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Most people post "how do I keep a fuckbuddy around," however i'm looking to do the opposite:
My first ever consistent fuckbuddy was a girl from my town (we matched on tinder) and she's decent; cool personality but not that attractive. Anyways, we've had sex a good number of times for the past month but I will admit that I only did so because of limited options, and plus I'm not super experienced when it comes to banging new girls. I thought "why not, let's get some experience in." Progressively though the excitement/attraction just went lower and lower and now I have zero interest in fucking her. I think part of it is because recently I just started seeing/screwing two new chicks AKA: I have more attractive options now.
If this girl wasn't in my town then I would ghost her but I know at some point in the near future I'm going to run into her at the bar and we have mutual friends (kind of a tight knit town). she texts me or snapchats me frequently saying "wanna fuck?" "Are you free tonight?" And I'm left with making up some dumb excuse lol. So guys, I wanna seek some advice how to let her go without being TOO much of an asshole.
Im not that experience in the fuckbuddy department yet.
I always like to keep them around for as long as possible tho.
But just be straight up, (i met somebody i like), or whatever bullshit you can come up.
Way better than just dissapearing
But she will tell with time, even if you dont tell her, and she will just stop going for you. Its inevitable.
2 Ways, the "nice" way and the "cold" way. Whichever way you choose is up to you.
The Cold way is to simply keep rescheduling and ghost her. If she asks why you keep avoiding her (and she probably won't confront you over it) just make time then go back to ignoring her/continually rescheduling untill she gets the hint.
The "nice" way is to meet with her and tell her face to face that you don't want to keep seeing her and give a reason why. You can lie or tell the truth.
The "nice" way might change how she tells the story to her friends and limit the badmouthing of you to her friends or it might make her throw a drink in your face and freak out.
I try and go the nice route when I can, purely because of personal reasons and I don't want the Girl to cause trouble socially speaking, especially if we are in the same circles. I normally lie by twisting the truth.
The last time I did this I just found the Girl hotter with her clothes on and couldn't bring myself to fuck her. So I had coffee with her and said "I want to give it another go with my ex Sarah and I can't do that if I'm sleeping with you"
It's up to you which route you go but they seem to be the most obvious and easiest routes.
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