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Finding girls for long term relationships? 01 Dec 2017 00:16 #295117

How the hell can I meet girls I get along with to date seriously? I don't care about random flings anymore.

I tried match.com and it mostly sucked. Same with okcupid.

I'm considering the whole "basic guy game", but I'm not sure women in my city are very open to being approached (Portland). Also I'm not sure I have the time.

Any thoughts?
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Finding girls for long term relationships? 01 Dec 2017 00:35 #295118

What the hell are you talking about "open to being approached"?

Portland isn't Saudi Arabia you goober. That's literally the worst excuse I've ever seen on this forum.

Get out there and start putting in the numbers, you only run into a few girls worthy of a relationship in a year, if that
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Finding girls for long term relationships? 01 Dec 2017 00:45 #295120

There is no such thing as this. At all.

Have good sex with a girl and be a chill and good looking dude, you can have whatever kind of relationship you damn well please. You call the shots 100%.

If you’re purposely “looking for a girl to settle down with,” unless you’ve had tons of experience with girls already, you’re probably setting yourself up to get walked on.

Separately:

“Women in my city aren’t open to being approached.”

Come on dude. If you’ve read anything on this website you know that’s a ridiculous thing to say, almost to the point where I feel like you don’t deserve any advice. And on top of that I know for a fact there’s tons of hot chicks in Portland.

Get your head out of your ass and man up.

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Finding girls for long term relationships? 01 Dec 2017 05:02 #295126

Thanks for the feedback. Here to clear up 2 things:

1. Didn't want to come across as "braggy" or whatever, but I'm at 39 lays. I used to have an account here but I cleared it out to start a new chapter for other reasons a few years ago. I've had a lot of experience dating, and at this point I'm picky in terms of personality.
2. It is not. You're right. But I'm talking about a lot of SJW offended types are not open to it, and there are quite a few. My statement was too broad.
3. I'm an emotional and sensitive person. Not in the trigger safe space pussy way, but in the wanting others to be happy and caring how others treat me - way. Which is why the anonymous sex stuff isn't really my scene anymore, and why I don't want to jump in dick first if I can help it.

I've been walked on before, which helps me the whole not getting walked on again part.

Anyway, does that help clear more up?
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Finding girls for long term relationships? 01 Dec 2017 06:18 #295128

Go on as many dates as possible. If you don’t care about getting laid quickly then see how that works out for you to move slower.

But if all the 39+ girls you’ve banged have bad/disqualifying personalities, and that’s the reason you haven’t locked any down as a gf, then the personality problem is likely yours.

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Finding girls for long term relationships? 01 Dec 2017 12:00 #295134

the implication wrote: Thanks for the feedback. Here to clear up 2 things:

1. Didn't want to come across as "braggy" or whatever, but I'm at 39 lays. I used to have an account here but I cleared it out to start a new chapter for other reasons a few years ago. I've had a lot of experience dating, and at this point I'm picky in terms of personality.
2. It is not. You're right. But I'm talking about a lot of SJW offended types are not open to it, and there are quite a few. My statement was too broad.
3. I'm an emotional and sensitive person. Not in the trigger safe space pussy way, but in the wanting others to be happy and caring how others treat me - way. Which is why the anonymous sex stuff isn't really my scene anymore, and why I don't want to jump in dick first if I can help it.

I've been walked on before, which helps me the whole not getting walked on again part.

Anyway, does that help clear more up?


the problem is you kinda have to sleep with a bunch of girls to find a good girlfriend.

you REALLY dont know someone until you've been fucking them for a while. i dont know of a way around this.

and i knew exactly what you meant, talking about portland, but it doesn't matter it's nonsense.
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Finding girls for long term relationships? 01 Dec 2017 18:12 #295147

#1 Tip:

Stop looking for "good girls" online

The chance of that is like finding a unicorn.

Personally, online = quick and easy, likely dumb and entitled/shit personality, sloots
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Finding girls for long term relationships? 09 Dec 2017 06:52 #295489

Bad Idea Bear wrote:
you REALLY dont know someone until you've been fucking them for a while. i dont know of a way around this.


Can you explain what you mean by this? Cause in a way I know what you're talking about, but in the past, if I had gone on maybe one more date/hung out one more time with a girl, I could have picked up on something.

And you were right about portland. Two days ago I met a girl in my building, got her number, and next day we actually made out in my apartment. Which is ridiculous cause I haven't done something like that in...years. She might turn out to be a flake but it proved you right - it's definitely possible.

whiteknightrises wrote: Stop looking for "good girls" online


Honestly for now at least, I couldn't agree more. I even tried match, which is supposed to be better, and nope - maybe less "trashy" but still just bleh annoying girls.

I honestly might just start doing basic guy game around town to meet new girls/see what happens.
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Finding girls for long term relationships? 09 Dec 2017 13:47 #295496

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Finding girls for long term relationships? 09 Dec 2017 20:00 #295506

Yeah an old friend of mine met her boyfriend on okcupid so it's definitely possible.

Yeah I used to use the online dating for just sex purposes but guess I'll just have to find girls I'm interested in messaging. It's harder now than it used to be cause I definitely have a list of things I'm not cool with (won'ts) I guess - ie no stoners.
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