years from now, I would love for this to be the case with my life.
Picking up on what LikeChris2018 said, I'd get my own modeling agency. Even if you're ugly hot girls will suck your dick in hopes they'll become famous.
Disclaimer, I don't know if this can be done with a six figure income, but it's the only thing I can think of where it doesn't matter all that much whether you're ugly.
I'm curious to know what your business idea is that is going to make you 1-400K a year
That's nothing to sneeze at, and while you may not be considered "rich" with that kind of money you would certainly be doing quite well. Especially as a single guy with no kids
I love the idea of opening a strip club or modeling agency. I imagine they're both very tough business to get into though and you would probably have to pour your fucking heart and soul into it. If you were lucky enough to succeed, I'm sure you would be up to your ears in easy top tier pussy
Lets just say you eventually become lucky enough to have the lifestyle where consistent hot pussy just falls on your lap...
In that scenario, I would still continue to do cold approach just because it is among the hardest, most-actualizing, and most fulfilling skills to master. And of course having other avenues of good pussy would only enhance your cold approach mastery
I see no reason to give up on cold approach just because you work 40 hours a week
I currently work 50-70 hours a week for a low-middle class income. I will admit that I haven't been cold approaching much because of that. But that is going to change. I just need to tweak my habits because I'm not used to having to work and maintain a diverse sex life at the same time.
I would kill to have a 40-hour work week that makes the money I make now. That would give me so much more time for the bitches.
Not trying to bash your ideas for a top 1 percenter bachelor lifestyle. Just trying to help you realize that even now with your 40-hour work week you should still have plenty of time for being a player. Dont give up
Thanks for writing this thread, it's motivating me to start spending more time pursuing bitches and money. Remember what Chris used to say, that a man should spend over a hundred hours a week pursuing his goals. There's a 168 hours in a week. Subtract roughly 56 for sleep. The rest should be spent chasing your dreams IMO. That kind of work ethic alone should separate you from the pack
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